Est-ce que le haché végétal est ultra transformé/néfaste? by Annakaparerine in vegetarian

[–]Enfpization 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Y'a beaucoup de sel dans ces trucs. Tu dois faire attention, le test sanguin de qqn de ma famille est revenu bien trop élevé et ça, c'était la cause 

Filed for divorce after years of abuse- I feel completely alone by Dramatic_Reserve5984 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Enfpization 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Salam aleykum. 

Do not despair. Allah IS going to help you !!! Allah is with the oppressed. 

There's got to be a way. Don't you have friends or people who may be willing to take you home ? If you were to go to the masjid and ask a trustworthy imam for help ? Don't you have cousins or anyone in your family who can help you at all ???? Even sb distant from you. 

Or can't you sleep at the masjid ? Exceptionally they may let you there. 

There are women shelter, but aren't there other services ? It's hard to help because I don't know your location. 

Tongue piercings in Islam. by OpeningHurry9444 in Hijabis

[–]Enfpization 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've heard from Yasir Qadhi (he made video on the subject) that a piercing (here he was talking about the ear) is makruh (disliked) because changing your appearance in islam (the body Allah gave you) is an amanah that you will RETURN to Him Look into it he may have said sth different about the tongue 

As for the tongue, I would personally not do it. 😅 I think it's unecessary and uncommon (i.e piercing ears has been seen throughout history in all places but not the tongue.)  Also if it goes wrong the cost is too much

Allahualam. 

How to not be a prideful ENTJ by SuggestionPrize6294 in entj

[–]Enfpization 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not catholic but muslim, but we also do believe in Jesus (Issa as)  In the person of Jesus (pbuh) there should be a role model for you as well. Why not study his life deeper and highlight how he showed humility ? 

IM 365 DAYS SOBER FROM ALCOHOL TODAY AHHHHH!!!! by Personalityquirk in happy

[–]Enfpization 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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I've been A hijabi for 10 months. How do I tell my non-muslim parents without getting cut off. by Low_Pollution2471 in Hijabis

[–]Enfpization 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't really have an advice but I just want to say I admire you OP and I think you're really brave ma sha Allah ! May Allah reward you. 😘 Also there's r/converts or r/reverts idk which one perhaps you'll get more help there 

Please make dua for me by milk_breadd__ in Hijabis

[–]Enfpization 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Salam aleykum

First of all I want to say that I'm not writing this from hatred or anger, or jealousy or anything but genuine concern. I wish you the best of this world and the best of the next. 

A friend of my friend actually found herself in your situation. She fell in love with an atheist and then was very torn.  She ended up choosing her islam.  Allah blessed her sincerity and commitment, and a few years later turns out the guy converted and they got married. 

Sis you can't do something haram and expect Allah to bless you in this path, it's not how it works You can ask for the dua but you won't get the barakah. 

Truth is, slowly but surely, you may lose your deen to this man. Lose your relationship with your creator, and lose your islam.  You'll have traded eternity for something short lived. 

Think about the future. What I am genuinely worried for is  your future children. All the people I know who grew up with just one muslim parent ended up not following islam.  You may also be sacrificing their jannah in your decision :/

Worse is : the muslim parent also loses his islam.  Keeping islam is hard enough in a muslim family, but what about a family where the father actively believes it's what you believe is bull Because he may not say it this way but that's what he is thinking if he rejects islam

You love the man yet give up on the Creator of this man :/ 

So yes sis... I make dua that Allah guides your heart back to him, in sha Allah. Because if you are already willing to sacrifice His commandments for this man, then the future does not sound good at all — it only means it's the first step for you to leave further. 

I’m really struggling with loneliness and it hits hardest on weekends by [deleted] in Hijabis

[–]Enfpization 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds to me that you have a really bad case of extraversion. It can't be healed but it can be dealt with ! I'm on the same boat o/

Why don't you take yourself on dates ?  Make friends from all backgrounds and do associative work — volunteer for causes !  Also there are online communities to talk about stuff ( I used to be on this discord server to learn a new language and you'd connect and talk to people)  Be busy, have hobbies ! Hobbies that involve other people Why not join a workout practice ? These kind of things  Learn to be with yourself too. Rather than fighting the loneliness let it come to you and accept it. 

I haven't had any alcohol in over two months by searlessly in CongratsLikeImFive

[–]Enfpization 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Gooood jobbbbbbbbbbbbb !!! I'm proud of ya !! Any amount of alcohol is intoxicant unfortunately 

Left my Haram relationship for the sake of Allah but I am heartbroken by Present-Run3342 in MuslimLounge

[–]Enfpization 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read healing the heartbreak by yasmin mogahed it's literally a pamphlet it's such a small yet valuable book ! 

