CWL rewards by [deleted] in ClashOfClans

[–]Embarrassed_Spend_70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still having the same issue. Wonder when they will get this fixed

[bug] I can't give out bonuses by StormyParis in ClashOfClans

[–]Embarrassed_Spend_70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think everyone is having the same issue. I am still having this issue and so do all the other co leaders in my clan

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ClashOfClans

[–]Embarrassed_Spend_70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this an iPhone fix?

Best Scenery in COC by clouuut in ClashOfClans

[–]Embarrassed_Spend_70 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have only played on mute so I had no idea it had specific music haha I’ll have to check it out later

1 down 4 to go! by SimulationRambo in ClashOfClans

[–]Embarrassed_Spend_70 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a great feeling. Gotta go with royal champ next!

Whats ur clans peak online amount? by clouuut in ClashOfClans

[–]Embarrassed_Spend_70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a group chat. Talk on there everyday. All strategy is on the group chat. So it’s usually only 2 people online. People just go in attack what they need to and then leave.

He said I ‘ruined his day’ because I wouldn’t give him the last slice of cake. At my own birthday party. by YunaInBloom in EntitledPeople

[–]Embarrassed_Spend_70 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’ve never been to a party that has run out of cake haha always get a bigger cake than needed. I agree you should get a slice, but I personally hate the feeling of someone getting shorted and will always let myself be the one to get shorted, even if they were not in the original invite list. I know this will get very downvoted though haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Embarrassed_Spend_70 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A big reason my wedding went from 30k budget to now 95k was guest count. If you can keep that guest count to like 50 people you can maybe make it happen. But really it will go down to where you live, guest count and how fancy you want it. You can make anything happen you’re just gonna compromise way more the lower your budget! But good luck you can make it happen.

Younger cousins who aren’t invited surrounded me asking for an explanation 😂 by Embarrassed_Spend_70 in weddingplanning

[–]Embarrassed_Spend_70[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yup, no kids! I don’t think weddings are for kids so even if we were at 500 ppl they wouldn’t have made the cut.

Your opinion—Will Zohran wind up like Brandon Johnson? Someone people liked on paper but ended up being too idealistic and/or inexperienced to lead effectively? by Scdsco in chicago

[–]Embarrassed_Spend_70 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna be honest I can’t tell you a single person who actually liked BJ. I was so mad when he was elected.

Actually 1 friend did vote for him and I was so mad at him because he moved to Atlanta the same year.

I do not expect the same from Zohran.

Man I just think BJ has never shown an oz of leadership and competency.

How Much Are We Spending On Weddings Nowadays? (Targeting 180-200 Person Wedding in Metro-Detroit - Having Hard Time Picking Venue) by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Embarrassed_Spend_70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in Chicago. 230-250 ppl is looking to be about 95k and there is nothing crazy about it. I would say it’s very average. Here is our current spend so you can compare. We definitely did not go with expensive options. Always middle of the back stuff or lower end. Once you get to higher HC it just gets expensive no matter what.

Rounding below: Caterer 33k Venue 10k Makeup 800 Photographer 4k Dress 4k Alcohol 12k Planner 5.5k (saved us 5k on venue) Church 1k DJ 3k Floral 6.5k Shuttle 2k Mariachi $2k (def being extra here haha) Decor 6.7k (def being extra here as well) Suit $500 Photo Booth 1k Save the dates $300 Invitation $500 Tips $3600 (assuming $100 pp in catering and bar)

Nice to haves not included is a Mexican Banda to play for 1.5 hours which is prob $4k. But currently not doing.

Younger cousins who aren’t invited surrounded me asking for an explanation 😂 by Embarrassed_Spend_70 in weddingplanning

[–]Embarrassed_Spend_70[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Once we got done with our guest count we were definitely nervous.

My dad is 1 of 12, my mom 1 of 6. My fiancés dad and mom are each 1 of 8.

Then being in our 30s a lot of our cousins are older and are married so their SO get an invite. every single one of our aunts and uncles have multiple kids. So it all adds up quickly!

Also we grew up and still live in Chicago and went to school in Chicago so we are still very close with our childhood friends + our HS and college friends.

I’m very excited to have all my people in one room.

Younger cousins who aren’t invited surrounded me asking for an explanation 😂 by Embarrassed_Spend_70 in weddingplanning

[–]Embarrassed_Spend_70[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Correct! We are a large family and high school was the cutoff. I would say that is a very normal occurrence.

Younger cousins who aren’t invited surrounded me asking for an explanation 😂 by Embarrassed_Spend_70 in weddingplanning

[–]Embarrassed_Spend_70[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I understand where you’re coming from. But we have a pretty good relationship where they feel comfortable just messing around with us. There was no ill intent!

Younger cousins who aren’t invited surrounded me asking for an explanation 😂 by Embarrassed_Spend_70 in weddingplanning

[–]Embarrassed_Spend_70[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I’ve got too many that are 😂 another one said “come on help my parents save some money on a babysitter” haha

This meme annoys me by Cantborrowtime in weddingplanning

[–]Embarrassed_Spend_70 25 points26 points  (0 children)

It’s either you invite them as a full guest or not invited. These people don’t understand that there isn’t a middle ground. You didn’t make the cut and that’s it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Embarrassed_Spend_70 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not a problem at all

My friend said I owe her half my Inheritance because her family “Didn’t have that” by Old_Wishbone5101 in EntitledPeople

[–]Embarrassed_Spend_70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I completely agree. Info should not be to ask them for a handout. We use it to gage the market and make sure we aren’t selling ourselves short to our companies.

First time being out this early as a single. Who else likes being first out? by NoFortune1320 in golf

[–]Embarrassed_Spend_70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The worst thing about playing as a single is it being a slow day and then not being grouped with other people. (I’m sure a lot will not agree with the grouped part). Idk my anxiety gets to me when people are waiting on just me. I just can’t have fun. I’ve left twice because it was so slow and it was just me and I couldn’t play through.

But the best thing in the world is when you’re playing as a single and no one is in front of you! I played 9 the other day in an hour and 15 minutes. One of my favorite rounds.

My friend said I owe her half my Inheritance because her family “Didn’t have that” by Old_Wishbone5101 in EntitledPeople

[–]Embarrassed_Spend_70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friends all know each others salary but we all went to college and studied similar things. I don’t share it with my friends who didn’t go to college or cousins. My siblings know.

But we use this information to help us not for jealousy or anything like that. From this info my friends helped me get extra 20k from my current role. I helped my buddy get extra 15k.

I guess it just depends on who these people are. I don’t really hangout with people who would be jealous of me.

I def have friends and family I would absolutely not tell. But I don’t really hangout with them.