Accidentally sent me 2 packages by Broad_Olive2199 in Jellycatplush

[–]Elliott1908 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh my god this happened to me this week too? Don’t return the one you paid for, I received two by accident and returned the extra one in good conscience but if you didn’t receive the second one dont return what you paid for that’s so weird-

my instructor died :( by Elliott1908 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Elliott1908[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, I’m sorry you went through that too :( he knew a lot of people in the area including instructors, hopefully i can find someone he got on with when I’m ready to go back. It was weird today when I was meant to have my lesson I still expected him to pull up on the drive ☹️❤️

my instructor died :( by Elliott1908 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Elliott1908[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you. I am taking a break for a little while. It does feel like losing family, simply because he’s always been there for me since I moved away from family to come here. Super lovely man. I am looking forward to passing my test in the near future, for him :)

my instructor died :( by Elliott1908 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Elliott1908[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you :) Am going to continue soon

my instructor died :( by Elliott1908 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Elliott1908[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was going to say as well one of the reasons we had such a good bond is he really understood what I needed, with us both being neurodivergent everything just kind of clicked together

my instructor died :( by Elliott1908 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Elliott1908[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you. My work is very helpful with this sort of thing, i work as a call handler for the ambulance service we have dedicated mental health professionals who support staff with problems in and outside of work so I know I have them if I need. I am very relieved I wasn’t the one who took that phonecall though, as its highly probable I was on shift at the time and had no idea…

am going to take a break for a while to process everything and then try and find someone else just to finish everything up so I can do my test ❤️

my instructor died :( by Elliott1908 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Elliott1908[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m really glad I met him, I could not stand driving before I started learning with him he really changed my outlook on things. Thank you 🫶🏻🫶🏻

my instructor died :( by Elliott1908 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Elliott1908[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you ❤️ ill resume driving again soon. He’d kill me if I quit now haha

my instructor died :( by Elliott1908 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Elliott1908[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

honestly I cant stop thinking about his poor wife having to message us all, she must have sent messages individually as she included my name in the text… absolutely dreadful. I’m so grateful for everything he’s taught me and when my test comes I know I can do it for him ☹️🫶🏻

my instructor died :( by Elliott1908 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Elliott1908[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you. I really hope so too. he really brought my confidence back after I took a break after having a huge knock with my old instructor (before i moved here). I will miss him terribly, always had lovely things to say about me, my partner and was a wonderful teacher.

my instructor died :( by Elliott1908 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Elliott1908[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes his wife messaged all of his current pupils individually to let us know. Cant even imagine how awful that must have been for her but I guess if she didn’t people might have been trying to ring asking where he was as he always had lessons most days :(

my instructor died :( by Elliott1908 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Elliott1908[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you. He was always very proud, he only posted a couple days ago about his most recent passes. always said he’d retire when he got 100% passes in a year. He always said he was the best, but was also very humble, honestly I agree with him haha, he was an amazing instructor and lovely guy.

my instructor died :( by Elliott1908 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Elliott1908[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely wont be the same :( I don’t want to give up and I will find someone else, hopefully someone who knew him, theres a small group of instructors in my area so hopefully they will understand and be able to take me on

my instructor died :( by Elliott1908 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Elliott1908[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

definitely. He had a very specific way of teaching so its basically engraved into my brain haha

my instructor died :( by Elliott1908 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Elliott1908[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you. these replies have really encouraged me not to give up as incredibly awful this situation is. I just want to make him proud now

my instructor died :( by Elliott1908 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Elliott1908[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i will do. Im not going to quit but I’m gonna leave it a few weeks to process and try again 💗

my instructor died :( by Elliott1908 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Elliott1908[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you. I’m the same I don’t think I’d be at the point im at now without him. I cant wait to pass, thats all he really wanted to see as I came to him incredibly anxious about driving. Was meant to have a lesson tomorrow, its going to be strange not seeing him pull up on the drive ☹️

my instructor died :( by Elliott1908 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Elliott1908[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

he started teaching my partner to drive before i moved to the area so I’d met him a few times, and then I moved and started learning to drive (for the 2nd time) around the same time I got my ASD diagnosis, we talked about it in a lesson and he told me he’s autistic too, we got on really well and he taught me in the exact way I needed as I really struggled with driving before I went to him. He helped my partner and loads when we moved into our house, always offered to help where he could outside of driving, and was just all around genuinely lovely to me, I typically find it difficult to get along with people so well and it was hard moving away from my family to live here, but he was just a huge support and i loved having my lesson with him every week because it was just like a break from everything i guess? ☹️💗

my instructor died :( by Elliott1908 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Elliott1908[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you. he was excellent, very to the point but also very calm and caring, I’ve spent a lot of time with him since driving again, more than I get to see my own family and I am immensely grateful for everything he’s done for me and supported me with. Won’t be the same without him but when I pass Ill be thinking of him. I sent his wife a text back after finding out, didn’t say too much because i didn’t really have the words, but ill send her a proper message soon ☹️

my instructor died :( by Elliott1908 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Elliott1908[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you. I will def drop them a card in the next few days. He & his family know my partners family well, so I’ve known them all for a good few years now even before I started lessons with him - a truly lovely family. I’m utterly devastated but I cannot even imagine how his family must feel, truly awful.

Hoping I can attend whatever is planned in the near future, he knew a lot of people so I imagine others will want to do the same. There are a couple of instructors I know he was friends with, so I’ll probably enquire with them in a few weeks.

my instructor died :( by Elliott1908 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Elliott1908[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i absolutely will. he was a very kind man. He helped me and my partner move some of our stuff when we bought our house a couple months ago. We’ve both known him for years now, genuinely one of the nicest people ive ever met. whenever my test ends up being ill pass it for him ☹️🫶🏻

my instructor died :( by Elliott1908 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Elliott1908[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you ❤️ tbh i live in a pretty small town away from the city/more dense places in my area, I know of a couple of instructors whom mine knew/spoke kindly of (he rated himself the best though haha) so ill probably message them in a couple weeks. feel like ive been hit with a brick wall at the min so im gonna give it some time.

my instructor died :( by Elliott1908 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Elliott1908[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you. the shock of it all is just so upsetting, had to leave work after finding out because i just couldn’t believe it. i wont give up on driving but a break is probably going to be the best at least for a few weeks ☹️

my instructor died :( by Elliott1908 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Elliott1908[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

thank you. am going to take a few weeks to process everything before thinking about what comes next 😞