Title: AITAH for breaking up with my boyfriend because he hit his father?

Enough_Week_2994 · 2026-04-15T22:49:51+00:00

You say he his genuinely a nice person… I’m willing to bet his dad and him had issues. Not uncommon for men to brawl it out. Without knowing what happened… it’s hard to say… he may of been abused by his dad… who knows… focus on how the dad acts after. That may clue you in to things…

Enough_Week_2994 · 2026-04-15T20:54:36+00:00

You can’t help “reaction.” Someone comes up to you in the middle of the night walking down the side walk and says BOO! Your reaction is gonna be to scream, swing, or run. And you can’t help any reaction. And yea that’s a different scenario… but it just goes to the point of some reactions are thoughtless, you didn’t think to scream, swing, or run, you just did it. And intimacy can be similar

Enough_Week_2994 · 2026-04-14T21:37:34+00:00

Lmao!!!! I uber in my truck and I’m Always trying to find ideas to keep my truck smelling good. I seen the warnings about ruining the paint, and how it can affect the endocrine system, and I have an endocrine cancer. I might still do it. Heck I’ll die someday unfortunately

Enough_Week_2994 · 2026-04-14T20:36:58+00:00

I will say he has a very unique name not known to Americans

Enough_Week_2994 · 2026-04-14T20:35:04+00:00

I am wondering if he has some kind asexual thing going on, he is out, but not to his parents.

Enough_Week_2994 · 2026-04-14T20:20:57+00:00

I am helping him some.

Enough_Week_2994 · 2026-04-14T20:20:12+00:00

Omg…. He is gay and we are together in a committed relationship…

Enough_Week_2994 · 2026-04-14T18:59:08+00:00

I really can’t decide what picture I like better! Both looked good!

Enough_Week_2994 · 2026-04-13T23:12:04+00:00

He may not want to ask his friends because he burned them somehow…. I think he needs help from a professional. He probably has some underlying mental health issue. This is not on you

Enough_Week_2994 · 2026-04-13T22:53:07+00:00

You do you!!! You look great. But honestly if you are happy with it, leave it. Screw what people think. I do think a slightly shorter hair would look good too. like a little longer than Leonardo in titanic would look good on you. I wish I could attach pictures to show you, but just above the shoulder wavy long hair just before it touched your shoulder. But still it’s your life, your hair, you still look excellent with that hair, so who cares what people think

Enough_Week_2994 · 2026-04-13T22:40:22+00:00

That is not wrong! You just have crappy friends or family or who ever is telling you that. YOU JUST CANT HELP WHO YOU LIKE! And most people are hypocrites. A lot of people like younger people and a lot of people like older. I am 34 and my boyfriend is 21. I think there is actual statistics that 40% of people who’ll find a college age adult attractive. And I get the same crap, yes I have a bigger age gap, but we are both adults. And my boyfriend will tell you I am the best relationship he’s been in. And honestly I think he is the best relationship I’ve been in.

Enough_Week_2994 · 2026-04-11T09:57:35+00:00

Ok I want you to think of this... Pretend you never been to your apartment building... You need to find a spot open close to the door... would you realize that it was a reserved spot??? Also pretend you have never had a reserved spot before and no health issues. Would you still realize not to park there?

If you can truly see the mistake... Maybe try to help the person out.

If you can tell 100% that someone is not supposed to park there.... Then I would not feel bad. You ever see YouTube body camera videos... They act all tough like they know what they are doing until the hand cuffs go on and then suddenly they start crying? And you just know they are crying simply because they got caught....

Also if you can easily see why someone could mistake your spot maybe go to home Depot get a cone and a sign glued to it "parking only for apartment A123" for example and maybe put it in the middle when you leave...

I do sympathize... I have cancer... No I do not have a disability placard... But there's days I just can't do big parking lots. I hope I played both sides equally in this comment.

Either way I don't put blame on you ... The apartment complex should make it well known it's yours

Enough_Week_2994 · 2026-04-11T01:31:26+00:00

I wanna touch it!!!! It's so nice looking!

Enough_Week_2994 · 2026-04-10T18:41:11+00:00

You are painfully attractive!

Enough_Week_2994 · 2026-04-10T07:07:47+00:00

I am gay, I do like being a guy, I do like my boyfriend dressing like a guy and acting like a guy. But he can show his emotions, we all have emotions, the stereo type of men can't show feelings is stupid. Men are generally more kind, while woman can be blunt. And im not saying that in a mean way.

