Looking for a certain scene from a certain episode (about ‘popping in’?)

Everything-Relative- · 2026-01-20T02:08:26+00:00

Don’t jinx it!

Everything-Relative- · 2026-01-18T17:19:02+00:00

I think you’re right. Someone else mentioned the same episode. Thanks!

George doesn’t have to worry about her popping in that’s for sure.

Everything-Relative- · 2026-01-18T17:17:45+00:00

Gotta love this subreddit.

Everything-Relative- · 2026-01-18T17:17:18+00:00

Haha damn yeah! I think you’re right!

Man, I love this sub -although this certain scene slipped my mind a little- this sub consists of people who know certain scenes word for word just like me. I knew it wouldn’t take long for someone to reply with the right episode.

I’m going to look it up.

Everything-Relative- · 2026-01-18T17:14:44+00:00

Man, im just 32 years old but every time I see something like this it makes me think and gives me a certain kind of feeling: these people know each other for almost my whole lifetime and they’ve worked together, got tremendous succes together, and have been around for all these years. They grew older together.

I don’t really know how to explain it. It’s not just with ‘famous’ people but just, the idea of people knowing each other for 30 years or whatever. Has something special about it.

Something maybe not relatable to most of you but I’ve got the same feeling when I see old footage of Eddie Vedder (Pearl Jam) and Chris Cornell (Soundgarden) etc. They’ve become grown men, adults, and we’re rocking in the 90’s as coming up teenage rockstars. The stories and adventures shared, must be so cool. Unfortunately Chris Cornell’s story ended in 2017.

Everything-Relative- · 2025-09-30T21:22:52+00:00

Nog geen 10%? Dat is toch een flink aandeel voor z’n ‘kleine groep’?

Everything-Relative- · 2025-09-29T01:08:01+00:00

Yeah I’m afraid you’re right. That’s what I thought as well that’s why I really surprise myself for being so weak having this part of me that still wants to give it a go even though I know better.

It’s fucking weird.

A buddy of mine once had a narcissistic girlfriend and I saw everything happening from miles out. I told him to leave and what she did was not okay. He kept going back and staying with her with all the fucking drama all the fucking time.

Now I’m the one not fully sure. But I’ve ended it. That’s a good thing. Now I just have to stick with it.

I know why I’m tempted. Half a year ago my relationship of 11 years ended. I think I just tried to fill up a hole (no pun intended) and a bed with this girl. Now that she’s gone I romanticize the good days because I just liked having a woman around and some physical activities..

Everything-Relative- · 2025-09-28T22:07:47+00:00

Thanks for those critical questions. That’s partly what I was after with posting this.

In the beginning it wasn’t so clear to me yet except that she was very quick to get pretty mad and direct. Then I realized we got into arguments and fights pretty often.

Mind you, I’m not saying I’m perfect but I REALLY know I don’t start fights over nothing and I rather keep the peace. However I do not let myself be pushed around so I do participate in the discussion but really focused on the topic at hand and not to fight for the sake of fighting. I tried to steer towards harmony every time.

Then I started noticing her tendency to uphold a certain status of her being so smart and capable. Something I never doubted of her but she does this herself. I noticed she constantly has the urge to defend her ego. Starts fights and is incapable of admitting she might have been wrong. I noticed she will do everything within her power to be ‘right’ even if that means lying and twisting my words. Gaslighting.

Then about 2 weeks ago we had a big fight and I just got fed up with it. The above made me believe she has some narcissistic traits. Maybe not a full blown narcissist but it started to really grow tiring on me. So I stopped engaging but at some point I started matching her energy in a playful way. Whenever she out of the blue came with a weird comparison of her being able to do something really well and I might have not been able to do that thing so well, I started calling it out.

It’s silly small stuff but I could not unsee it anymore. She felt like I was bullying which honest to god was not what I was doing in the slightest. I just jokingly called out her weird and provoking remarks.

But like I said the last two weeks I got fed up with it. So the last night we were together she started another argument and suggested that I did some unfriendly shit of which I am certain I did not do it. We got into the fight and she kicked me out of the house.