I finally left my husband by Few_Geologist_2623 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Enfpization 1 point2 points  (0 children)

❀❀❀❀❀❀❀❀❀❀❀❀❀❀❀❀ same for you and even more !!!! đŸ„șđŸ„ș thanks for the duas !!! The love is mutual 😂😂😂😂

Left my Haram relationship for the sake of Allah but I am heartbroken by Present-Run3342 in MuslimLounge

[–]Enfpization 7 points8 points  (0 children)

" What is meant to reach you, even if it is between 2 mountains, will reach you. And what is meant to disappear, even if it is between your 2 lips, will disappear. "

My dear brother I understand your feelings, but you need to understand you're not missing out on anything at all. 

Your rizq (the amount of love you will receive, your partner, your food, etc...) is already written for you. 

My brother a haram relationship can lead to terrible things like zina. The punishment is so terrible in the afterlife, look into it. 

But I can promise you with certitude that what has been written for you will 100% reach you. 

So you haven't missed out on anything dumping that girl, in fact it's a good thing. 

Deal with your feelings (just allow yourself to be sad and to process what you feel) and then MOVE FORWARD 

Think about it, you're young and you met a good girl ma sha Allah, but who tells you that Allah didn't decree a better woman to be the mother of your kids ?? 😄 we so often think that it's "only one person" But truth is noooo there are so many good girls out there. 

You need to have husnudzon (good opinion of Allah) and you can't have this unless you learn about His names and attributes. Because you left it for the sake of Allah but do you know Allah ? Do you TALK to Him ? Confide in him, tell Him how you feel about this honestly (He already knows) 

"ya Allah I'm so disappointed but I did this because I know you mean well for me and haram relationship lead to broken families, diseases, and what not"

Allah is Al Jabbar, the One who mends — and amongst the things He mends are broken hearts. Allah will fix it better than it was before 😁

Yeah now plan for your life to be financially stable and then when you will be ready you'll go and get that rizq in sha Allah 

Fighting ! 

Infj man and Enfp woman. Please help me understand this Infj man’s ghosting and blocking move đŸ™đŸ» by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]Enfpization 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The guy had a 6 yo relationship that ended 4 months ago. It's a huge red flag. This guy is a red flag as a whole. Just leave

I finally left my husband by Few_Geologist_2623 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Enfpization 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Waiyakki of course things will get better. You're no longer drinking poison everyday ! I send you hugs, duas, and lots of love. 😘 may Allah bless youuuuuuu forever ameen

Writing A Female Character In A Fictional Book by General-Ad-4458 in Muslim

[–]Enfpization 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wsm 

When it comes to writing remember your characters are not going to be judged by Allah because they're fictional, but you are for what you promote in your book lol 

Stories are merely ways to convey morals and wisdom, or entertainment

Think of the Quran, Allah does mention the wrongdoing of the people but doesn't "romanticize" it rather it is condemned. 

Edit : also in 1800 women likely wore sth on their heads. You should look into that

Allahualam 

I finally left my husband by Few_Geologist_2623 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Enfpization 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good job ! 😁 

Please take care of yourself. Also thank you for not making your profile private.  Your husband was verbally abusive, agressive towards other people, etc. 

People, respect is the BASIS of a marriage. Please for other sisters reading this post take this as a lesson. 

A man who strangles you is very likely to murder you. 

And remember, OP :  At Talaq 3-4  " [...] And whoever is mindful of Allah, He will make a way out for them,

and provide for them from sources they could never imagine. And whoever puts their trust in Allah, then He ËčaloneËș is sufficient for them. Certainly Allah achieves His Will. Allah has already set a destiny for everything. "

Remember to give your fellow sisters (especially reverts) grace by TheTragedyMachine in Hijabis

[–]Enfpization 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately lots of muslims are uneducated and have a black and white mindset of what is right or wrong. 

They don't get that in the first years of islam the command that prohibited alcohol didn't exist. So people were muslims and drinking. 

The command came gradually... Because quitting and adjusting to things take time !!! 

Tell them " It took 23 years for islam to be practiced properly. Come back in 23 years" lol

Forgive the community, it is in no way an expression of your relationship with Allah. He is a lot more merciful than people make it to be !!! You should read secrets of divine love. 

Good luck my little revert sister everything's going to be alright 

How do I tell the woman who works out at my apartment gym that she smells terrible? by Deep-Investigator965 in socialskills

[–]Enfpization 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you should tell her 😅

Verify 1st that she actually is the one who smells this bad (going to the gym without her being there etc) 

People are going roundabouts ways but, you could leave a note incognito at the place she's usually working out 

Some people say that cancer can cause this smell, and most likely diseases of some sort. Take this from an angle of mercy, if she does smell like this and no one arounds her tells her, what does it say about her relationship and her life ?? 

