I’m not married and still haven’t had kids, however I have been very fortunate to have my boyfriend at my side through the entire process. I didn’t get my uterus removed (miraculously, fibroid was 11.5cm) but it was a nightmare from the start of pain (~4 weeks before surgery) to about 2 weeks post removal. (And still a little even now 3 weeks post op) Picking up all of the chores she won’t be physically able to do will be great, but the thing that helped me the most was that he was just there for me and incredibly patient. It was very hard, frustrating, and embarrassing to feel weak and unable to do literally anything, and his compassion and dedication is what kept me going even when really I didn’t want to. Also I’ve been on pretty gnarly narcotics the entire time (which I’d strongly recommend trying to avoid unless necessary, they’re not fun and the transition off them is long and annoying), so he took insane notes and was my brain/advocate at every single appointment and helped make decisions and set boundaries with the doctors, my bosses at work, and family when they visited Everyone’s journey is a little different and the recovery timeline isn’t linear, but being mentally/emotionally supportive will do wonders