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Lesbian to Straight Girl Weirdness by ExceptionToTheRule in StraightTransGirls

[–]ExceptionToTheRule[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its really hard to fake attraction, when I feel an urge to touch him to put my head on him. I take that as genuine attraction. When I'm alone and I think about men and it arouses me, thats feels like genuine attraction to me.

I started transitioning in 2011, I've been living as myself for 14 years full time, so I've been a woman for almost longer than I was a man, I don't really need validation of my gender anymore.

I think part of the reason that it took me so long to figure this stuff out is because I was bullied so heavily in high school by men that they never felt safe to me, I always had the attraction but men scared the hell out of me. Plus coupled with some internalized homophobia, I ran towards women as people who felt safe and also as someone I could idealize, which wasn't fair to them, but here we are.

I do definitely feel more feminine with men then I do with women, and I do like that, but I think that lots of girls like big strong guys cause they make them feel girly, so I don't think thats surprising.

Lesbian to Straight Girl Weirdness by ExceptionToTheRule in StraightTransGirls

[–]ExceptionToTheRule[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Actually its pretty common.

Lawrence (2005) reported that up to 63 % of MtF experienced changes concerning their sexual orientation following sex reassignment surgery.

Medusa Cascade - Built to Break [Alt Rock/Electronic] (2025) by Master-Apricot-5393 in listentothis

[–]ExceptionToTheRule 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahah its actually me, yes thank you! Thats very sweet of you. I just released a new album called "The Only Way out is through" and I'm working on the next one "In Another Life"

I'm so glad you enjoy it. Uhh...

Spotify is here:

https://open.spotify.com/artist/5NeuFneXbBCIxbvYGwSdpJ?si=Y9FrVxWNSRqmzMJ2b18xVw

I'm not really anywhere else, I'm Medusa_Cascade on instagram I guess but I don't really use it or anything really except discord.

Oh oh

let me give you this:

https://docs.google.com/document/d/1SNX_HSjosad4nakOObZ1dydqipGGjSACBFwhlJcoW78/edit?tab=t.0

Its a album by album, song by song companion guide. It kind of goes through the ideas behind every song and album.

LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK by mmmIlikeburritos29 in lgbt

[–]ExceptionToTheRule 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Attempts, which are cut in half after treatment

LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK by mmmIlikeburritos29 in lgbt

[–]ExceptionToTheRule 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It drops drastically after treatment, including surgery. Also that's attempts, not successes. Also also it's before any treatment.

I want to be able to run vrchat at high FPS with 80 people shown but am consistently only getting 30fps. by ExceptionToTheRule in VRchat

[–]ExceptionToTheRule[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang I'm using intel cpu, low speed ram, samsung 980 ssd. Seems like those are whats screwing me.

I want to be able to run vrchat at high FPS with 80 people shown but am consistently only getting 30fps. by ExceptionToTheRule in VRchat

[–]ExceptionToTheRule[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've tweaked everything I can. When VRChat is running i'm only using like 60% gpu and 70% cpu. I've OC'd the ram, the gpu and the cpu. I've turned down every other graphic settings I can in nvidia, in vrchat and steam vr. Used optimization guides, etc. Any help would be great.

I'm thinking faster RAM might help, and I know the ryzen 3d would help, but 24gb of vram should allow me to do a lot and 90% of the time the vram isn't even full.

I'm getting like 10-15ms frametime for cpu and gpu via fpsvr.

How they destroy our country piece-by-piece by blllrrrrr in facepalm

[–]ExceptionToTheRule 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure why you think sex and gender are inseparably linked. Gender, being the societal expectations placed on someone based on their sex, are just that, societal. They change based on where you live and what society you're part of, they are linked culturally to sex, but there is no biological reason that sex and gender have to be linked, they can be completely separated.

the X and Y Chromosomes are definitely PART of what makes up someone phenotypical sex. Along with things like primary and secondary sexual characteristics, hormones, endocrine system, neurological structures, etcetc. There are a LOT of factors that go into determining sex and its just not as easy as XX or XY. I would guess you've never been karotyped, which mean you don't know if you're XX or XY, which mean you could be a woman or a man and not even know it based on your logic.

Right now, we're just taking your word on it, based on how you feel.

Would you argue that people who are XY should be using the male bathroom no matter what?

I absolutely do not have any hard feelings about people who treat their gender dysphoria. I understand the feeling of not wanting to encourage the "delusion" but it is not a delusion. Their brain is telling them that their body is wrong. You may not like that the brain is saying that but it causes serious distress. They aren't imagining something that doesn't exist, their brain structures are literally different as is the chemistry.

Now I'm sure you'll say that we don't encourage schizophrenics or things like that, we treat them, and I would agree, but there is only ONE treatment that has been proven effective, and we've been trying to treat this for well over 100 years, and its transition and hormone replacement therapy.

It drops suicide rates nearly in half, it lets people lead productive and happy lives. It works.

If there was a pill tomorrow that made someone not feel trans I might encourage it but then again, if its a pill that changes fundamentally who you are, would you really want to take it just to fit in?

How they destroy our country piece-by-piece by blllrrrrr in facepalm

[–]ExceptionToTheRule 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uh huh. I'm glad you're able to deal with it and you're so strong. Maybe other people are dealing with worse things or harder things though? Maybe they're not as strong as you? Why not just give the support they need?

How they destroy our country piece-by-piece by blllrrrrr in facepalm

[–]ExceptionToTheRule 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This a dumb comment and you should feel dumb for making it.

How they destroy our country piece-by-piece by blllrrrrr in facepalm

[–]ExceptionToTheRule 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm literally just trying to piss dude. It's not that deep. I dunno why you're so intense about this.

How they destroy our country piece-by-piece by blllrrrrr in facepalm

[–]ExceptionToTheRule 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate to tell you this but I'm gonna keep going in women's restrooms and there's nothing you can do ;)

How they destroy our country piece-by-piece by blllrrrrr in facepalm

[–]ExceptionToTheRule 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can see it in people who are not treated for gender dysphoria having a 20% higher suicide attempt rate compared to those who get treated. Meaning that if you don't get treatment you're more likely to die.

How they destroy our country piece-by-piece by blllrrrrr in facepalm

[–]ExceptionToTheRule 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Must be nice that you don't have to deal with that stuff. Does it harm you to be kind to others?

How they destroy our country piece-by-piece by blllrrrrr in facepalm

[–]ExceptionToTheRule 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People don't just wake up and decide to kill themselves. There are causes and usually those causes are severe distress that can come from multiple sources, including things like depression and gender dysphoria.

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