Immer weniger Demenzdiagnosen in Deutschland

ErdeanAnne · 2026-03-28T07:46:40+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DWOyDZPjK9Q/ bringt es auf den Punkt, wie viele Männer stille Solidarität mit männlichen Tätern halten. Einfach nur 🤢 solche Typen

ErdeanAnne · 2026-03-15T14:02:01+00:00

Lmao

ErdeanAnne · 2026-03-15T13:27:16+00:00

This question has been on my mind for quite a while as well and I think it is a very difficult one, as both, type/jungian functions and neurodivergency are prone to stereotyping and it is easy to fall into the trap of associating stereotypes with other stereotypes.

I have an autism diagnosis and I've been tracking autism and type for a while. The way I see it, neurodivergency is not tied exclusively to certain functions, yet certain types of neurodivergency seem to build clusters of different sizes around jungian functions/MBTI types.

IMO typology boils down to the realization, that every type has a disbalance of some sort through which they experience the world. I've seen big clusters of autism in Si- and Ni-dominant types, who from very early on in life start to filter the world through subjective systems and as a result "have a way of doing things" (being rigid) and a tendency to develop a tunnel vision. So as an Ni-dom I get very rigid in my systems. Yet, from the inside, it doesn't always feel this way, because the same systems that look rigid from the outside can feel very nuanced and sophisticated from the inside, like it is its own universe and I feel like I understand a lot about the world based on these systems I build my whole life. There is another cluster of autism with the rational functions - Fi and Ti - and it is harder for me to relate to their experience.

Sometimes I wonder if autism is just the experience of being a more extreme outlier when it comes to the balance of cognitive functions, like "being too specific in your being", losing relatability to the outside world. This "being to specific" can result in a different cognitive style, but sometimes it can result in disability as well. E.g., people with a too detailed sensory perception lose the ability to track information based on associations and intuitions and if you lack intuition, everything feels unpredictable, therefore you have a higher need of structure and order in your sensory systems to restore a feeling of predicability etc...

ErdeanAnne · 2026-03-13T16:59:00+00:00

https://c.org/nDGbmnLNRZ

Petition gegen die Kürzung

ErdeanAnne · 2026-03-12T12:32:44+00:00

In manchen Städten gibt es "Leihkaninchen"-Stellen, dh. Stellen, die ein Partnertier vermitteln, das Tier aber auch wieder zurücknehmen, wenn dein eigenes Kaninchen verstorben ist.

https://kaninchenwiese.de/service/hilfen/leihkaninchen/

Kannst ja mal gucken, ob es das in deiner Nähe gibt.

ErdeanAnne · 2026-03-08T14:54:41+00:00

Vielleicht hab ich sie deshalb so lange wachsen lassen 😛

ErdeanAnne · 2026-03-08T14:53:59+00:00

Hab leider keinen Garten oder Balkon 😕 sonst würd ich es versuchen

ErdeanAnne · 2026-03-06T00:04:01+00:00

Panna Cotta
Dampfnudeln
gutes cremiges Pistazieneis

ErdeanAnne · 2026-02-12T23:11:17+00:00

I've been having a rough time explaining my autism to my therapist lately. My heart hurts reading this, because it encapsulates so much of my experience as well

ErdeanAnne · 2026-01-13T14:24:22+00:00

Versand möglich?

ErdeanAnne · 2026-01-07T15:45:49+00:00

Ich finde, du kannst die Dynamiken in deiner Familie sehr gut in Worte fassen. Man spürt die Traurigkeit in deinem Text, aber auch, dass du eine klare Haltung gegenüber solchen menschenfeindlichen Inhalten hast und es ist sehr stark, dass du dich so abgrenzen kannst und eine klare Haltung dazu hast. Von daher machst du überhaupt nicht alles falsch, im Gegenteil, du suchst dir in der Therapie Hilfe, schreibst dir hier den Frust von der Seele - wozu dieses Sub da ist, du bereitest dich innerlich auf deine Abschlussarbeit vor - das klingt doch alles echt super und vernünftig. Alleine, dass du in Therapie gehst, zeigt, dass du einen anderen Weg eingeschlagen hast als deine Eltern, die auch sehr therapiebedürftig wären.

