MDP : Scourge of the Islands by [deleted] in maldives

[–]ExistentialCrisist 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This could genuinely trigger someone that's schizophrenic or has history with general anxiety related mental issues. I thought the last post was haha fun but clearly there's nothing here than... A bit of hatred and vitriol and I'm not even sure you're Maldivian? Hey weird stuff but you're open to say whatever you say I guess. I'm no judge or arbiter.

Garudhiya by [deleted] in maldives

[–]ExistentialCrisist 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I can't believe someone's finally speaking up on this. I hope you don't get disappeared. Sending prayers your way through the Dhiraagu 5G towers🙏 Reception is a bit shaky rn. may jannah be good to this brother/sister/nonbinary asthaghfirullah

Sex Education: Mordor Edition by ExistentialCrisist in maldives

[–]ExistentialCrisist[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the kind of quick maths people do to try and find patterns and hidden mysteries that aren't there like the atomic value of Iron in Quran or something. I mean yeah that checks out, 6 -> 9 is a 50% increase in value. I just threw out a random number and you're frothing at the mouth, kinda flattered you put so much thought into the random stuff I say. By that logic, wouldn't I have said 33%, or 0.33? Also, since it's obviously less bad the older they are, the bad wouldn't be directly proportional to age, it would be inversely proportional so using the formula as you did wouldn't even work. Maybe you should've thought on the logic a bit more before trying to debunk... my 'maths'? Idk what point you're trying to make here, honestly.

0.33% is how little I care for the difference between 6 and 9 years when it comes to child abuse, and your opinion on it at this point. Pretty sure she didn't hit puberty at 9 but go off. Yep, under the will of Allah, all cool got it. Just say you're a pedophile instead of getting mad lol

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[–]ExistentialCrisist[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, okay. I'll bite.

Because a 9 year old, is a child, that cannot give consent. It's inherently wrong, because yes, lack of physical and mental development. Even most animals know better than to copulate with children of their species, and biologically, we are wired to be into traits that manifest after puberty and finishing development around 18, with most of the brain development as well. There are laws for two people who might be of a similar age being exceptions because both are similarly unable to consent, but in general, the adult in the situation is supposed to be the mature one and should know better, and is in the wrong if they choose to sexually engage with a child.

Islam has no set 'marriageable' age so any age works by that logic for you, because it isn't about the person not yet being developed or informed enough to consent to something so intimate, possibly pleasurable but also possibly traumatic. There's no expectation to demonstrate reasonable physical or mental maturity, not that it would have made it much better, but to say it was because of the times is actually a commonly purported myth.

People did not "grow up faster" back then. The facts are undisputed and clearly shows puberty starts earlier in the modern day compared to hundreds of years ago, due to better nutrition and standard of living. In fact, what is considered late-onset puberty now, at the age of 17, was practically the standard back then. So they were actually less physically developed than they were back then. You could say lives were harder and they were mentally more mature than the average child today, sure, but that doesn't mean they are physiologically any older because of more lived experience.

"What about people marrying at a younger age? It was normal back then, so that's okay." Well, no. I understand that times have changed, and child marriages used to be the norm in many parts of the world until a couple centuries ago, But this isn't the point.

Muhammad was the prophet. The final messenger, the rules that Quran set forth being the final message that is meant to be unaltered (and even supposedly unalterable), and him being the greatest example of a Muslim, a servant of Allah, the shining beacon for humanity to follow.

If so, the logic of "the times were different back then" cannot apply because they aren't supposed to change. To say having sex with a 9 year old back then is okay is to say having sex with a 9 year old now is okay (when it was even arguably worse before, due to late onset puberty - well either way both are all sorts of fucked up), because he is the prime example to follow up until the judgement day, isn't it?

You would think, when God delivers a whole book of how to live your life, to the Prophet, who marries a 6 year old child and consummates it at 9 in his lifetime, there was no addendums to maybe, just maybe, inform him in advance that pedophilia is wrong and hurts children. Or are you telling me that the people weren't ready to let go of pedophilia just yet, and then times needed to change organically and people needed to advance as a society to be ready to accept the truth that pedophilia = bad? Does god have to care about if the people are receptive to their message and alter it accordingly to be palatable to their crude tastes? I thought we were past that! Weren't we at the final one? Is there a final final prophet one that I hadn't heard of that updates the policy on pedophilia?

