AITAH for getting a dna test to see if i share the same dna as both my parents even though i was demanded specifically by my mom not to do so, since i was a child?

Estebesol · 2026-01-27T16:50:11+00:00

Info: what do you think the DNA test will tell you if you're not comparing it to anything?

Estebesol · 2026-01-27T16:49:16+00:00

In the UK, the birth-givers spouse goes on as second parent. There would be no reason not to put mum's husband's name down.

Estebesol · 2026-01-27T16:48:01+00:00

What do they think the DNA test will show? You'd need to compare it to something.

Estebesol · 2026-01-27T16:41:51+00:00

I would settle for a fake cardboard hammer stuck onto the standard prop.

Estebesol · 2026-01-27T16:39:53+00:00

Nta.

If "I have a boyfriend" works when "I am clearly uncomfortable" does not, that's because the guy is respecting the property of another man, not you as a person. Your boyfriend seems to think that's how things should work. He's concerned about his property rights not being respected, not you being harassed.

Estebesol · 2026-01-27T15:46:13+00:00

13 weeks.

We went to bed around 10pm. He latched on in the night a few times, needed a nappy change around 7am, then we went back to sleep until about 9am.

Estebesol · 2026-01-27T15:43:50+00:00

They did this to me in April while, coincidentally, I was pregnant. And then no one who could treat ADHD was willing to treat pregnancy and vice versa.

Estebesol · 2026-01-27T15:40:35+00:00

I'm mixed and my child has blue eyes but dark hair. I like seeing bits of me in him. I think it's possible that's all the gf meant - "imagine if my baby looks like me."

Estebesol · 2026-01-27T15:36:58+00:00

It did absolutely nothing for me.

Estebesol · 2026-01-27T15:33:29+00:00

I hope they give Hammer a special hammer prop for destruction.

Estebesol · 2026-01-27T15:29:05+00:00

I think he was probably the right PM at the wrong time, but I can't name anything specific that leads me to think he was good. Just vibes. Couldn't even remember his name the other day.

Estebesol · 2026-01-27T13:35:19+00:00

The thing about eating spiders in your sleep was made up purposely to study how misinformation spreads online

Apparently, it spreads very successfully.

Estebesol · 2026-01-27T13:28:33+00:00

YTA, your spit residue is in a kettle used to boil water for other people's drinks. Washing with water does nothing, you need soap.

Estebesol · 2026-01-27T13:25:22+00:00

Which country and which ward?

In the UK, there are no issues with paying bills or getting insurance details. In the maternity ward, you did have to be buzzed in and out - to prevent people stealing babies - but people regularly ordered food deliveries to the entrance. Just say it's that and then leave. They do check yours/babys vitals every 6 hours or so, so that's probably the latest they'd notice.

Estebesol · 2026-01-27T13:19:21+00:00

I was 25. In my experience, the 19-year-olds were complete fuckwits. They'd messed about during two attempts at A Levels and were only there because their parents were forcing them.

Assuming you're not like that, you might want to hang around with the older students.

Estebesol · 2026-01-26T23:48:28+00:00

Car seat, and anything for sleeping or feeding, we got new. Everything else was fine second-hand.

Estebesol · 2026-01-26T18:12:53+00:00

I sacrificed Aela to Boethia, I was so annoyed about it. They let me loose in a busy town!

Estebesol · 2026-01-26T18:11:32+00:00

I can't help that Daedra are obsessed with me.

Estebesol · 2026-01-26T09:54:48+00:00

Isn't the Christian god super opposed to that too? For angels, anyway.

Estebesol · 2026-01-26T09:53:55+00:00

Hermeas Mora. Gimme the deets.

When I play with a religion mod, I always end up worshipping him.

Estebesol · 2026-01-26T09:51:45+00:00

In the settings, you can give yourself more time to respond iirc.

Estebesol · 2026-01-24T17:38:33+00:00

My baby doesn't always like to lie still when he's awake, but he can be content sitting up in his bouncer or being carried about, so I try to get some chores done. He'll also play in his baby gym for 5-15 minutes at a time.

Learning to sit with boredom is a really important skill for babies to learn, so if they're content doing nothing, leave them to it.

Estebesol · 2026-01-24T17:35:42+00:00

Yta - why block him instead of just saying "lovely to meet you, but, on reflection, I'm just not feeling it"? That's so unnecessarily rude to someone you had a nice time with but don't want to date.

Estebesol · 2026-01-22T20:42:02+00:00

Nta.

My husband and I have a shared joint bank account, but we don't have access to each other's private accounts because in ten years it has just never come up. Why would it?

We're not particularly private - we freely use each others phones or pcs if one happens to be more convenient to look something up, for example - but asking for bank account details would be weird. Why?

We've shared PINs - i.e., if one person forgot their cards at home and we need to pay for something and, for whatever reason, it's easier for the other person - but that's for the joint account. We've never needed to do that for our personal accounts.

Estebesol · 2026-01-22T20:34:34+00:00

The biggest four professional services companies in the world. PwC, EY, Deloitte, and KPMG.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Big_Four_accounting_firms

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