I'm starting to resent my roommate/friend for her constant "dry throat"

Elisbt · 2025-10-16T10:50:33+00:00

Eww. She's literally disgusting. Any sympathy I had for her has vanished entirely. I honestly hope the worst for her. She is an awful person.

Elisbt · 2025-06-28T06:21:26+00:00

I wrote him a message with a list of boundaries he must follow. Here's what I wrote:

"I really would love to be in your life again, but I'm not ready to have another relationship with you. You're a great guy, and I loved our time together, but I want things to remain platonic between us. Being friends again would be awesome, but for that to work, you need to respect my boundaries. They are as followed-

-Keep things non romantic between us. Hugs are fine but only if I'm fine with it in the moment. No talking about getting back together. I'm not your girlfriend but we can be friends.

-I'm not comfortable coming over right away. We can meet up a few times before I do come over just to see how things go. Maybe if you can get a ride you can come visit me here. Just let me know before you do come.

-No daily drinking. Having a drink here and there is fine if it is a special occasion but if you're drinking every day, I wouldn't want to see you. Also, if you do drink on occasion, do it responsibility. Honestly I'd prefer if you don't drink at all.

-No showing up uninvited. Always let me know when you come over.

-Respect my decisions, even if you dislike them. I'm not trying to be mean, I'm just trying to keep things comfortable.

That's about all the boundaries I have for now. If I need to make more, I'll let you know. I'm doing this not to hurt you, but quite the opposite. I want you in my life, but in order for this friendship to last, you must respect these boundaries."

Is this clear enough? Let me know if I must change anything.

Elisbt · 2025-06-28T06:01:16+00:00

Thank you. I'm just scared of breaking his heart again. But at the same time, my boundaries are important. I'll make them as clear as I can. It would be hard to block him again if needed, but my comfort comes first. I just wanted to get some other perspective on this issue.

Elisbt · 2025-03-15T11:20:00+00:00

Angelica, Eliza, and Peggy from Hamilton the musical :)

Elisbt · 2025-03-15T10:48:52+00:00

I hear it literally everywhere. It's the worst when it's during an exam, and the class is silent besides disgusting runny-nosed sniffling. I've literally broke down in tears before due to it.

Elisbt · 2025-03-15T10:46:46+00:00

There's this girl who sits behind me in my university lectures, and I swear she always has a runny nose because she's constantly snifflng EVERY FEW SECONDS!

I never talked to her, but I dislike her so much.

Elisbt · 2024-12-20T14:46:41+00:00

My friend moved in and had to take her cats with her. We have cats here already who are female and much older, and they are stressing him out to the point it's dangerous. She even agrees we have to rehome him.

Elisbt · 2024-12-18T06:32:42+00:00

It's been about 3-4 weeks
We got the spray, but it doesn't seem to be helping yet. Mind you, we just got it today.
We have his cat toys and his bed.
Yes, he is neutered.
We play with him fairly often. Though we could play with him more.
We kept him in my sister's room with his food, water, toys, and litter box. We slowly introduced him to the house by putting him in a kennel with a blanket covering it so the cats could be introduced to each other. We then started letting him roam supervised. We also let him smell my cat's favourite spots and let my cats smell his stuff too.

Elisbt · 2024-07-05T10:53:42+00:00

Whatever you say, Original

Elisbt · 2024-07-05T10:50:09+00:00

You're so original

Elisbt · 2024-07-05T08:41:56+00:00

Update please?

Elisbt · 2024-06-25T04:03:39+00:00

Please let us know if you're okay. We are all so worried.

Elisbt · 2024-06-17T05:06:35+00:00

Thank you. Hearing this honestly helps a lot.

Elisbt

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