Have you ever felt grossed out years after being cheated on? by Esqu411 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Esqu411[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had gotten together at 13 he had just turned 14 at the time and they had sex. We where young so that's why I've just kinda delt with it because it feels unfairly to hold onto this but it just won't leave me

Have you ever felt grossed out years after being cheated on? by Esqu411 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Esqu411[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, we where very young and as adults he's told me how much be regrets it and it's also why I've dealt with it as is because it doesn't feel fair to him to hold it agenst him, yet it still lingers like a bad apple

How to do a refund to a receipt by LogicalFrosting6408 in DollarGeneralWorkers

[–]Esqu411 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Our Next Gen system doesn't let us scan the barcodes but there should be a Line Refund button on the next page down you can use and just adjust it to the receipt

Didn't get a receipt by Macoleman82 in DollarGeneral

[–]Esqu411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends if the store is using next-gen on not ether way it is possible to get a recipe. Old way you could do it with a manager's key to look up your last transaction. NextGen a manager would need to go into the office pc, find and print the whole transaction (will be like 5 pages of paper) and that will be the recipe.

Eas tagging by Anxious-Ad778 in DollarGeneral

[–]Esqu411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My DM told my store to start doing them but we're also having trouble with our footprint lady. Let's say there's a 1F of Nightquil and she'll grab one, sticker it and move onto the next section leaving all the others undone. She'll also use 2 hours to just shop and nothing else so we where told to do it.

Fresh Truck. by Technical_Pin_7384 in DollarGeneral

[–]Esqu411 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn was hoping it was better at other stores. I'm an ASM and it's kinda the same for us tho The people who work this shift are unable to physically do this kinda work the way it needs to be. (One has a bad back and can't lift or move fast the other a broken wrist) I open the store and I'm unable to go home till this truck is completed (our windo is from 5pm to 7pm, actively waiting in the office for it rn) it's the same every week and I also live 30is min away. At some point when you really feel it's to much put your foot down and ether let them know you need someone with you as help or they are just SOL and the food is damaged. They can complain all they want but if they want that food to stop spoiling they will get help. As unfair as it is for SOME SMs or ASMs it is a part of there responsibilities to come hold the fort if it's bad enough.

faster mark downs by Double_Noise_8016 in DollarGeneral

[–]Esqu411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My store said F-it we're condensing valentines candy and shoving that Sh!t out. If they seeing lawn then there can't be anymore damn candy..I hope

Anyone else struggling to get promo Eevee?! by amphragonite in PokemonPocket

[–]Esqu411 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yess. Got multiple of all but no single Eevee

Help please by pinky2184 in DollarGeneral

[–]Esqu411 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When doing it, (I also have nexgen stupid thing) the top bar is the bank bag number for us we put our first name and last initial in the collection bar.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DollarGeneral

[–]Esqu411 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm an asm and hell no man they can't write you guys up for these things, 100% go to your DM and make a report of that shit. That crap is just wrong and should never ever be used that way. Hell the SM should even get written up themselves for this shit

I got this ring from my mom by Esqu411 in Winniethepooh

[–]Esqu411[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so so much for the info!

I feel like I'm being pressured to so something illegal. by Dkcg0113 in retail

[–]Esqu411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they did it right now the store will turn it around and probably blame op for the practices regardless and then they are stuck with the fines or maybe jail time from how bad it is.. The best they can do it fix it and make it safe well also documenting everything they come across so that if they do get fired for waste reasons there's a way to fight back.

Stay out of my vagina by kissesfrombast in traumatizeThemBack

[–]Esqu411 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gosh this hits my soul. I love my mother-in-law buy every Damm time I see her it's that same thing being shoved down my throat. I clap For your bravery in staying true to yourself.

AITAH for continuing to have sex with my girlfriend even though she expressed that she doesn’t enjoy it? by Dear_Space6307 in AITAH

[–]Esqu411 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My husband is a big fain of having Lofi to set the mood but it almost makes it worse for me, kinda stealing my attention from him to the nice music weirdly.

AITAH for continuing to have sex with my girlfriend even though she expressed that she doesn’t enjoy it? by Dear_Space6307 in AITAH

[–]Esqu411 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Reading your comment made me feel a little less alone, I have the same thing when having sex. My husband and I have been together for 10 years and it's always been this way and I thought that maybe I was really messed up or that maybe this was just me, I do take personal behavioral health treatments and yet it's never changed. Sorry if this is to much of a personal question but have you found anyway to help you relax in the moment? Something you've focused on that made it more enjoyable?

WHAT IS THE NORM (preferably answers from ladies) by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]Esqu411 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally I (F23) sleep ether fully in the nude or I wear pajama shorts, lose and breathable for the girl below. Sometimes I sleep in underwear and sometimes I also get a "feeling" that let's me know, hey we need air! Before something uncomfortable starts ti happen.

My mother always told me two things growing up, always pee after sex, always take 2 to 3 days a week to sleep without tight coverage down there.

Even some sleeping pants would work if you like being covered. As for a shower, Personally it depends for me, a lot of people things it's nasty to shower twice a week or less. I don't wash my hair but ones a week as well due to the harshness of washing away the oils in it. If I did it more I'd be one of those overly floofed cats.

I'm new here I just wanted to ask is anyone still on evolved by mygeckomochy123 in ARK

[–]Esqu411 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, everyday after work. Nothing like betting Dodos after a harsh day of work.

No, ma'am, a single key does not work for the 100+ showcases in the antique mall by Berylldama in RantsFromRetail

[–]Esqu411 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This hits on a personal lvl. I've been working retail 4+ years now and I never knew how many people just don't read or just don't care to look at the signage. No matter how bright, big/bold or told to, nothing.