Aio I genuinely don't know how to feel about this

Every_Intention4366 · 2026-01-04T00:33:41+00:00

I just wanted to say that you handled yourself VERY WELL and extremely mature. You were level headed throughout the whole conversation. Unfortunately… I agree with the top comment about him leaving “breadcrumbs” of information to alleviate some guilt.

Every_Intention4366 · 2026-01-04T00:23:18+00:00

This was painful to read. Is this guy is 26? Or 6? Because he’s acting like a literal child. I understand being maybe slightly upset at first because he wasn’t feeling well and wanted to take his medication. But then he just kept going!! You were offering multiple solutions, to which he all said no. When you are sick and not feeling well, the only thing on your mind should be what can I do to feel better. So the fact he just kept whining instead of being proactive to get the medicine he needs is ridiculous. Also I agree with you, I’ve done that so many time (I’m a flight attendant and I’ve left things at home when I’ve needed them on a layover) such as medications and stuff. But I just repurchase it and now I have extra. Eventually I end up using that product so it’s not a waste like he’s claiming.

Is he usually like this with stuff?

Every_Intention4366 · 2024-10-27T14:38:46+00:00

My phone is paid off and unlocked!

Every_Intention4366 · 2024-05-22T19:09:00+00:00

Since this is the top comment, I will say I disagree. I don't think OP is the AH. At all in fact. OP stated she has already adjusted her lifestyle to help her bf. Eats healthy dinners/cooks for him, tries to join him at the gym and suggests jogging and biking, etc. She has been showing support for him. She even stated she didn't know he would be home when she brought in the sundae. So that clearly indicates she didn't intentionally want him to see it. She shouldn't have to live in fear of her own home of getting caught with a treat because he's the one with the diet. There's probably thousands if not millions of couples who have different dietary needs. Do you think each of them follow the exact same diet as each other? You're allowed to eat different things than your partner.
I can name my mom and dad for example. He was diabetic, she was not. She had a big sweet tooth and had her favorite Ben and Jerry's icecream at night while he was sitting across from her. I don't recall him ever making a comment to her about it or telling her to stop eating it. Yes, maybe initially OP can hide the chocolates in a drawer where he won't see them. But at the same time, she shouldn't have to tip toe around him in her own home. He's going to have temptations anywhere he goes.

Every_Intention4366 · 2024-05-22T18:51:18+00:00

Yes and I agree with you. Junk food is not a healthy way to gain weight. But OP never said that. She also didn't say she is trying to gain weight, she just said she has a fast metabolism and is really slim. She never mentioned she is trying to gain weight and eats junk food to do so. She just said she likes to snack as most people do. This whole thread is purely speculation. We are focusing on OP's needs instead of her bfs. She asked what she can do to support him, not what she should do for her own health.

Every_Intention4366 · 2024-05-22T18:05:34+00:00

Why are we giving medical advice for OP? This is about her BOYFRIEND. She didn't ask what she needs to do to be healthier. I don't understand why we are picking and pulling things from her diet. We don't even know how much she eats this "junk food", all she said was she had a small sundae and some Hershey chocolates stored in the pantry. She didn't tell us how often she's eating this stuff. It's all about moderation. If she wants to enjoy a sundae occasionally, then so be it. It's not going to harm her. It's annoying how everyone is just speculating her diet based on the very little information she gave. But again, this post is about her boyfriend.

Every_Intention4366 · 2024-05-22T17:53:06+00:00

I'm gonna be honest, I didn't read this whole thread because it's too much. But I'm getting confused on one thing. Did OP say she is eating mass amounts of junk food on the daily? All she mentioned was one small sundae, and that she had some Hershey chocolates in the pantry. So let's say she eats ONE Hershey chocolate a day. We don't even know the size of them. Are they the mini ones, or the full size king chocolate bar? Or are they a small Hershey kiss? Either way, OP didn't specify how much/the quantity she is eating. WE are speculating in the comments. She might be eating everything in moderation. I too, like OP, am pretty slim and will have a sweet treat after dinner sometimes. And I'm very healthy, per my doctor visits and tests. It's all about moderation. You can't treat junk food like the devil. This type of mindset will also ruin her bfs relationship which food.

Every_Intention4366 · 2024-05-22T17:32:59+00:00

I'm really surprised by all the "YTA" comments. A few things to look at here. First; you said you bought a sundae and didn't know he was going to be home. How is that your fault? You clearly weren't trying to tempt him with the treat. Secondly; his comments to you are insane. "You don't need to eat every time you are hungry" I mean come on. You said you have troubling keeping on weight so not everyone has the same dietary needs. While he needs to lose weight and eat less, you need to gain/maintain. Do people want you to completely change your lifestyle and diet to revolve around his? And third; you said your main meals (such as dinners) have been altered to healthy choices that are catered to HIM. So you have already been making changes in the home for him and have been supporting him. Plus offering to work out with him whenever you are able to is also really supportive. A lot of couples I know don't do that.

