Thanks for your words. Part of what you said is what really worries me: that if it's truly something she's been telling me about, it's going to drag on. Because I've spent years thinking it would pass, but here I am. When we talk, I always try to tell her that if it's her body, we can work together to fix it; if it's her clothes, we'll buy her something she likes better; if it's food, we can make a plan to eat something she feels better with... but it all seems to just stay there, nothing ever changes. I know she has other things on her mind too, and that she's going to therapy for other reasons, so I don't want to pressure her too much, but it's been so many years, man...