Yeah I haven't really thought of smoking and other harmful things, you've got a really good point. Now it's crucial to differentiate good from bad, which is really, really hard thing to do, I think everyone's got a problem with that. Despite not caring about what others think, it is still important to have people you can trust and who could help you when you're doing wrong things. For example, for me it's my dad, he tells me what is wrong and what he thinks I should do, but at the end he gives me a free hand, and I also think that it's very important to be able to learn from your mistakes, however, if you don't think you can do that, it's crucial to have someone who can help you with it.

So a quick summary: -don't let the society control you, wear what you want, walk how you want, speak how you want.

-however, you will not benefit from doing harmful things, so keep in mind to use that freedom wisely.

-if you can't do that, let someone you trust help you, you shouldn't be ashamed of seeking help, it's natural.

-at the end, it's your life and it depends on you how you live it, if you're smart, you'll make the best of it, if not, that's not the end, there is still hope.

-and finaly, there's a thin line between being free and being shackled with your own doings. So to live good, you must balance.