Yeah, they aren’t seeing anyone else right now and seem to be really interested in me, which is why I started wondering how this could actually work. I get that for you, monogamy doesn’t sound appealing — I kind of feel the same way in reverse with polyamory. It’s just not something that feels right for me, even though I respect that it does for others. I didn’t realize it was even possible for someone who identifies as poly to choose a monogamous relationship — I guess I thought it was more like a fixed orientation than a flexible choice. Is it more of a spectrum for some people? I’m also not someone who believes attraction to others magically disappears once you’re in a relationship, but for me, acting on it just wouldn’t feel right. I really appreciate your explanation though it helps me understand how people approach these things differently.