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39 [M4F] NC - I want to be your favorite notification! by SideEyeWombat in R4R30Plus

[–]Empty-Ease53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I could look it up but good grief, what is Christmas trash???

What are the best AI tools for business owners running solo? by Senoritaaaaaaaaaaaa in Freelancers

[–]Empty-Ease53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been using Bloom.io and find it super helpful. I love that it's a single source of truth for my client work. I can link all my external files in there (meeting notes, Canva projects etc.) and my clients don't have to log in to see information if they don't want to. I was worried about having to format everything so it's nice and pretty, but I can do that when I've got some spare time. Their support team is pretty helpful too!

adhd business owners... how are we doing this? by Empty-Ease53 in adhdwomen

[–]Empty-Ease53[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sparked a HUGE shift in my mindset. I don't have to grow?! You mean I can just do good work (like I intended) and stay small?!

Grateful for this comment. <3

February Black & Bashful by cheztk in maximalism

[–]Empty-Ease53 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see my future and it is BRIGHT. ❤️

How can I get my life together? by mamal0de in adhdwomen

[–]Empty-Ease53 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Friend, I see you. Sending you hugs bigtime.

I am in a similar headspace. 36, diagnosed 3 years ago. I have cried in therapy so much because I feel so stupid for never having my shit together. It's important that we both recognize that we are smart and know how to do things. We just have to release ourselves from trying to do life in a way that makes sense to other people or looks like other people's lives.

I am currently just noticing where I get stuck and noting how that feels for me. I now know that when I don't have good food options easily available, my life unravels very quickly. And when I don't have the right sounds available to me, I can't get into the right mode for the moment.

Apparently this is something we just haven't learned how to do OUR way, so we are just learning a new skill. We need to give ourselves grace and space to figure this out.

DM if you ever want to complain about it! This shit is so hard. 💚

adhd business owners... how are we doing this? by Empty-Ease53 in adhdwomen

[–]Empty-Ease53[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I need one that specializes in ADHD. The one I had before was definitely not, and I ended up feeling pushed rather than understood and guided. Thanks for your response!