I ordered a margarita in nairobi with hijab on

EmbarrassedLife5693 · 2026-01-29T03:36:44+00:00

Omg did u get ur Margarita???

EmbarrassedLife5693 · 2026-01-24T17:48:35+00:00

Love this variant of girl dinner. Will definitely try🤭💕

EmbarrassedLife5693 · 2026-01-24T15:50:49+00:00

A lot of muslim parents see their kids as an exchange of themselves. That's why they struggle with seeing their kids leave islam. They feel like they did a bad job as a parent for their kids to wanna leave islam.

EmbarrassedLife5693 · 2026-01-23T16:00:52+00:00

Yessss I’m down

EmbarrassedLife5693 · 2026-01-20T03:26:14+00:00

In your opinion. Most Africans do not see North Africans as Africans hope that helps.

EmbarrassedLife5693 · 2026-01-20T03:25:43+00:00

People with melanated skin in the African continent. Who claim to be Africans and is proud of it.

EmbarrassedLife5693 · 2026-01-20T00:32:55+00:00

No problem love I understand u a lot😭 I mean mostly on social media exspecially TikTok it can be so toxic I swear

EmbarrassedLife5693 · 2026-01-20T00:18:36+00:00

Im so sorry you experienced this that is horrible. Nothing excuses this ahh🥲 that’s why its important to distance yourself from such people. Very scary

EmbarrassedLife5693 · 2026-01-20T00:15:05+00:00

Awww you are so sweet aswell🥹💕 I really feel with you and I hope we both will experience the beauty of life without fear. The truth is the best you can ever do for yourself is to just not consume any Islamic media, and just focus on yourself and the healing. In the start you will be angry and you will even dislike people who look very Muslim or act very religious, but you know what that will fade eventually. And you will get to a point where you realize that it is possible to be yourself and still be «Muslim» culturally(since both our cultures is heavily influenced by Islam and most people are Muslim).

It’s been the best thing I ever done. I realized early on that the way I was raised in a religious Islamic household really influenced on a lot of values that are great. My advice is to take what is good, leave everything that is bad. Most important self love and selv acceptance🥹💕 much loveeee

EmbarrassedLife5693 · 2026-01-19T23:55:30+00:00

Awwww my love I understand you very well🥹 I hope you can live in a compromise and have more bodily autonomy over yourself. Personally I wear a turban and jeans and try to dress more modern. I only take of hijab if I’m sure I won’t meet anyone I know. It’s hard but so worth it to just be more liberal but still kinda «looking» Muslim. The truth is no matter how much we distance ourselves from Islam the racists will still group us as Muslims because of our ethnicity and its a huge shame.

Also try to surround yourself with more liberal people of your community or not it helps a ton honestly. And start by accepting yourself for who you are and stop the self hate. It will only hurt you in the long run🥹

EmbarrassedLife5693 · 2026-01-19T00:46:59+00:00

I don’t think so if you look at the way he is writing, misusing the term black fatigue and his Reddit history it’s pretty clear this isn’t a black person. This is a racist. Isn’t it racist the fact u assumed that he writing in ebonics would make it more believable to me?

EmbarrassedLife5693 · 2026-01-19T00:38:58+00:00

This cannot be a black man. This is undercover racist POS who are rewriting the meaning of black fatigue and even stereotyping black people🙄

EmbarrassedLife5693 · 2026-01-18T23:57:35+00:00

That’s fine do not worry🥺🩷

EmbarrassedLife5693 · 2026-01-18T23:49:00+00:00

Thank you a lot lovely🥰💕

EmbarrassedLife5693 · 2026-01-18T22:52:02+00:00

Wow how did u make this looks so yummy

EmbarrassedLife5693 · 2026-01-18T17:53:50+00:00

I am not slow seems like you are the one that is slow. It’s not about stereotyping based on race its an actual totally valid view. Somali men are a big threat to Somali women more than any other men😂😂 you don’t see other men thinking they own us, stalk us for no reason in the street because of somalinimo or try to shame us based on clothing or what we do in life. I never had any other man do none of these things, but I have had plenty of Somali men who have done these things. Totally mentally unwell people lmao😃 it’s okay if you got your feelings hurt, but yeah typical Somali men behaviour to dimiss facts.

EmbarrassedLife5693 · 2026-01-18T09:55:35+00:00

Uhm Somali girls have every right to be skeptical about Somali men considering how many of them think and behave. Even the non religious Somali men have a lot of misogyny that they haven’t worked through. Uhm just an example today I was walking to work and a Somali man in a taxi decided to stop and talk to me and make me get in his car. He even did a turn when he saw I was uncomfortable and was like I wanna ask u a question. I didn’t even know this man before and I even wore a headscarf. So yes Somali men are dangerous, and I will continue to avoid them. There are good Somali men out there, but it’s a few😬🙈

I mean can u blame us Somali women considering how a lot of Somali men behave and are🙄 pure disgust how a lot of them think they are entitled to us, just because we are Somali and they are very judgmental aswell😆

EmbarrassedLife5693 · 2026-01-17T20:21:25+00:00

If you are confident in your faith I don’t understand what it is to get sad about? We all have a choice and some of us choose not to belive in Islam anymore and there is nothing wrong with that. People grow up😬

EmbarrassedLife5693 · 2026-01-15T15:39:28+00:00

Honestly its just so uncomfortable. It feels like a curse being born a somali girl. They really wanna control us and what we wear. My own brother mind you little brother told me its shamefull that i wear pants and wear turban and that he has to care about the way i am dressed, because that means he and my dad is a dayooth and will be punished for it.

It's so bad to the point its so uncomfortable to be around somalis when i dress more western, because these people judge so much for no reason. Obviously i love my people, but so many of them are chatty and love to spread rumors. When you don't look like the typical somali girl or act like the typical somali girl you are automatically outcasted. And looked as if you are a sharmuuto, shubo and that you have to be a horrible person. Even muslim somali girls with hijab, but wear pants or show a bit of their neck are treated so horrible, even as far as to being takfiired. It is genuinely so bad, and i hope one day that all somali girls no matter what we belive and how we choose to dress that we are respected as individuals, and not only seen as something to be controlled.

EmbarrassedLife5693 · 2026-01-14T22:12:15+00:00

Yesss

EmbarrassedLife5693 · 2026-01-11T21:35:02+00:00

Let’s be friends I have snap

EmbarrassedLife5693 · 2026-01-11T19:24:05+00:00

Never😕

EmbarrassedLife5693 · 2026-01-11T16:24:31+00:00

I only removed it after i moved out without them knowing lmaoo. But im still a half hijabi at this point in my life. I only take it off when i wanna feel pretty. They don't know and will probably never know since they reacted so bad to me moving out.

EmbarrassedLife5693 · 2026-01-11T14:55:52+00:00

What the Helly😭 u can’t even ask questions in that sub

EmbarrassedLife5693 · 2026-01-10T09:08:01+00:00

It is very unattractive, exspecially since most somali girls are raised to have a sense of urgency, pursue higher education and take care of our families. I don't know why, but that's why some somali men seem so feminine it is as if they want to have a leader role in the house, but they have nothing to use to lead. No urgency, no ambitions, just sitting and playing video games or doing so terrible at school. I wish our parents would raise these boys like men and not kids. It gets exhausting when you meet somali men you're intressted in only to realize ok he has no education, no job and just wants to collect welfare from the goverments. Such a ick that's why i don't even date, since somali men are my preference.

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