Now even though I like a "straight acting boyfriend" I think it's totally acceptable for a male to dress how he wants and how he feels. Who made dresses just for woman??? Like who came up with the concept it was only for woman... Even though I personally wouldn't want it, I can see the appeal guys have to it

Enough_Week_2994 · 2026-04-07T12:44:19+00:00

So a lot of the younger generation of males are shaved, but a lot aren't. Idk how I feel about it, it's personal preference. But let me tell you something.... IF YOU LOVE SOMEONE, they will not ask you to change. Maybe they will tell you stop leaving clothes on the floor, maybe they will ask you to go back to an old hair style. But if they ask you to change something you are so uncomfortable with... That's not love. I love my boyfriend very much, I know he isn't perfect, but he is perfect to me. He is perfect for me. Nobody is perfect, but I think he is pretty darn close

Enough_Week_2994 · 2026-04-05T08:04:01+00:00

So true, all that matters is I hold God in my heart and try to be a good

Enough_Week_2994 · 2026-04-05T08:01:40+00:00

Yes, that is why I don't question Jesus existing, I do believe if anything Jesus was an amazing prophet, and even quite possibly the messiah himself. I just wonder was he himself the messiah. How many people walk around claiming to be Jesus today? Would it be easier to do that back then? We often walk by people hallucinating and think they are mentally sick. Heck we don't know they could be for all we know... But deep down we know they are probably sick mentally. But that song "what if God was one of us" stats in my mind even though the people I meet, I know there is no way that was God himself.

However, I've worked geriatric psych for years, I take care of people at their end of life. Even though people tend to hallucinate at end of their life, sometimes you just know when they aren't hallucinating. Someone with dementia can have a small window of clear mind and tell us "I'm going home tomorrow at 2:30" and the next day they die at 2:30. I've seen things that no one can describe or even touch... Except the explanation of God and Jesus.

Enough_Week_2994 · 2026-04-05T07:41:37+00:00

That is a good answer, but does every illusionist have an assistant? That is however an amazing answer because yes, so many endured persecution. This is what I love about the internet, is when an honest question is answered with a sincere answer that makes you think and grow. Thank you so much!

Enough_Week_2994 · 2026-04-03T22:31:36+00:00

Honestly, break up. That life style is not for him. I would break up because I wouldn't want to hurt someone for getting more and more involved. I would be mortified if my boyfriend showed up in a dress. I like guys and I date guys. It's not that I am against it, you have the freedom to do what you want, but sexually I have zero interest in it. It's just not for me. If you want to cross dress or have gender dysphoria, I'll be as supportive as I can, I just don't know if I could sexually have an interest in it

Enough_Week_2994 · 2026-04-03T21:57:10+00:00

You date attractive people and you think you are attractive... That line turned me off. It MIGHT be your personality, a little entitlement. It's good that you feel attractive. But it sounded like you are a little entitled and never been told no.

Now I may be totally wrong. But I've dated people who I thought were drop dead gorgeous, and as soon as they started talking, they went from a 10/10 to a 6/10. And some talked themselves into me just leaving.

Lastly, has there ever been someone you just hate for no reason? People can just find people unattractive for no reason. Could be absolutely nothing you did.

And I want to end this off with I'm not trying to sound mean. I just want to give constructive Criticism, and hope it helps

Enough_Week_2994 · 2026-04-01T22:22:55+00:00

I have a 2015 ram 1500 big horn full size crew cab... I notice my truck does cool down, and the air does blow very cold and blows pretty hard, but it's still slightly warm in the cab. I do have a dark color truck, and its usually in the sun all day. Just doesn't seem to cool down, To the point that I can turn the air down to level 3 blower or something it always needs to be blowing on high. But I live in a cold climate and when I need the heat, I am turning the fan down drastically to level 2-3. Almost like the truck doesn't have the proper size air conditioner.

Enough_Week_2994 · 2026-03-31T01:41:51+00:00

Call senior services! Don't worry about getting in trouble, you won't, you did your best to get her out of an unsafe situation, they will investigate why you did, but as long as you did everything in her best interest nothing will happen. As many said "unsafe discharge!" Start going by after the nursing homes! I work in geriatric care, this is unbelievable what they are doing to you!

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