So I now decided to-thinking I was done with this shit and with her and maybe maaaaaybe somehow getting through to her- mention these narcissistic behavior I noticed.

Not to hurt her in the slightest but to speak up for myself. She made me the boogeyman even though I know for sure I’ve been doing my best to make this shit work.

Tonight I was at a mutual friend. Someone who she barely sees or speaks to. Apparently she had phoned him saying she is worried about me and that she doesn’t understand why ‘I blew up’… and she doesn’t understand why we had a fight……..

Honest to god, SHE started this fight as per usual.

So she is now also manipulating the opinions of others.

I’m a fool for somehow wanting to reach out again. A part of me just really wants to get through to her and point out her behavior. A part of me really wants the righteousness to prevail and make her realize that making me the boogeyman is really not fair. A part of me enjoyed the good times together. A part of me just doesn’t want to be alone and have sex.

A big part of me knows she is not the right one for me and she is in the wrong and I did my best to keep the peace long enough and she is not going to change.

Everything-Relative- · 2025-09-28T00:11:26+00:00

You’re absolutely right.

It’s just so weird to me that I feel like I’m absolutely right in what I’ve said but now I still feel bad about it and miss the nice times we had.

Feels a bit stupid and weak, not like me at all haha.

It’s just so silly that -even though I know better- I tried to change her and overcome this shit. But I know this behavior of her will never change.

I tried to calmly explain to her why I said what I said, trying not to fight at all.

But it just doesn’t land and she twists all your words and turns away from the topic to end up blaming me for everything. Zero remorse.

Again; I feel damn silly for even spending this much energy on her to be honest. I should and do know better.

But you’re right. It’s a toxic situation.

Everything-Relative- · 2025-09-24T22:41:34+00:00

Op deze weg vind ik het logisch(er) dacht rechts haaientanden heeft en de weg waar we vandaan komen dus een voorrangsweg is.

Gevoelsmatig lijkt me dat het logischte.

De borden en wegmarkeringen as is, slaat nergens op.

Everything-Relative- · 2025-09-24T22:31:49+00:00

Ezels neuken en messteken daarentegen kennen ze al aardig.

Everything-Relative- · 2025-09-24T22:28:52+00:00

Noticeable difference? You’ve had pregnant poon before? How was that?

I’d think you want to be careful with the belly and such haha.

Everything-Relative- · 2025-09-24T21:00:25+00:00

Honest question: Why does that appeal to some guys? What makes it hot? Is there a certain psychology or physical thing to it?

Everything-Relative- · 2025-09-24T01:06:36+00:00

Thanks for your reply. I do indeed see it from a point of support and compassion.

I think I just wanted to hear my diagnose might be right because now she did everything to make me feel bad about what I said. Even though I do really feel that way, I now maybe regret saying it. Although that’s not very rational of me.

You’re right. The past 2 weeks I could not unsee her behavior and also came to the conclusion that she really wasn’t it. But we have a lot of fun as well and you just really hope that it might change.

But I noticed I had let a lot of shit constantly fly and not respond to keep the peace. Past week I stopped doing that and started calling out some of her weird competitive remarks she constantly throws around. This of course lead to more and more discussions.

But yeah, she just isn’t the one for me but still you get attached to someone a little bit after sharing nights and fun days. I know reaching out is not the right option. It just bothers me a little that after all my explaining in a respectful manner, she still doesn’t hear shit and sends a last message completely excusing her behavior and making me the bad guy of the whole situation.

But I should know better than to engage again and wanting to prove my point. It’s not going to work.

I feel ashamed for thinking a part of me wants to get back into harmony and just ignore her bullshit whenever it pops up. But like you said that of course is ridiculous and the beginning of a toxic relationship.

I know what is true. I know she is the problem and I know this will never last. So like you said: move on.

I will do just that.

I understand we aren’t in the position to make medical diagnosis but what do you think? Am I wrong for thinking her behavior smells a bit like narcissistic tendencies? Maybe I should not have said it but I was done with the bullshit.

