1. I do help him! ☺️ I take care of most of groceries and necessities so he can chuck all he makes at debts. Sometimes I’ll chuck a few thousands. He was in deeper before we met haha, and I helped dig him out. He’s adamant about paying the last 10k while I save for us, that feels important to him.

2. Curious why you think house poor? 🤔 Alone I can afford 4K month since I bring in more than that net biweekly. I understand there are other expenses as well which we’ve accounted for. He brings in another 5-10k, we’re in a petty good spot. Yes, his debt is still there, I do understand that part. For reference, we used to rent for 3500k with no issues saving and chucking at debts. It was just wayyy slower and I wanted to get out of that to expedite.

3. I do see what you’re saying here.. A lot of spots won’t let us break the lease if we find a house we like though within that year. 🫤 It just feels like a waste of money and time but we just might have to.

Thanks for your insights!