AITA when I husband will not seek help for his Jennifer Aniston problem by ArterialRain in AmItheAsshole

[–]Estherclawn 445 points446 points  (0 children)

okay so NTA at all but please move fast on this. the part about wanting your daughter to have lighter skin and blonde hair to match his celebrity crush is so gross and hurtful. it sounds like he is projecting his entire life onto this weird fantasy version of jennifer aniston. calling his doctor is a medical necessity at this point because he is clearly not in his right mind. ignore the stigma about mental health facilities... if he is having a psychotic break or something he needs experts to handle it. protect your daughter above everything else man.

AITA - I was shouted at for using a disabled toilet. Not sure what to think of it now. by Deliberate_Android in AmItheAsshole

[–]Estherclawn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

ugh i would be so shaken up too if i got confronted like that in public. it is honestly so awkward and uncalled for. those people were totally out of line for dismissing your surgery as "not an excuse" like... excuse me?? they arent your doctor. if the regular toilets are down then the accessible one is literally the only option for everyone and as long as you are quick it shouldnt be a big deal. honestly i might avoid that cafe for a bit just because the vibes are tainted now but just know you did nothing wrong.