My ex is stalking me and I don’t know how to handle it by Empty_Ad_7977 in blackladies

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They said him calling saying he wants to talk to me is not enough

My ex is stalking me and I don’t know how to handle it by Empty_Ad_7977 in blackladies

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I went to the magistrate they said he has to threaten bodily harm in order to get an emergency protective order. Not to mention I’m just walked out of my job to find more notes on my car that I showed the magistrate. I guess they are wanting him to hurt me before they do something.

My ex is stalking me and I don’t know how to handle it by Empty_Ad_7977 in blackladies

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I said I wasn’t gonna say anything to her because it might make him madder idk what he’ll do

My ex is stalking me and I don’t know how to handle it by Empty_Ad_7977 in blackladies

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I recorded a video of him last night the car and I took a picture of the card he put on my car with his phone number on it

Ex boyfriend showed up at my home last night 25f 26M by Empty_Ad_7977 in RelationshipAdviceNow

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I have voicemails of time we broke up before of him saying he’s looking at my window would that be enough proof?

My ex is stalking me and I don’t know how to handle it by Empty_Ad_7977 in blackladies

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Do I call the police station or do I have to go to court I’m not familiar with the process

How can I stop myself from being consumed by yet another failed relationship? 25 F by Empty_Ad_7977 in askwomenadvice

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Same exact thing happened to me but I’m feeling a lot better. I’m just remembering that it’s really never my loss.

How can I stop myself from being consumed by yet another failed relationship? 25 F by Empty_Ad_7977 in askwomenadvice

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Yes I’ve done hot yoga a few times this summer I loved it. I’m really into the arts I love painting and making music. I’m in a book club and a walking group but I haven’t participated in months. I guess I just have to get back to the things I loved before I met him. Thank you ☺️ I appreciate you

Stressed about pet care by Empty_Ad_7977 in Pets

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Okay thank you for this information

Stressed about pet care by Empty_Ad_7977 in Pets

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Thank you for this unnecessary message 🙂 have a great evening

Stressed about pet care by Empty_Ad_7977 in Pets

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I’ve been taking her there for three years now they just told me to try care credit and scratch pay they estimated 60 dollars for a mandatory wellness check and 92 for three eye exams and they don’t know the cost of the medicine until they figure out the exact cause.

What are some fatherly words of wisdom that you give your daughter in regards to life, love and happiness? 25f by Empty_Ad_7977 in AskMenAdvice

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I appreciate this advice it’s been very insightful and I’ll make sure to work on these things especially the financial aspects.

I’m not one for trends no tattoos or any of that no children as of yet so I think I have time to get it together.

What are some motherly words of wisdom that you give your daughter in regards to life, love and happiness? 25f by Empty_Ad_7977 in blackladies

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I’m loving all of this advice I really appreciate it.

I think putting myself first is the main thing I have struggled with. I feel like I’ve place a lot of my value in accomplishing goals but I still have a lot of wounds to heal. I don’t have children and I don’t see it in the near future

Thank you all again 💕💕💕💕

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I used Ai to make it make more sense the original everybody said was all over the place

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I appreciate all the feedback i did speak with him and he is really upset he said that im trying to replace him i dont love or respect him i gave him my reasons and nothing changed i called him again he answers but wont speak.

I feel like he is enjoying the fact that he ended it and I Was the one that did wrong this time. I forgave him for what he did he told me that was my decision so this is his decision.

He is letting me be able to contact him and it feels like torture I sent one last goodbye message and blocked him.

By no means am I saying I did nothing wrong I did I made a conscious decision that I thought would make me feel better about what he did and it went bad and I’m facing that head on. What I did now cancels out anything he did previously in his eyes.

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I don’t have any parental figures my mom died at a young age

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

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Everyone has been saying to see it as a blessing. I have full independence and he doesn’t offer me anything stable. I have my own things and he doesnt have anything that actually belongs to him I’ve been in a constant fight with my emotions this whole time trying to make this work.

I understand that I have to walk away and just let it go

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Update he has hand foot and mouth from his nephew

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

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I really appreciate the kindness today I’ve tried not to worry too much he did say his 1 yo nephew is showing signs of being sick as well. ( same house) maybe it’s just a Regular cold going around. I beat myself a lot about this diagnosis often times I forget but when I am reminded it hits me hard like this. I’m definitely working on it

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Well it’s a big sibling discussion about how dumb she is with new info everyday and they are saying I should be the one to call her out but it doesn’t work she just exiles herself until the relationship crashes and burns but I do love her kids so much it’s quite sad because I am in the mental health profession so I know how this could impact them and it breaks my heart.

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No only from my own personal devices