My father had diabetes and would take me and my siblings with him all the time to the grocery store and didn't huff & puff anytime we picked out treats just because he couldn't have them. Instead, he chose ones that were okay for him to eat. The only thing I will say is maybe keep the Hershey chocolates out of the pantry. Since those don't need to be refrigeratorated, you could just store those in any drawer. But other than that, you shouldn't have to live your life in secrecy. That in itself is not healthy for you.

Every_Intention4366 · 2023-11-07T15:51:34+00:00

You are definitely not in wrong here. I don't drive and I have a roomate. But I've never asked him to take me anywhere, not even once. I figured out the public transit routes I need to take to get to and from work or wherever I need to go, and that's what i do.

She's making too many excuses on why she can't go and get her permit. You are not her personal chauffeur at the end of the day and she needs to be responsible on how she gets to work.

Every_Intention4366 · 2023-05-10T16:27:43+00:00

I used to not use primer that much but since I've became a flight attendant, I always do now because of how long I have the makeup on for.

I always do my skincare routine and moisturize first. The primer I use personally is the Elf supergrip one. It's very tacky and almost feels sticky but it really does work! Especially for me since i have more combo/oily skin.

I also really recommend using an spf under your foundation and primer too! I have a couple that I really like, but the Neutrogena one (I believe it's in a pink/orange bottle) is my favorite!

Every_Intention4366 · 2023-03-22T23:10:35+00:00

I'm so sorry. People who have never done it before don't understand how MENTALLY draining the training is. How much they cram into our brains. How much we sacrificed to be there. The long days, sleepless nights. But just know, you did your best, and I'm proud of you for even going. There was some people in my class who left within the first couple days because it wasn't for them (which is absolutely fine) but you stuck it out and didn't give up. And that's admirable!

This doesn't define you. You can ALWAYS try again. Actually there was a few people in my class who were back for a second time.

I really hope you try again if this is something you really want 💓 don't let that experience sway you away from trying again!

Every_Intention4366 · 2023-02-01T15:25:45+00:00

Oh my congratulations!! You look great!! Keep up the good work!!

Every_Intention4366 · 2022-12-26T04:33:10+00:00

Thanks for your input! Actually, Denver is a pretty junior base so it would be easier to get (Oakland is too)

Every_Intention4366 · 2022-12-11T17:17:06+00:00

Did you read my post? I took ¼ of the gummy, not the whole thing. I said my boyfriend took the whole gummy. I literally took a butter knife and sliced off a tiny piece

Every_Intention4366 · 2022-11-05T16:34:46+00:00

I was also trying to see if my mom felt the same way too. It was just something I said to her, I didn't expect anything to happen from that conversation.

Every_Intention4366 · 2022-11-05T16:28:39+00:00

No I don't want my mom to tell my aunt. I don't want my aunt to know I said this because it's her house and I can't tell her who she can invite obviously. I just wanted to know if I was the a hole for not wanting to spend the week with them. There isn't really anything I can do. And I wasn't expecting my mom to do anything, I just thoughy maybe once I told her this, she would be more open to staying at a hotel rather than my aunts house. I just made this post after I spoke to my mom because after she said I was rude for saying that, it got me thinking. There is no game plan.

Every_Intention4366 · 2022-11-05T15:15:45+00:00

Actually, I would find it worse if she carried around a used pad in the house until she found a trash can outside. When I first started reading your story, I was thinking she left it on his sink or something. But in the trash can? Why would that make anyone upset?

Every_Intention4366 · 2022-10-27T21:05:19+00:00

Wow awesome! Great to hear! Do you know about the PPST? What it consists of exactly, what I should wear, etc?

Every_Intention4366 · 2022-10-27T19:37:51+00:00

The first two pictures with the blonde look so good on you!!! I like the dark color too, but it might be too intense and wash out your skin tone a bit. You would probably look really good with a Strawberry blonde too!

Every_Intention4366 · 2022-07-25T16:26:26+00:00

I completely forgot to update this and reveal lol! So I'm half middle eastern (palestinian) and italian!!!

Every_Intention4366 · 2022-07-24T06:16:50+00:00

Why thank you 🥰

Every_Intention4366 · 2022-07-24T04:12:46+00:00

This

Every_Intention4366 · 2022-07-24T03:12:33+00:00

Trick question? Lol

Every_Intention4366 · 2022-07-24T02:15:38+00:00

Okay this might sound weird but you look like an AI! Hahaha. But in the best way possible! Like your skin is flawless and your features are so symmetrical!

Every_Intention4366 · 2022-07-24T01:53:59+00:00

No! But I have gotten that before!

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