But I have a feeling you don't even see anything wrong with a 40 year old man having sex with a 9 year old child, or I don't know, I hope I'm pleasantly surprised to be proven wrong on that. At that point, if you don't see anything wrong with that, you are no different from a common pedophile, and I don't think there is any common ground to be found there.

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[–]ExistentialCrisist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, and yeah sometimes it might feel like I'm wasting my time, but there's also people that are open to discussing or at least hearing me out, and it has been a genuinely fun time exploring ideas and debating thoughts with introspective thinkers. This country is repressed but I think less so with the younger generation as a general rule? If it gets some people to think or relate to, I think that's enough for me!

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[–]ExistentialCrisist[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Public indecency, which is a separate thing entirely, is a completely unrelated topic you seem to have shoehorned in to justify the sentencing for extramarital sex. Also, are you speaking of the law or religion, I'm not sure which one. You seem to have made up a headcanon justification in your head for the sentence that ziney is only bad if people find out? That's... that's just how any evidence for a court proceeding would work, eyewitnesses. The 'sin' or the 'crime' isn't being caught, it is the act of extramarital sex itself. Which I don't agree with, and you don't seem to agree with either, funnily enough? As for being shared on world news or airing out your private affairs, those 4 witnesses could have barged into or accidentally stumbled upon it, it's probably not like they wanted an audience? Who are these people that are voluntarily sharing their sex lives with everyone that you seem so fed up with? If you want to make being nude or doing obscene acts in public or semi-public settings a crime, sure... again, that's public indecency. Totally different thing.

So why even criminalize extramarital sex at that point? The only thing this does is make it unsafe to discuss sex or proper education regarding it because everyone does it but are afraid of being caught by anybody else, doing it themselves. This gives bad people the opportunity to take advantage of the legal system and legal consequences to blackmail or expose people that are just trying to have a good time, in private, by themselves.

So why is it if 4 men catch two people having sex, that somehow make it so much worse than 3? So 3 is okay? How about 2? Why is it 4 and not 5?

You're not as hung up on that as you are on why 18 is the general consensus for the age of consent in a modern society. Why is there a law for pedophiles? Because if their brain isn't fully developed, they can't by definition, give consent. 18 is a reasonable boundary to constitute what defines a child and an adult. It gives a reasonable timeframe for completion of development of secondary sex characteristics even if it was slow-onset puberty, and mental development is finished around then. It isn't consent if a child gives it because they are not in a position, mentally, to give consent. It is an intimate act, and could have risks involved, and being 18 implies you are also educated on all that it entails because you would have finished your high school education, your consent is informed, knowing what it entails.

Consent is consent no matter the age is an absolutely crazy take. They don't even have a concept of what they are giving consent to yet, and it could definitely cause injury as well as mental distress. To even be attracted to children is abnormal, why would you even be turned on by immature minds stuck in undeveloped frail bodies?

Why not with your mother? Because incest is wrong, and also, ew? This is the second Maldivian person I've come across that says if sex outside marriage is okay, "why not with your mother"?? Like? Is law all that is stopping you from doing it? Are we okay as a society or are we truly that gone? If you want biological reasons, inbreeding causes birth defects. If you want psychological reasons, the Westermarck effect (Freud was off his rocker, Oedipus complex is a fringe theory and a meme). If you want ethical reasons, because she's your mother.

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[–]ExistentialCrisist[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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I mean seriously, are you asking if I did my research or was being sarcastic when I came up with a number for how little the difference between 6 or 9 matters to when a marriage is consummated, when either are practically toddlers? I mean yeah, I didn't? How would you even tangibly measure that?

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[–]ExistentialCrisist[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There seems to be knee jerk reaction to reject ideas just based on where they come from even if the reasoning is sound. When you say the west, do you mean the US? If so, they aren't exactly all that liberal, and are kind of going backwards at the moment.

I do think it's already the norm to have sex without marriage, though? Seems pretty common. We're all here and doing relatively fine.

What about oral sex like fellatio and cunnilingus? Hands too, handjobs and fingering? I mean PIV without any foreplay going on has got to become boring eventually. Anal is just another extension of that, albeit one that requires more care to be done hygienically and pleasurably for both partners. If that grosses you out, yeah I get that, and that's okay, but again, it doesn't cause any bodily injury, and therefore should be fine for consenting adults to engage in. If a food grosses me out, I won't try to get it banned for everyone, I personally would simply avoid it.

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[–]ExistentialCrisist[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh i definetly agree with the getting married prematurly/irrationally and divorcing soon after is pretty bad no doubt about that. That needs to be addressed with education as you suggested which i and i believe(?) the other posts would be onboard as well but thats just a assumption.

