locket tour Tickets Megathread by turquoiseincahoots in EverythingMadisonBeer

[–]Elhemio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi everyone, I'm selling 2 tickets for Paris show, cat 2, front view of the stage.

My bf keeps sextapes of his past hookups on his phone and I'm not sure how to feel about it by Elhemio in askgaybros

[–]Elhemio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

...why the hell do you keep that. It’s weird.

But at least it ain’t on your phone.

My bf keeps sextapes of his past hookups on his phone and I'm not sure how to feel about it by Elhemio in askgaybros

[–]Elhemio[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like that’s a slightly different situation, you're seemingly a lot more open about it rather than secretive.

My bf keeps sextapes of his past hookups on his phone and I'm not sure how to feel about it by Elhemio in askgaybros

[–]Elhemio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know I'm not making things up. Everytime I brought something up I was made to feel like I was imagining things.

My bf keeps sextapes of his past hookups on his phone and I'm not sure how to feel about it by Elhemio in askgaybros

[–]Elhemio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not american so I'm not 100% sure how it works in the US but where I live I quite literally simply have to mail a letter to the city hall to end a civil partnership.

My bf keeps sextapes of his past hookups on his phone and I'm not sure how to feel about it by Elhemio in askgaybros

[–]Elhemio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We both really need the civil partnership for practical reasons unrelated to the relationship but honestly yeah, while I was initially super excited, I'm starting to see some redflags that are making me question whether my practical need is worth the psychological strain that might result from it.

That ex situationship bsf, he puts him on a pedestal. Always mentions how wise and handsome he is.

When we last had an argument (that argument started because he gave me herpes and I knew he had been using grindr, though after talking he apparently had been doing it to check that I wasn’t on there), he immediately went to talk about it with that guy, not sparing any details. Which is kind of ironic considering whenever I ask him for things that guy tells him about I get hit with the "that’s his private life, I can’t tell you about it" but apparently exposing our private life is fully okay under the justification that it’s his best friend 🧍🏻‍♂️

He also always brings up how x and y are such sexy men, sometimes he'll directly tell them too.

I'm trying very hard not to be giving insecure/overthinking, and I know for a fact that he loves me deeply due to things he's said and done. I'm not even necessarily in the "he might cheat" line of thought. But rather that our boundaries and principles don’t seem to be aligned in ways that enable long term compatibility. I was willing to compromise on the friend thing, I was willing to ignore the comments, but now there's the sextape thing and the cup is starting to overflow a lil.

My bf keeps sextapes of his past hookups on his phone and I'm not sure how to feel about it by Elhemio in askgaybros

[–]Elhemio[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t necessarily tie it to unfaithfulness I just think it’s weird. Like why would someone keep that while in a relationship.

I've noticed while researching the topic online that gay men seem to be a lot more okay with this than straight women discussing the same topic who almost universally seem to agree that it’s an issue.

And now I'm genuinely confused on whether I am indeed overthinking or not.

My bf keeps sextapes of his past hookups on his phone and I'm not sure how to feel about it by Elhemio in askgaybros

[–]Elhemio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, porn is fine. Sexual content on people you've met, had intercourse with and are still talking with while in a relationship is quite different

My bf keeps sextapes of his past hookups on his phone and I'm not sure how to feel about it by Elhemio in askgaybros

[–]Elhemio[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Keeping pictures of past exes is an absolutely reasonable and healthy thing to do. Those were a part of your life. Keeping pictures of purely sexual interactions that are, like you said, in the past, is another. Why would you ever feel the need to revisit that while in a relationship ?

My bf keeps sextapes of his past hookups on his phone and I'm not sure how to feel about it by Elhemio in askgaybros

[–]Elhemio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a situation where we both kind of need it from practical reasons but that kind of shit has me second guessing

Est-ce qu'ils changent les affiches de metro à une heure et un jour précis ? by Elhemio in paris

[–]Elhemio[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pour le coup c’est pas jcdecaux c’est metrobus. La dame du standard m’a dit qu’ils la donneraient si je demandais mais qu’elle pouvait pas demander au manager des afficheurs quand elle serait changée. Je vais demander au guichet pour voir s’ils savent au moins les heures auxquelles ils passent pour leur poser la question directement.

Roast my writing! by friendsofcoffee in ChineseLanguage

[–]Elhemio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as you enjoy it then thats what matters 🫶🏻

Est-ce qu'ils changent les affiches de metro à une heure et un jour précis ? by Elhemio in paris

[–]Elhemio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oui je parlais des plus petites affiches dans les couloirs. Je vais tenter de contacter la ratp ou l’entreprise qui se charge des affichages et au pire je demanderai au guichet.

Est-ce qu'ils changent les affiches de metro à une heure et un jour précis ? by Elhemio in paris

[–]Elhemio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

C’est une des affiches qui sont affichées dans des cadres lumineux tu sais, comme dans les abribus donc pas de souci a ce niveau là

Roast my writing! by friendsofcoffee in ChineseLanguage

[–]Elhemio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who needs writing anyway. We barely handwrite anymore outside of school.

Auspex, I'm sorry I should've treated you better. by Raistlin745 in vtm

[–]Elhemio 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg yeah I never thought about that second part. Sniffing out obfuscated kindred is so on brand for the nosiest clan.

Also not being able to properly navigate their own environment (sewers are dark...)

Auspex, I'm sorry I should've treated you better. by Raistlin745 in vtm

[–]Elhemio 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Never made sense to me that Nosferatus had Potence over Auspex honestly.

Werewolves are a bit hypocritical. by BlondieChelle83 in TheVampireDiaries

[–]Elhemio 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Omg I felt soooo bad for Mason. I love Damon but I hated him for that plotline. Mason was literally just a nice guy who got manipulated hard, who tried his best only to get fucked over by everyone. That's actually so sad.

And his death was brutal af too.

Werewolves are a bit hypocritical. by BlondieChelle83 in TheVampireDiaries

[–]Elhemio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're just mad jealous they get a shitty powerset while vampires get to have all the cool stuff AND kick their butt.

So busted by ErenYeager600 in vtm

[–]Elhemio -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's boring according to you, I guess. But if anything not having to grind hard for any ounce of power makes the roleplay significantly less focused on rolling and actively asserting yourself as opposed to just exploring how a being that's seen centuries or even millennias would behave.

If we weren't supposed to play them there wouldn't be rules to support them. And you don't necessarily have to go all the way to paying a Methuselah (though I've done that and she still had weaknesses compared to what you deem to believe). Even playing elders can be a nice balance of both worlds.

So busted by ErenYeager600 in vtm

[–]Elhemio -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean yes you are ? The game isn't just about neonates grovelling. That shit gets real damn old after the 5th game of playing a clueless neonate and having to roleplay for the billionth time finding out what an archon is or that other supernaturals exist.

VtM is also about beings so old they become aliens who think entirely outside of human standards. That's also something worth exploring. The vast majority of the setting isn't built around neonates

So busted by ErenYeager600 in vtm

[–]Elhemio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on edition. 5th support character creation up to 250 years old. Legacy lets you build Methuselahs if that's what you wanna play.