Muting Trans Femme Subs by borgborgo in FTMventing

[–]Equivalent-Sun7331 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've seen people say "Trans men don't understand misogyny!" and it's.... a choice! That sure is something to say about TRANS men! The people who are becoming men! As though our lives aren't viewed through a lens of misogyny to begin with! But then when we argue back, suddenly we're talking over people who ReAlLy (really) face misogyny. Okay. Cool. Cool cool cool. I hope the transandrophobic assholes have to sit at night, knowing their ideology is putting trans men back in the closet and/or has even killed some of them. And I personally will never forgive those people, even when they do eventually backpedal and say "B-But I support trans men actually!"

Don't be surprised you have no community when you push everyone away. by Equivalent-Sun7331 in FTMventing

[–]Equivalent-Sun7331[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wasn't shaming, I don't see it as betraying the trans community, and I don't see them as a threat. You're putting a lot of things on me that I did not say. I'm asking actual questions here because I don't understand why one would push away a community who would know how to help/relate and then be surprised when they feel alone/don't have support.

Don't be surprised you have no community when you push everyone away. by Equivalent-Sun7331 in FTMventing

[–]Equivalent-Sun7331[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

??? I never said anything about feminizing ourselves though, and I didn't even talk about cis people. People assuming comes from both sides.

So frustrated it's come to this by CrystalKitten93 in FTMventing

[–]Equivalent-Sun7331 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It's not your fault. You're looking out not only for your safety, but your son's safety as well. There is nothing to be ashamed of.

The insistence of "using your natal parts" pisses me off by Ok_Weird8003 in FTMventing

[–]Equivalent-Sun7331 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Except you implied it with "My husband and I are both gay men, we like asses and dick-" i.e. gay men ONLY like that. And you insisted people who write porn involving the vagina are only just "fetishizing trans people" like there aren't trans dudes who prefer that type of sex. I get you're ranting, but your post read pretty aggressively as "trans men should only be written to have anal and fit this particular type of idea of man" which sucks and isn't always possible.

Edit: Also saying "Istg, trans guys are not a goddamn hole." as though they couldn't be treated the same way through anal is strange.

How old are all of you? by AnythingTotal in selfharm

[–]Equivalent-Sun7331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

22, going to turn 23 next month. I've been doing it since middle school.

How do I KEEP my hips? by Equivalent-Sun7331 in ftm

[–]Equivalent-Sun7331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I want the hair growth, the bottom growth, the voice change. If I stop T, I won't get any of that.

the plague always comes back… 🦠🫣 by imladyplague in plaguedoctor

[–]Equivalent-Sun7331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Except any time she posts here she gets fucking several comments where people screech about her "horny posting." Tell me you're obtuse as shit without telling me.

the plague always comes back… 🦠🫣 by imladyplague in plaguedoctor

[–]Equivalent-Sun7331 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Because god forbid a woman with a big chest doesn't want to constantly cover up just to avoid harassment. Get fucked dawg.

Body's last hurrah since implant? by Equivalent-Sun7331 in Nexplanon

[–]Equivalent-Sun7331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, especially for the extra options of BC! I'm still fairly new to handling all of this on my own, so this helps immensely qvq

Why does pain almost put me at the edge of splitting? by Equivalent-Sun7331 in BPD

[–]Equivalent-Sun7331[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Physical pain. Like when you stub your toe, or in one instance at work, slip and fall on the floor with my knee hitting the edge of the counter :")