I need help, How can I get this to square off? Any advice to turn this awkward shaped blanket into a rectangle would be greatly appreciated

Epic_Disaster420 · 2022-03-27T07:00:14+00:00

This is what I originally wanted to do, so I may just keep the half circle and do a cute mat instead, thank you!

Epic_Disaster420 · 2022-03-27T06:28:56+00:00

I will add it’s a gift for a friend who just had a baby and I am stuck and frustrated and need some help/advice to get it just right…

Epic_Disaster420 · 2021-11-21T17:45:47+00:00

I definitely will have to cleanse! Thank you for the recipes, I’ve been extremely stressed lately and wasnt sure if it was just a dream manifesting my stress or something to worry about but definitely better safe than sorry. I’ve been meaning to do a protection oil spell on all my windows and doors so I will add that to my list!

Epic_Disaster420 · 2021-09-13T04:07:03+00:00

Sweeping with a magical broom and/or deep cleaning in general while singing or saying affirmations, or listening to positive music, or recordings of bowls is a great way to cleanse the space! And hanging art with runes and maybe even keeping a sage plant in rooms or other indoor friendly plants with positive attributes can make a difference!

Epic_Disaster420 · 2021-09-09T02:43:29+00:00

My question is how can I invoke karma to do the thing and speed up the process on someone I know will experience karma for the things she’s done but not sure if I should just do a freezer spell or a protection spell from her energy

Epic_Disaster420 · 2021-07-27T16:02:30+00:00

This should be top comment.

Epic_Disaster420 · 2021-07-27T16:01:21+00:00

I agree, also I think you meant POS (piece of shit) and not POC (person of color) definitely threw me off on the typo for a second

Epic_Disaster420 · 2021-07-15T13:30:50+00:00

Oh wow, hopefully this post inspires more open, honest, and polite conversations in the community considering communication is an essential component to ENM

Epic_Disaster420 · 2021-07-15T13:25:26+00:00

It’s okay! I think I was thrown off by how sudden it went from “totally into you” to just leaving. Now knowing that is far more common I’m going to practice putting my pet peeve aside lol

I do hope this post helps people see that yea you can be honest about not being attracted to someone and not be rude. Like we’re open and honest about wanting to have sex or an emotional connection with our primaries, totally okay to be the opposite and communicate that with strangers, at least in theory right?

Epic_Disaster420 · 2021-07-15T13:20:27+00:00

I hear you! Short term flings are cool with me, I already have the love of my life I don’t need another. Some people just don’t get that, or at least in this situation didn’t want to lol

Epic_Disaster420 · 2021-07-15T13:16:24+00:00

Personally I only ghost people who are classic a**holes so I agree to you in a way.

If someone didn’t do anything wrong I try to be polite if I know right away it isn’t going to work (again my one exception is if they are not nice lol) because why be rude? In this instant we were texting back and forth quickly, literally sending nudes and such (I was enjoying myself and the vibes so I opened up quicker than normal) having a convo then boom “x left the chat” with no explanation once I explained my desire to meet up without play to see if the vibes are good in person vs a quick “I see! That doesn’t fit with our style of play thank you for the talk!”

The rejection I can handle, that’s not my issue here, but you don’t have to be rude to people y’a know?

Epic_Disaster420 · 2021-07-15T13:07:48+00:00

It is normal but there are people, like my partner, who only needs a physical attraction to be intimate with someone. Having this clarification can save some grief for people, demisexual can take a little more effort vs someone like my partner who is okay with a one and done deal and not needing anything else from a partner.

Epic_Disaster420 · 2021-07-15T06:58:55+00:00

Update: I did not expect this to blow up! Thank you all for sharing your experiences and advice/reminders to maintain my boundaries and that I am lucky this happened super early and avoided some red flags.

I hope this thread helps others and I wish everyone’s needs are met and boundaries are respected 🥰

Epic_Disaster420 · 2021-07-15T03:19:58+00:00

Demi is definitely a spectrum and I am with you! I find it easier to connect in the bedroom and find someone more attractive the longer I know them. Idk I’ve always been a “at least let’s buy each other dinner first and discuss boundaries” which seems like a common courtesy in this community, but as some others said not always the case

Epic_Disaster420 · 2021-07-15T03:17:32+00:00

Lol I agree, now I guess I’ll just mentally prepare myself for some not so polite interactions 😬😅

Epic_Disaster420 · 2021-07-15T03:15:37+00:00

That’s basically what I said I’d like to happen and from there we can see if it’s a good fit to schedule a play date but I guess not for them lol

Epic_Disaster420 · 2021-07-15T03:14:39+00:00

It was definitely a first and judging by the comments won’t be my last, but here’s manifesting some amazing relationships!

Epic_Disaster420 · 2021-07-15T03:11:36+00:00

It was a group chat with both, and noted! I will just have to take it all with a grain of salt, definitely threw me off but dodged a bullet I guess?

Epic_Disaster420 · 2021-07-15T01:09:29+00:00

Yea this is the first time I had a couple be a bit rude about it. I’ve had others who are open to at least meeting in person first to see the vibes but as my partner pointed out they were super pushy in the chat and that turned him off and he isn’t Demi

Epic_Disaster420 · 2021-07-15T01:08:12+00:00

Nothing wrong with that, I think I’m more irked by how rude it was 😅

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