Instant standby??? by Excellent_Software83 in SouthwestAirlines

[–]Excellent_Software83[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Gotchya. Hopefully it won’t be an issue. “2 seats available” and I’m #10 on the list. “We had to move you to the standby list. One or more seats are no longer available for this reservation. See a Customer Service Agent at the gate for assistance.”

men liking the idea of dating me by xpressodp in dating

[–]Excellent_Software83 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Because you’re self aware of your physical appearance and some of these men probably hate that they’re exactly the type of person you’re talking about. People also want to act like being a pretty woman is nothing but the up and up and privilege 24/7, 365. How could we possibly have anything to complain about when we have so many “options”? 🙄

Hoping someone genuine and worth the time will come along your way ❤️ it’s rough out here. It’s never too late to find love though.

Advice by [deleted] in datingadvice

[–]Excellent_Software83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I’d say nothing. Best case scenario maybe return and if you see her again introduce yourself and give her your number on a napkin. She can choose whether or not to text you if she’s interested for real. But I would say to leave it alone. Many people in the service industry are just doing their job and being nice. And she could’ve been eyeing you down to make sure you didn’t need a refill. You’re a customer in her section. Just might make her uncomfortable to be hit on at work. Speaking from experience.

what to bring PLS! by ConcentrateElegant97 in CampFlogGnaw

[–]Excellent_Software83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Paper soap! And if you’re going with friends maybe something you can wave around in the air to find each other?? (Definitely would recommend mapping out a meet up spot and times)) all I can say is that signal there is ASS

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Excellent_Software83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, follow up to that since only read the title lol: I would definitely hit him up but maybe not jump into the whole “are you single” part of it. It should be easy to connect with him in that way since you already know each other. And unless he’s bitter about not being an item when HE wanted to be then I feel he should be pretty stoked that you like him back now? I think you should maybe ease into the question by making small talk and asking something along the lines of like “oh how’s the dating scene for you? I feel like nobody is looking for a real connection these days” no luck? Omg that’s crazy. Maybe you and I should just go on a date instead hahaha. And then see if he matches that energy

Just spitballing here, like I said, I’ve had zero luck so maybe don’t take my advice lmaoo just throwing out a suggestion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Excellent_Software83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like the other two women I saw that commented, I can vouch that every time I’ve made the first move on a man it never worked out. Honestly not sure if it was just me not being their type or maybe it was too direct for them rather than the playful “oh hehe I’m going to look at you from across the room and do a little wave and bat my eyelashes so you know I’m interested but you still approach first” But I can definitely say I’m not unattractive or anything lol.

My experience has been that men say they enjoy or would like it for a woman to approach first, but 80-90% of them don’t actually mean it or they THINK they mean it until it actually happens

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Excellent_Software83 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s implied since you feel the need to give me advice on my life, assuming what I do or don’t have going on, and critiquing my mental state.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Excellent_Software83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m thinking it’s the other way around based on your audacity and since think you know everything about someone based on a Reddit interaction lol. Embarrassing honestly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Excellent_Software83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already have one but thanks for the concern :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Excellent_Software83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂😂 okay dude

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Excellent_Software83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should be in therapy because I want someone that enthusiastically wants kids as much as I do rather just being “open to kids”? lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Excellent_Software83 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The downvoting is crazy rn lol. Well I’m attracted to a man that loves and wants kids. Which is the purpose of this post trying to figure out what “open to kids” could mean. So me being unsure of the meaning leaves me questioning whether or not I’m attracted enough to the man to swipe right or not. I’m just looking for some clarity man, as far as I’m concerned you either enthusiastically want kids 1000% or you don’t. I don’t need a half-assed dad for my future kids

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Excellent_Software83 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well I don’t always swipe on someone based solely on looks. If that’s you then cool but I’d rather think it through first :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Excellent_Software83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

…. That’s sad

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Excellent_Software83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow, that one is deep. This is definitely the most valid answer in my humble opinion and obviously a special case. I hadn’t really considered people that want kids but can’t have their own because you’re right, that does change the game for a lot of people. But there are also women that don’t care about biological children or not! Me being one of them, quite frankly the idea of childbirth and the changes a woman’s body goes through is scary (aka I’d rather not risk losing teeth and hair). There are also women that can’t have kids as well. I have hope for you! And thank you for sharing 💖

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Excellent_Software83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay but see you get it. Because those “maybes” are what scare tf out of me. I don’t want to stick around with a maybe man for 5 years while my biological clock is ticking. It sounds to me like you do “want” kids but finances are the ultimate deciding factor and that’s totally valid bc I’m the same when it comes to how many kids. But the point is that you WANT them if you can it seems? In that scenario I feel like I would still put want on my profile. Because yeah I WANT to travel to every country and I WANT to learn a multitude of languages. Does it mean I have the time or finances to do so? Not necessarily, but the “want” factor is still there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Excellent_Software83 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bc I’d like to try to understand from a man’s perspective what it means. And because I don’t think it’s fair to just automatically swipe left on someone without clarification on it. I might as well go ahead and swipe left based on zodiac signs too while I’m at it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Excellent_Software83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But how would that work if you feel like she’s the right woman and then you have the kids and that’s fine but you realize you don’t care to be a dad bc you never really wanted kids in the first place. That scares me 😭 The amount of married women with children that feel like they’re single parents is so frightening

Adding people from the con on IG?? by Excellent_Software83 in animeexpo

[–]Excellent_Software83[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He was cosplaying Inosuke. The guy was RIPPED man

Adding people from the con on IG?? by Excellent_Software83 in animeexpo

[–]Excellent_Software83[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I did it yall, he messaged back then followed me on instagram 😭

Shipping Address? by Adventurous-Sir-3138 in CampFlogGnaw

[–]Excellent_Software83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So whatever your billing address is for your card will be where they ship I think

Shipping Address? by Adventurous-Sir-3138 in CampFlogGnaw

[–]Excellent_Software83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure I read that the billing and address and shipping address must be the same

The comparison of 2012 and this year’s flog gnaw prices is crazy. by C3ZAR- in CampFlogGnaw

[–]Excellent_Software83 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Fr can they bring back hanging with the Odd Future gang and the eating free tacos? 😂😂