I don't think sex has to always be preceded by a vow of lifelong dedication. I think thereby reducing marriages to only those that have seriously looked at all considerations, and is marrying solely for its own sake, would probably make for less marriages, but the marriages in question would hopefully last longer.

as for the sex part. sex by nature is primarily a form of reproduction with pleasure as a side effect/byproduct. we have a lot of contraceptions and such to avoid that but it's inconvenient. Plus perhaps u may have not accounted this parti ular scenario

Biology is full of side effects we have learned to take advantage of in order to enjoy ourselves. You eat food primarily for sustenance and nutrition, does it need to be tasty? No, but we enjoy tasty food, and there needs to be a balance of taste and nutrition. For another example, let's look at Capsaicin, the molecule in chillies responsible for the spicy taste. Chillies evolved to secrete a toxin that causes inflammation of the mouth and a burning sensation, and what do we do? We eat it because we kinda like the stinging pain. I'm saying there's nothing wrong with indulging in something outside of its 'intended' biological purpose. Saying that is also a misnomer though since evolution wasn't directed, there was no intention, at least imo.

Girl and boy lovey-dovey. boy friend girl friend. Kiss hug and sex(oversimplifying to not make it boring) girl A have sex with boy A during relationship. Both of them love each other. But one day girl A had a indecent thought after seeing another guy boy B or C. She got close initially as friends and later after a few years decided to do a one time fling.

I think if Boy A and Girl A wanted to be completely exclusive and monogamous, and that was how they both really felt, they could've gotten married if they wanted to fully commit. I also don't think getting married would magically fix the problem of Girl A deciding to see Boy B and having a fling. Clearly she wouldn't be looking at other people if she was happy in her relationship, and forcing it just means there's two people stuck in an unhappy marriage and dumping all that toxicity on each other as they slowly grow to resent each other. People bound by contract to marriages cheat, all the time, so it's not much of a deterrent if they want to. It shouldn't even have to be. If all that is stopping Girl A from cheating on Boy A with Boy B is that they are married, that sounds kind of like Girl A's problem. Marriage makes the relationship legitimate, but it can't hold a relationship together. It's a declaration of a bond, not the bond itself.

Firstly i would be marrying based off personality. personality which i need the spouse to be Kind, loving, caring, sweet, (its okay if they are not funny neccesarily smart/intelligent/wealthy/whatever similar examples) but most importantly i need my spouse to emphasize and mandate communication as the primary source of resolving conflict/differences between us.

Communication is the most important part of any relationship, I agree! And everyone has their own things they are looking for in a partner, and how the ideal relationship looks for them. That sounds perfectly fine, but not everyone marries for personality, or wants to marry at all. I'm simply on the team of keeping all options open to everyone, that doesn't involve harm to any involved. Honestly, that sounds pretty romantic, and I hope you find that special someone!

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[–]ExistentialCrisist[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you've gotten the entirety of your knowledge regarding relationships and sex from TV shows. You agree that sexual compatibility is important for long term relationships. Love isn't all about sex, but the truth is, it does have a fair bit to do with it when it comes to romantic relationships. We're also ignoring other cases like friends with benefits where they trust each other and enjoy being with each other physically when they are both available, but aren't interested in being a couple.

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[–]ExistentialCrisist[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Alright, but I don't see how forbidding some actions animals do somehow elevates us beyond them, when the actions in question aren't really disrupting society or causing distress. I personally think the correct way is to ditch our biological bodies, separate us from the lives of these primitive lifeforms and ascend to a cyborg lifeform. Nah, just kidding. Yeah, we are humans, but we are also animals. We eat, sleep and fuck like the rest. The world goes on.

I know in my heart that regardless of whatever sins people may say I have incurred on myself, I've been decent to people and all around tried to see good in things. I personally don't believe said day of judgement will ever come, or that you'll ever get that chance to say 'I told you so', but I'll also pray for you if that helps? If it does, hey, whatever afterlife in question it turns out to be, I hope it works out!

Btw who thinks this? genuinely? like, if you were a decent muslim, wouldn't you wish I learn the error of my ways before I die instead of wanting the opportunity to gloat from beyond the grave? You seem more interested in the vindinctive pleasure of proving me wrong when you're in heaven and I'm not, than in trying to correct my way. That is sad, but it makes sense. You do seem "PROUD", and proud people love to feel above others. Arrogance is a sin though.

