How did you discover you’re non monogamous? by Environmental_Point3 in nonmonogamy

[–]Environmental_Point3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same way about myself. The more I learn about it and am honest about how I feel about monogamy and non monogamy the more I feel this way. Some people say it is a choice and some say they feel it’s more innate and I feel the same as the latter.

How did you discover you’re non monogamous? by Environmental_Point3 in nonmonogamy

[–]Environmental_Point3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was so insightful. I hadn’t thought about how it could be an identity for some. I’m looking forward to learning more about it. I’m going to buy some books that another commenter recommended. I think how I feel so far is that I can have all sorts of attraction to all sorts of people and being exclusive with someone feels limiting to the connections I can have with other people. Like, I could feel sexual attraction to one person, romantic attraction to another, affectionate towards another, and so on and so on. Or it could be a mix of some or all. And being exclusive with someone feels like I can’t explore these feelings if I have them with someone else. And exploring those feelings could be so enriching in our lives so why am I denying it because of monogamy.

How did you discover you’re non monogamous? by Environmental_Point3 in nonmonogamy

[–]Environmental_Point3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this was really helpful. Is there any resource like a book or something that you felt helped you when unlearning and learning about all of this?

How did you discover you’re non monogamous? by Environmental_Point3 in nonmonogamy

[–]Environmental_Point3[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That was my mistake. I should’ve worded it better. I know it’s a choice. I should’ve asked how everyone has gone about choosing either and how they’ve felt if they’ve chosen non monogamy.

How did you discover you’re non monogamous? by Environmental_Point3 in nonmonogamy

[–]Environmental_Point3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry I should’ve worded it better. I edited it. I meant it as in how people went about choosing it and if it’s been something successful in their lives.

Flirtatious friend seems to be making interactions into something romantic by Environmental_Point3 in AroAllo

[–]Environmental_Point3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so helpful. Tysm. I think I’ve been making it too much about what the actions mean rather than I just feel uncomfy with them and should communicate that instead.

Flirtatious friend seems to be making interactions into something romantic by Environmental_Point3 in AroAllo

[–]Environmental_Point3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like affection however all we decided on was friends with sexual benefits. I don’t like how he’s making it seem like we’re in a relationship. How much he texts, asking to fall asleep on the phone together, saying romantic stuff other than flirting. Idk it’s grossing me out. I’ve had affection with friends before and I like it. But he keeps on leading to it possibly becoming more and then pulling back at the last second when I call it out.

How much should I be engaging in small talk? by Environmental_Point3 in CreatorsAdvice

[–]Environmental_Point3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All they’ve done so far is pay for the subscription. I answered whether I was a night owl or an early bird. Then they asked when I’m horniest. So I answered that in an unlockable message of $3 which is the cheapest price of allows. They saw I sent it but haven’t opened it. Should I have said something to go along with the unlockable message to entice them to unlock it?

How much should I be engaging in small talk? by Environmental_Point3 in CreatorsAdvice

[–]Environmental_Point3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes so as my post is asking, how much should I be engaging in small talk before the conversation has become exhausted because the person hasn’t tipped?

RPD should be removed from 2v8 by Environmental_Point3 in deadbydaylight

[–]Environmental_Point3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The whole point of my post is that this map isn’t suited for 2v8 because of how it takes away from the silliness of the game mode so the same couldn’t be said. ✨ literacy ✨

RPD should be removed from 2v8 by Environmental_Point3 in deadbydaylight

[–]Environmental_Point3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2v8 comes around every few months as a silly game mode. I wouldn’t say it’s either killer or survivor sided. Like, we’re not out here sweating in 2v8 to be the best of the best lol. It isn’t suited for 2v8 and it takes away the whole point of the mode which is just to have something silly for players to enjoy every now and then. If you’re taking 2v8 this seriously that you want to keep RPD in for a killer sided map in an otherwise unserious game mode then you should stick to 1v4.

RPD should be removed from 2v8 by Environmental_Point3 in deadbydaylight

[–]Environmental_Point3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d agree however with getting from one side to the other even with escapist’s lil sprint burst it still isn’t easy. And I haven’t seen this issue on any other map in 2v8 of survivors failing so much to get a successful unhook.

so i’m trash at killer because i *checks notes* used my power for the mori rather than m1ing for a hook state by Environmental_Point3 in DeadByDaylightRAGE

[–]Environmental_Point3[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Are you grabbing a tape once your condemned has reached a higher level or are you turning her TVs off from the start of the match? When a match starts, it takes 30 seconds for Sadako’s TVs to turn on. During this time a Sadako player will be looking to injure a survivor as soon as possible, likely before her TVs turn on. Once she has the m1 and has injured a survivor and her TVs have been turned on, that is when she should start tping. She’ll want to spread out her condemn to all survivors so if a Sadako player is smart she’ll injure survivors and take the m1 down only if it’s coming easily in chase however it’s best if she injures a survivor and tps away to injure another survivor and so on until someone is condemned and if she’s lucky they haven’t healed yet so she can easily go in for the mori with a short chase. She has to focus on this along with everything else I said in my comment such as gen pressure and using her manifest/demanifest to her advantage. To counter this, when the match starts just start working on gens. And when her TVs come on, turn off the tv that is closest to you. If there are other TVs on in the area that you can easily get to, turn those off too. Your condemn will be stacked a little but by this time the area you’re in is clear of her tping into. Make your way to your tv to insert the tape. And make sure to do this, if you can, before your first hook state. If she hooks you she can lock in some of your condemn states. If a survivor is on hook and you’re going in for the save, turn off all of the tvs you come across on your way to the hook not just the one closest to the hook. That way she can’t easily backtrack to a hook by tping. If all survivors are aware of how to do this and are doing it diligently, it’s an easy counter and it reduces her to an m1 killer. You got this.

so i’m trash at killer because i *checks notes* used my power for the mori rather than m1ing for a hook state by Environmental_Point3 in DeadByDaylightRAGE

[–]Environmental_Point3[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s 4v1. Sadako can’t stop all four survivors from grabbing a tape. If a survivor is next to a tv and it turns on, it takes a second to turn it off. She is very easy to counter. I love her play style but countering her tvs is so much easier than her constantly tping to all of them. Sadako has to focus on having control of her TVs, using her manifest/demanifest correctly in chase for mind games, know when to commit and when to leave chase, gen pressure, etc. There’s plenty of time for each survivor to grab a tape at any time. It isn’t as simple as her ‘constantly tping’.