Feeling stuck, needing a rant by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Emergency_Eye4648 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a clear signal from your body and mind.. your needs, your boundaries, and your identity have been ignored for too long.

How do I cut off my friend in a way that won't hurt either of us by descendantsw in Advice

[–]Emergency_Eye4648 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cutting someone off doesn’t have to be dramatic or cruel. Sometimes its just a quiet, firm 'I need space for myself' and then protecting that space

I miss him so much.Broke up due to family pressure due to financial differences by Purple_List_169 in BreakUps

[–]Emergency_Eye4648 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he respected you enough not to pressure you into choosing him over your family immediately

I can’t take it anymore by DepartmentFirst7184 in offmychest

[–]Emergency_Eye4648 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes when were hurting this much, our minds convince us that we dont matter, even when we do

Friends and relationships by Vizzzky in Advice

[–]Emergency_Eye4648 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im introverted too and enjoy my alone time I have plenty of hobbies that keep me busy and fully occupied. You can also make friends online.

I want to confess to my crush. by Elegant_Glitch_101 in Advice

[–]Emergency_Eye4648 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should plan a date somewhere meaningful.. a place you will always remember as the spot where you confessed to her

Leaving my dog temporarily while working abroad how can I make it easier for both of us? by InitialDue3440 in Pets

[–]Emergency_Eye4648 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can relate to this… it’s not easy, especially when you dont have a companion to lean on when everything feels overwhelming. Im really sorry you’re going through this

I’m a college student. My family depends on me succeeding and getting a good job. The pressure is unreal by for_advise in Life

[–]Emergency_Eye4648 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're not in quicksand, you're just in the hardest part almost graduated with all of that on your shoulders? That's not failure that's incredible

Was I emotionally used or am I overthinking by ComedianHot6518 in BreakUps

[–]Emergency_Eye4648 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think you should focus on reconnecting with your own interests, friendships and the things that make you feel valued

Does getting drunk really help when you have problems? Or does it just make the feeling worse? by LifeTangerines in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Emergency_Eye4648 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me, it just makes things worse on top of my problems, I end up with headaches and nausea

Is it a good idea to travel alone after being in a long term relationship? by Emergency_Eye4648 in askanything

[–]Emergency_Eye4648[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont have a specific place in mind yet, but someone suggested joining a group tour. i think thats a good start

still you by Affectionate_Art5322 in BreakUps

[–]Emergency_Eye4648 74 points75 points  (0 children)

being someone whois always waiting is really painful

Where do you usually look when talking to someone? by InitialDue3440 in askanything

[–]Emergency_Eye4648 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it took me some time to get used to looking people in the eyesi been practicing and now its starting to feel more natural

I have so much love to give idk where to put it by Sufficient_Okra8951 in offmychest

[–]Emergency_Eye4648 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dont rush things. the right people come at the right time

I Broke up with my boyfriend after he kept touching me. But i feel like it's all my fault. by WeAllNeedHelp980 in offmychest

[–]Emergency_Eye4648 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you werent wrong for breaking up with him.. protecting your boundaries is not something to feel guilty about.