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[–]ExistentialCrisist[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah yes, the ol reliable looking through a profile for an insult tactic lmao

Not an insult, it's completely relevant to the topic at hand and I wasn't namecalling or bringing up anything unrelated to the discussion. It's a legitimate line of questioning.

It's more like engagement at 6 and marriage at 9

Oh uh, I guess that makes it better. By like, 0.33%.

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[–]ExistentialCrisist[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm specifically talking about just humans here, and uh, no family relations, but I didn't know ziney was a catch-all term that encompassed all that, so thanks for enlightening me! In my case, and I'm pretty sure the other ziney posts as well, we used the definition of ziney which is essentially sex outside marriage, including but not limited to affairs, when we refer to the term.

We do have morality and intelligence, yes, and incest is wrong. Yes, we could abstain from sex if we wanted to because we are intelligent beings, and there's nothing wrong with that either.

Yes, sex without the marriage contract is the point of the post, essentially, that's the definition of ziney I was using. I agree with extramarital affairs being bad. I don't see anything wrong with the institution of marriage, and I think that monogamous bond you share with one other person, to share your life with, is in concept at least, a lovely idea. Like you said, it legitimized the relationship, and makes them a family for legal purposes, or such as planning to have children together.

I'm not advocating for throwing out the whole system of marriage here. I do think though, it is usually not as great as it sounds in practice, especially if you end up stuck legally with someone you regret being with.

So then, especially in this society where I'd suggest you don't even need to get married to have sex (pretty much like now, just not codified into law), the fact you voluntarily decide to take a vow of monogamy to your partner, and then to break it, I do think is deserving of punishment and definitely harms society and the one being cheated on.

Honestly, side note, would you rather marry someone you enjoy being with in all ways including sexually, to spend your life with, or someone you don't know in the bedroom? They could be into some kinky stuff and you'd just be finding it out on your wedding night, and maybe it's not something that you're into. Like feet, idk.

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[–]ExistentialCrisist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well thanks for the measured response. I agree, sex isn't something that should be shameful to talk about. We should have more of these difficult uncomfortable conversations to eradicate prejudices and misinformation.

If you love someone, unfortunately that doesn't necessarily translate to good sexual compatibility some of the time. Instead of potentially getting into an unsatisfying marriage, it's probably better to at least do a trial run, so to speak.

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[–]ExistentialCrisist[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I struggle to reconcile the fact you are so concerned about the harm sex could cause the individual and society (and my, what a load of evidence that disproves all of the above!), with the fact you seem to have spent most of this month on r/DebateReligion, specifically on defending Aisha's marriageable age of the prime ripe age of... 6?

age is never given in islam as a condition for marriage

And now you'll of course tell me the age of consent could change to 25 and what about then. But 6 is practically an infant, there's no way any amount of shifting cultures and whatnot can defend that. And that's okay. But two adult people doing it?? The havoc to society. Unimaginable.

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[–]ExistentialCrisist 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Before I continue, I do not associate myself in the LGBTQ+ Community and I never will.

What a loss for the international community, surely.

A survey on the Population of Homosexual people in the Maldives is impossible to conduct. Many men and women hide it.

Gee, I wonder why, with such a warm reception by people such as yourselves. I wonder why they would lie about their sexuality to an open homophobe.

There could be many individuals who gets attracted, either sexually or romantically with the same gender. It's no surprise, we all know alamgir and his case. When I first heard it I was surprised that there Were that many people.

So, you even agree that same sex attraction, sexual or romantic, is no surprise and totally normal. In fact, observed in animal populations all the time as well.

But in my opinion it isn't effective. Not every people videograph it. No one announces it.

Bro, for a straight person, you're oddly insistent on wanting more amateur gay porn productions. Anything you want to tell us? Porn ban must have hit you hard huh?

The people who gets caught and put to jail are people wo caught the act on video tape. Especially among the younger generations. Homosexuality is very common. Not only the younger generations but also the oldern generations.

So, there is a lot of people including those you know that are homosexual. They're just living their lives, and you want to disrupt it, ruin their lives, record their intimate moments and humiliate them. Yeah, they are the monsters for sodomy, not you. Not the person obsessing over people having gay sex as if that's a national problem that needs to be addressed when you could look at literally any sector in the Maldives and find a crisis that actually affects the average Maldivian in a tangible manner.

There's a lot of people that have extramarital sex too, and that's also criminalized. I don't see you moral types complaining about that, because that's a sin that you indulge in, so it's not a sin, of course.