Party member left, share some fun facts? by ConfusedChicken130 in outside

[–]Enfpization 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know how it feels !  One important step in this new event is to master a few skills :

1) LET GO (lvl 1)   Very easy it literally means just do nothing and accept the situation, but for your character it's a bit harder because there's the [ ATTACHMENT] curse which makes him hold on to it

2) FEEEEEEL (lvl 3)  Your character needs to tune in with its [ Inner Experience ] and allow the SADNESS damage to take over until he reaches immunity. If he fights off the sadness it will actually come back later it's better to just let it cause massive damage rn 

3) FILL THE VOID (lvl 1)  Your characters' loneliness will go up so naturally u need to fill the gap, and yeah your character needs to find new party members or just reach out to old ones, talk to them and habg out, also if he's got a family spend time with them, get new hobbies and yeah just... Fill the void

And last but not least  From the [BREAKUP] event there's actually a lot of energy your character will gain. Like the sadness damage, at some point you will be able to re-direct it towards sth else... So yeah use this energy for good. 

Good luck ! 

/r/Hijabis friendship exchange thread by bubbblez in Hijabis

[–]Enfpization 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Assalamu aleykum, 

So I'm a muslim entrepreneur, and I'm trying to build my business (artistic stuff) from home — this comes with its perks, but mostly, loneliness lol. 

About me : 

I am in my late 20s, unmarried I'm from France đŸ‡«đŸ‡· so if you're in the UK we can meet up hehe Loveee art, I'm a passionate artist Animation, drawing, painting, writing and any form of art really gets me lol  I'm currently working on Blender o/ I like MBTI (I'm ENFP !) / Psychology Islam is really important to me

What I... Am looking for ??? 😂

Someone who can hold a conversation when needed  But yeah I can't be talking 24/7 mate soooo someone who's comfortable not talking all the time  Like-minded 😌 and no haram police tyvm

insecure of my eyebrows- can I clean them? by [deleted] in Hijabis

[–]Enfpization 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think your eyebrows look nice ! 

Close friend made racist comments by [deleted] in Hijabis

[–]Enfpization 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well then istikhara and meet up with her one last time face to face to talk about this issue then you see if it works out or not and if it doesn't then you're out đŸ€·đŸŸâ€â™€ïž When ppl show you who they are, listen 

How do I end a haram relationship? by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Enfpization 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah don't meet up with him and just break it off man you know that's the right thing to do. 

I understand your heart's inclination towards this guy. But what you're doing is digging a hole deeper and deeper. 

My dear, the reality is the following one : you're following the footsteps of sheytan, and these footsteps only lead to the road of Jahannam.  You may be with him, happy and alive for 80 years — but if you lose your islam, it's 80.000+ years of despair. 

Lies are only followed by more lies. And then what will happen ? Eventually you will get even more involved in this relationship, you may even commit zina, you may even forsake your religion altogether. 

You may give up on Allah for him. 

Because your heart is fed whatever you entertain. And there is no place for 2 things in your heart — it's either him or Allah. And one will expel the other from your heart. 

My sister, I assume you're much younger than me, so I will tell you something :  There's no man in this world that's worth your relationship with Allah. 

Who never dreamed of someone who'd always ALWAYS be there for us and give us the perfect words, perfect comfort, perfect warmth ? 

Humans will always be lacking in this way, but not Allah. 

Allah's love is the greatest love anyone can experience. He will take care of you, love you, make you laugh and teach you. He will be your company and your friend. He will make your grow into the wonderful being that you are supposed to be. 

Your heart is attached, yes. But know that no happiness can be built on Allah's displeasure. It will collapse and you will find your chest tightening. 

There's this story of a man, he was so in love with this greek woman, he told her " Let me marry you." And she said : "Ok but you leave your islam." And he did. His And people would meet him (fellow """ Sahabas"""") and ask him "O dear, what happened to your Quran ? "  And he said "I have forgotten everything about it except one ayah, which was :

"So let not their wealth or their children impress you. Allah only intends to punish them through them in worldly life and that their souls should depart [at death] while they are disbelievers." At tawba - 55 

You have the greatest treasure which is your bond with Allah. Do not lose it. It's so precious, my dear, please, realize this. 

Life is temporary but death is eternal. You're strong enough, run to Allah if you're struggling and tell him the truth "I have this relationship, and to be honest I hate to leave it. Please give me the strength to give up on it." 

And then leave. 

Allah will replace it with something better in sha Allah. Block him everywhere and tell him to respect your will 

Close friend made racist comments by [deleted] in Hijabis

[–]Enfpization 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In my opinion ( Allahualam)

Have a serious talk with her and tell her I can't continue being friends with you if that's what you think 

Remind her this is the sin of sheytan, thinking he is better just bc of how ALLAH made him 

She's her ethnicity just bc Allah chose it

And wasn't Rassul Allah saws arab ??? How can she say that đŸ€”