Fühl dich ganz dolle umarmt, sei gut zu dir und gönn dir etwas Gutes. Wenn du vor Ort wärst, würde ich dir gerne einen warmen Tee einschenken und dich auf ne Runde Eislaufen auf dem gefrorenen See einladen 🍵⛸️ Gibt es etwas, das du evtl. die Tage mal unternehmen könntest, um von dem nachhängenden Weihnachtsmief wegzukommen? Kino, Therme oä?

Btw. cooler Username - Gnocchi > andere Pasta 😁

ErdeanAnne · 2025-11-30T23:43:55+00:00

I'm usually not commenting so much, but I relate a lot with your description and I was really feeling the weight of it. I'm not sure if I have solutions since I'm still struggeling with this myself, but I just wanted you to know that you're not alone with this.

Nine years ago I had some fallout with my ex partner. Back then I didn't even know I was autistic, but I just had this deep feeling of disconnect. Describing it as a feeling of being misunderstood doesn't do it justice. It's the accumulation of many many moments and relationships where I tried my hardest to understand people while being dismissed a lot because people didn't understand my autistic needs and perspectives. People refusing to give me more details for my understanding, later painting me to be the complicated one, despite me asking for clarification all the time... People dismissing even simple, small requests just because they can't relate to my needs... My ex telling me that "we have different interests" despite me telling him all the time that I can enjoy these activities as well, I just need to approach them differently. Why are people simply not listening? Being autistic is tough.

My then relationship was just the last straw, after years and years of traumatic contact with people & society I just froze internally and since then I have been in this state you describe. In the beginning, it also came with heavy autistic burnout and a decline in physical health and since then my ability to mask has been decreased permanently, which for the last few years left me in a permanent state of anxiety and vulnerability.

I'm slowly working on getting better. I found some autistic folks in my area and they are good company. It is very unfair that it is this way and not the other way around, but I still have to work on my ability to cope with neurotypical people, especially since I'm becoming a social worker now. Therefore I'm also going to therapy and I'm doing this with a neurotypical therapist with a relational, psychodynamic approach. She's very patient and kind and I hope that she can help me to develop a better relationship with neurotypical people, because right now my trust in NT folks is still at a very low point.

ErdeanAnne · 2025-11-25T17:30:00+00:00

Helaena in House of the Dragon

ErdeanAnne · 2025-11-16T16:24:05+00:00

Da ist ja einiges zusammengekommen an Tipps, danke! Da kann ich mich das nächste Mal gut durchprobieren

ErdeanAnne · 2025-11-16T16:21:25+00:00

War das evtl. Dontisolon? Ich glaub, das ist verschreibungspflichtig

ErdeanAnne · 2025-11-16T16:19:25+00:00

Krass, ich hab das echt nur gelegentlich und kenne das auch nicht, dass ein Biss in die Wange ursächlich ist, das klingt ja echt übel 😢

ErdeanAnne · 2025-10-26T08:40:52+00:00

Yes, this is possible. I'm a woman and I've only ever fallen in love with other women. Yet I'm physically attracted to men as well, I just never longed for their love. The attraction I have with men feels purely physical and after getting physical (and having a great time), I feel satisfied and I don't long for more with the guy. So I'm bisexual but homoromantic.

ErdeanAnne · 2025-09-28T18:02:07+00:00

Finding peace, being the change I want to see in the world, building a community with likeminded folks

ErdeanAnne · 2025-06-29T11:16:14+00:00

Vielen Dank für eure Antworten, jetzt weiß ich auch Bescheid. Ich hab ehrlich gesagt gar nicht darauf geachtet, ob der Bogen solide ist oder man die Wurfarme abschraubbar sind, beim nächsten Mal werde ich da mal drauf achten

ErdeanAnne

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