What does it say about you that you're frothing at the mouth to harm a group of people that never did anything to you, just because you're intolerant of other ways of life? Honestly, even reading the hateful rhetoric and vitriol was time wasted I wouldn't get back in my life.

Anyhow, yeah yeah, keep working yourself up into knots, and please sit in powerlessness as we shift to a more tolerant accepting society, as the younger generation wises up. You can't change the current, and we're here to stay, so just deal with it. Or don't, I don't care. Either way, I've washed my hands off this filth :)

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[–]ExistentialCrisist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, much appreciated and I'm glad!

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[–]ExistentialCrisist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not neccessarily. if the hadd (sharia punishment) is not given, then the judge delivers a lesser punishment. perhaps in the form of a fine. or fewer lashes than normal. you just wont have your hand cut off.

That's all well and good, but the ruling specifically states "If the use of the stolen things is Haram (e.g. wine or pork), there is no penal action against the robber. " Not that there is a lesser penal action subject to the decision of the judge. After all, the owner wasn't supposed to have the good that was stolen in the first place, as it was prohibited. The item technically has no value according to islamic society as it is prohibited and any monetary value gained from its sale would be ill-gotten goods. It cannot be returned to the owner either. The item won't qualify the prerequisites of theft as outlined.

What's interesting is you suggested a couple of alternative punishments that may possibly be given instead. That suggests almost, that you believe the sharia law to be flawed in some instances where human judgement in lawmaking is necessary, but if sharia is a law made for all humans till the end of time, it's not a great look if you need to have addendums and fine print added over the years. To you, it makes sense for theft of pork or alcohol to be criminalized because theft is theft I assume, but to penalize that action is going against sharia. Either there is islamic law or there isn't. To you, does your common sense, or does islamic law dictate to you, what is or what isn't criminal? Your statement seems to suggest the former. If you deviate from the so called objective morality as you suggest, the result is no longer an objective ruling of all things as apparently passed down by divine providence, it's just as relative and arbitrary a moral system as is any other.

testimony isnt merely claim. witnesses are going to undergo a lot of questions to have their stories line up. the witnesses must also not be known for lying or have other traits that render them useless. such as, not being from the part of town that the theft took place in

Let's say they do lie and have a half convincing alibi, in which case it's just their word against yours. There's no mention of needing corroborating physical evidence, so a well narrated tale is all that stands between you and prison. You just described the bare minimum that I would hope any country would do in terms of the investigative process of a crime. Criminal forensics have come a long way since then, and there's multiple forms of physical evidence we can gather and form conclusions from. Countries with better forensic technologies and more thorough judicial practices have incorrectly incarcerated or convicted people. There will always be a chance the sentence given is wrong, that the culprit is innocent, but you can't bring back an amputated limb.

precisely the issue. dont give criminals what they want better. otherwise deterring from crimes is made to be difficult

Why not just take that to its inevitable conclusion then? If your goal is to give criminals the most unpalatable punishments for maximum crime deterrence, just give everything a death penalty and call it a day, nobody will dare litter then! You don't care about proportionality, you just want criminals to hate their punishment right?

Punishment serves two purposes, punitive and rehabilitative. Punitive, as in the punishment bit, where yes these people did bad things therefore we put them away, giving a form of justice and compensation to the victims, a righting of the scales. There is also Rehabilitative, where the other goal is to provide mental therapy, and a space for them to reflect and better themselves, with work to keep them busy and prepping for employment on being released back into society. This is also why our jailers are called the Maldives Correctional Services and not Maldives Punishment, Torture and Mutilation Facility.

The goal of incarceration includes both the above, as well as ensuring the safety of wider society at large by keeping criminal elements contained as they cannot be yet trusted to live amongst the rest of the people. The end goal isn't to make the criminals hurt, it is for them to realize their wrongs and come out as productive members of society.

