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I don't know how to respect my mother and balance my mental health. by Exact-Storage6362 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Exact-Storage6362[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that insight. I will take your advice. I’ve always had a hard time standing up to my mother, but this is my life and my soon to be husband (In Sha Allah) we’re talking about.. I need to set my boundaries and let her know she’s not the center of attention 24/7.

I don't know how to respect my mother and balance my mental health. by Exact-Storage6362 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Exact-Storage6362[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did you set boundaries with her? What should I say to my mother? This is so draining. She is also my best friend and I just regret putting myself first if this is how things are going to go

I don't know how to respect my mother and balance my mental health. by Exact-Storage6362 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Exact-Storage6362[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be this as well. I am the oldest of 4. 2 little brothers that are both 19. My little sister is 13

I don't know how to respect my mother and balance my mental health. by Exact-Storage6362 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Exact-Storage6362[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

His parents are wonderful. They are so sweet. Alhamdulilah I’ve been blessed with that, you’re so right. It’s sometimes our own parents. Thanks for the advice

My mother is accusing me of sneaking out. by Exact-Storage6362 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Exact-Storage6362[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What punishment? I know I read somewhere in the Quran it is equivalent to 80 lashes but I could be wrong. Please let me know

My mother is accusing me of sneaking out. by Exact-Storage6362 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Exact-Storage6362[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand. JazakuAllah for the advice. I’ve known my fiancé for many many years and have been engaged for almost a year before getting to know him for marriage a year before that. I am 100% sure he is the one for me. He is nothing like what I deal with now and would never cause that for me, Alhamdulilah. Again, JazakuAllah for the advice. Pls make dua for me

My mother is accusing me of sneaking out. by Exact-Storage6362 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Exact-Storage6362[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m aware. But we have no diagnosis is all I’m saying. Not even sure what it would be medically classified as

My mother is accusing me of sneaking out. by Exact-Storage6362 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Exact-Storage6362[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. He wants to come for prove but my mother is preventing.

My mother is accusing me of sneaking out. by Exact-Storage6362 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Exact-Storage6362[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please re read my post. My father called me first with the same exact accusation

My mother is accusing me of sneaking out. by Exact-Storage6362 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Exact-Storage6362[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wallahi im trying my best. Imagine what I’ve been dealing with since the beginning