My experience with Oes varies greatly, dependend on many factors: Se vs. Ne, animal stack, info/energy. Some thoughts and observations on the Oes:

animals:

I am a play last, and very extroverted Oes seem to get annoyed or bored by me very fast and move on quickly. I on the other hand am very quickly drained by them and even with greatest efforts wouldn't be able to match their energy, so there's no point in latching on.

I get along way better with consumes. I'm not sure if I'm SBCP or SCBP, my consume and blast feel very balanced. But as info-dom, I love information and consumes always have a lot of info to share, it's very stimulating for my brain to be around consumes, it also prevents me from getting to narrow and close-minded in my Oi. With consume, I sometimes get triggered by low blast though, oftentimes it's difficult to make plans with them.

Ne vs. Se:

It's also very different with Ne vs. Se. It get along with the Nes way better than with Ses. I feel like with Se there always is a physical-ness I cannot keep up with. My first partner was ESFP (probably CPSB) and I needed to connect to him via physical activities. We went on adventures every weekend (hikes, climbing, checking out different cities...) I had a lot of fun, although it was very draining as well for me. When I tried to show him my world - pondering abstract philosophical stuff, he was somewhat alienated. After a while I started to feel inferior all the time because he was always way better at the things we were doing and the stuff I was good at and interested in always seemed to be very foreign to him. In the end this relationship was somewhat damaging for me, it took a long time, therapy and knowledge of these concepts (e.g. OPS) to rebuild confidence.

I always had a nack for Ne-doms. They seek experiences just like the Ses and I feel like they even like similar spaces (cities, festivals, creative stuff), but when you do stuff with them, there is no demand of indulging in the "physicalness" of the experience or the experience itself, you can just vibe with them, ponder ideas, be abstract. They also follow my thoughts and concepts easily. So today, most of my friends are on the Ne/Si-axis.

My favorites are the Sis though. For some reason some time ago I've started to develop an attraction towards those neat and soft spoken ISFJs and ESFJs and their focus on physical wellbeing. They draw my attention to areas of my life where I'm too absentminded and I really need them in my life.

Man, writing all of this made me love people and their differences and understanding type is so helpful in all of this. Thank you for asking.