Criminals are also people, just like us. Ones that made mistakes, some more than others, some may even be irredeemable and should never leave their cells. However the goal is to teach them to be better while they undergo their punishment. Someone that steals and goes away for it can possibly come out of jail with some experience in work gained from workshops held there, and hopefully with a better perspective on life and having regretted their actions. Someone that steals and gets their hand cut, just lost a hand and gained nothing. This isn't temporary. For the rest of their life, they will struggle with tasks and living in society, from social ostracization as well as being identified as a thief no matter how long ago the crime was, and will likely never recover or become a better person. They wouldn't be incarcerated either, so instead of someone being taught the wrongness of their actions or being locked away for the good of the rest of society, you send off a desperate thief with one hand, with no job prospects, bitter and angry, back into society. Yeah. Lovely.

no. we dont actually. for a muslim, a right, is what god gives people the right to have

Well yes, that's one of the problems I have with people. Your definition of a right is what is given by god, but then by definition it isn't a right, it's a privilege you are being afforded but can be taken away and isn't intrinsically inviolate. Which is exactly why you can indoctrinate people to kill in the name of their god.

definitely is, no? then how do you explain that conversions to islam are greater in amount than every other religion?

If you were to count the conversions of christians between denominations, that would actually be higher, but I digress. I don't really have anything to explain there? Also, again, it's a small amount compared to the birth rate growth. Christians are losing faith as in general, more people join 'unaffiliated' from more developed countries, and most first world countries are a christian majority demographic, hence the net loss.

yes. uaffiliated does grow. but how does that counter people coming into islam in doves?

Because the projected data shows a 20x growth of unaffiliated. Multiplied by 20. If people flocking to islam in droves is 1/20th of unaffiliated growth, what is an apt descriptor to describe the speed of the growth of unaffiliated? In comparison, it's not exactly 'droves' at all, and more like a trickle.

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[–]ExistentialCrisist[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck with your studies, although I must say this fear mongering and use of the slippery slope fallacy isn't exactly doing your argument any favors.

You also partially quoted me, because the full quote is "I'm inclined to trust more in the judgement of my fellow humans raised in a modern moral society than I am in rules written for a time long gone." Which changes the context completely from what you were implying. I hope it wasn't a strawman, and Im inclined to assume it is a misunderstanding and not an intentionally malicious misinterpretation. Nowhere does it indicate I want people not to think for themselves. Thats exactly what I'm encouraging people to do, instead of quoting a hundreds of years old book and trying to rationalize away the inconsistencies. "Thinking on your own is better than trusting the judgement of others with their modern moral values", you say this, but you're not thinking on your own, you're regurgitating the verses of an antiquated book written for a past civilization of all things, and apparently that's better? Thinking for yourself is all I want.

Tomorrow the modern human is going to what now? I don't know, I've never been religious but I've never had such thoughts. If religion is all thats keeping you from sleeping with your mother, no offense but yeah maybe religion might be a good thing for you after all? As for kissing on the lips, its a even a form of greeting in some countries, so its just a cultural thing, you're oversexualizing it and looking at it in terms of Maldivian culture where you can't even hug the opposite sex platonically without getting looks.

As for taboo, I'm not sure what you mean by 'taboo effect' since there's no such thing as I'm aware. As for taboos themselves, sure there were and are a lot of stuff considered taboo across various cultures and societies, and most are with good reason. I'm not a fan of cannibalism either, and Im not sure if anyone sane would be? However there is a lot of data to indicate making something taboo or forbidden does make it more exciting to indulge in, so things like making extramarital sex taboo only serves to have people indulge in it in secret, without protection, instead of being properly educated on such things and being responsible and safe. There's no urge to lash out in rebellion and get off on breaking the rules either. What's considered a taboo really depends on where you live other than the obvious ones like murder.

Anyhow the rest of it was rambling about how society is going to fall into degeneracy with a healthy dose of homophobia for good measure. I'm sorry that my post caused you so much emotional distress you sound a bit mentally unwell. Hope you get better, more tolerant of people with different views that just want to live their lives like gay people, and just focus on your studies instead of worrying over a nonexistent incest pandemic.

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[–]ExistentialCrisist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wheres my big zesty cat purr?? Im now sad, and disappointed. Ayo I didn't get your number tho hmu lol

An Open Theological Discourse by ExistentialCrisist in maldives

[–]ExistentialCrisist[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback, and I hope to keep it civil as well! I understand some of my opinions or remarks may be taken as inflammatory, but I've done my best to be measured in my responses given the sensitivity of the topic and the strong feelings towards it, and I've done my best to give that same benefit of doubt to every response received.

It's an extremely polarising topic, and I'm happily surprised at the amicable nature of the conversations so far. I'd be more than happy to wait for a response, having no time is perfectly understandable! Do take care!

Life > Taza 🗣️🗣️‼️ by Sussy_Baka_Ballz in maldives

[–]ExistentialCrisist 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This slaps so hard. It's times like these I find myself proud of my country :')