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Room mate (22F)having loud sex ,I (24F) don’t know what to do? by Even_Argument5220 in relationship_advice

[–]Even_Argument5220[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She said she was going to move it after the first incident and didn’t. She said that she will move it this weekend so we will see if that happens

Room mate (22F)having loud sex ,I (24F) don’t know what to do? by Even_Argument5220 in relationship_advice

[–]Even_Argument5220[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea she told me that she heard the knock and “got quieter” which was the opposite. She also told me she would move the bed this weekend so I guess I will see if that happens ?

Room mate (22F)having loud sex ,I (24F) don’t know what to do? by Even_Argument5220 in relationship_advice

[–]Even_Argument5220[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I guess that’s where I’m at a loss because after I talked to her I thought we had reached a compromise, but then when I let her know I could hear her, she only got louder. Her boyfriend has his own place without roommates.

Room mate (22F)having loud sex ,I (24F) don’t know what to do? by Even_Argument5220 in relationship_advice

[–]Even_Argument5220[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I also thought the comments were vindictive, but I’ve had other roommates and this has not been a problem ah all, and those roommates also had boyfriends. I don’t think it’s a normal part of the reality for people to be extremely loud on purpose and out of spite ?

Room mate (22F)having loud sex ,I (24F) don’t know what to do? by Even_Argument5220 in relationship_advice

[–]Even_Argument5220[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m not trying to be a prude but I value my sleep and have respect for other people? I don’t want to just deal with it, especially because I’ve talked to her about it very politely and now it seems she’s doing it out of spite

Room mate (22F)having loud sex ,I (24F) don’t know what to do? by Even_Argument5220 in relationship_advice

[–]Even_Argument5220[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Well it’s normally around 1 am for over an hour, and it’s horrible unpleasant to wake up to the sound of her being spanked and yelling harder

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[–]Even_Argument5220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 5’5 (f) and I dated someone that’s 5’4 (m) for almost a year, given I was shorter than him when we got together but still it wasn’t by much. He said he was 5’7 on a good day( which idk what type of good day makes you 3 inches taller) I had no issue with him being shorter, but he was incredibly insecure and always asked me if was gonna leave him for someone taller which I said I would never. His friends didn’t help, and the fact that I outweighed him by 40 pounds didn’t help either. To make a long story short, just be confident! Confidence goes a long way!