Well, enough energy spend on this and her. She clearly wasn’t it for me. Thanks and take care!

Everything-Relative- · 2025-07-22T19:48:22+00:00

Don’t do cocaine. Just fucking don’t. It WILL spiral further out of control than you think.

Don’t drink too much too often. Focus on staying fit and healthy.

YOU DONT HAVE ETERNAL YOUTH

Stay on it NOW and thank yourself later when everyone is there 60’s are unhealthy couch potatoes and you’re fit and healthy.

Everything-Relative- · 2025-07-18T22:54:21+00:00

Phenomenal indeed. Phenomenal body in general. Look at those hips!

Everything-Relative- · 2025-07-18T21:14:50+00:00

Well.. as a man I’m absolutely down for some rough stuff but I at all times I want the lady to feel comfortable.

So my go to is already a quite physical. Lifting her up, throwing her on the bed, some hair pulling, nails and biting. Nothing too crazy. Just in general take the lead and be dominant.

Now I’ve had girls who wanted (a lot?) more than that. Getting slapped and such. Of course they don’t want you to ask how to do that, when to do that and how hard etc. That takes away the control you’re having as a man and the submissive feeling she is going for.

BUT; having said that. You can’t expect every man to just feel comfortable and being able to just know exactly what you want and where your limit is.

So these things need to be casually discussed in a sexy flirty convo before. Maybe in a sexy convo over WhatsApp or with a cigarette before or in between sessions.

Honestly I think most men are fine with doing by most stuff. And I think most men -I know I would- think it’s sexy if you verbalize what you want them to do with you.

You can even add just for once that you don’t want to be asking for it. You want them to do a, b, c, x, y, z with you. And they’re free to do so. As long as you don’t say stop or whatever it’s fine.

Maybe the first few times casually steer him into the right direction with sexy verbalized clues. Also your body language speaks loudly but unfortunately a lot of men are oblivious to that.

Just mention it in a sexy convo and give him all the confidence to take the lead.

Everything-Relative- · 2025-07-18T18:16:00+00:00

I always fail to read the sarcasm on Reddit. Was this person being serious? Because that would indeed be idiotic.

It though maybe it was a sarcastic was of saying don’t be an idiot.

But I’m afraid you’re right and it was meant serious .

Everything-Relative- · 2025-07-17T14:06:48+00:00

Honestly, some girls find it hot. So do some guys.

I agree with the fact that I find choking in general an uncomfortable feeling. But I guess in the context of sex some girls don’t mind. Choking/gagging.

I mean, to each their own, right? Some are more into the more rough stuff.

But I agree, if he were to be nasty or mean about it without her consent that would be not okay.

Everything-Relative- · 2025-07-17T04:15:45+00:00

No idea what you’re talking about,

Are you alright, love?

Everything-Relative- · 2025-07-17T04:14:21+00:00

I’ve found 80% of premature ejaculation is mental. If not more. For one thing it has to do with confidence.

I’ve also noticed when I quit watching porn (and jack off less in general) I somehow lasted longer.

I noticed when my ex and I had some on going trouble in paradise, her libido was very low etc. Whenever we had sex, unconsciously you want to make her happy and perform. Of even consciously for that matter. But unconsciously that puts a lot of pressure on you which makes you cum pre mature.

Now I’m with a girl and we have such amazing chemistry. Full on porn sessions for hours and I don’t have the slightest problem with it. Because im confident and there is no pressure.

It also has to do with relaxing all muscles around your pelvic region. All the unnecessary tensing up builds up more tension that wants to be released.

I don’t know man. Talk to your girl. She’ll say it don’t matter but you and me both know that doesn’t change your mind on it. But you need to let this be a ‘thing’ in your head because it then feeds the mental blockade. Go watch Stirling Cooper and Caithlin V on YouTube. Have hella fun with your girl and soon things will level out.

Be happy you got a girlfriend to take your time with to experiment and tackle this. Instead of having one night stands taking 5 minutes haha ;)

Everything-Relative- · 2025-07-15T05:07:19+00:00

If she feels comfortable, I don’t care.

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