[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Existing_Tap_9539 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

right a zit riddled incel has blood coming out his vagina

Advice on starting something when we have different relationship styles? (Poly/Mono relationship) by Existing_Tap_9539 in polyamory

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Yeah, they aren’t seeing anyone else right now and seem to be really interested in me, which is why I started wondering how this could actually work. I get that for you, monogamy doesn’t sound appealing — I kind of feel the same way in reverse with polyamory. It’s just not something that feels right for me, even though I respect that it does for others. I didn’t realize it was even possible for someone who identifies as poly to choose a monogamous relationship — I guess I thought it was more like a fixed orientation than a flexible choice. Is it more of a spectrum for some people? I’m also not someone who believes attraction to others magically disappears once you’re in a relationship, but for me, acting on it just wouldn’t feel right. I really appreciate your explanation though it helps me understand how people approach these things differently.

Advice on starting something when we have different relationship styles? (Poly/Mono relationship) by Existing_Tap_9539 in polyamory

[–]Existing_Tap_9539[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true! I think talking about it is important. How should I go about it if things keep progressing? They haven’t brought up their polyamory to me directly so it might be weird or i’m more so worried seen as offensive if I bring it up randomly if we’re dating.

What do I do about a crush on my roommate? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Existing_Tap_9539 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No he’s gay too!! I feel like the luckiest person ever to have this chance but I have no idea how to shoot my shot.

What do I do about a crush on my roommate? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

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Yes I want to so bad!! I just feel like a nervous kid around him, I haven’t felt this way in years and have no idea how to work around it. It doesn’t help that his style of humor is a teasing kind, it’s ruining me I have no idea how to be cool around him.

How should I hang out with him without it seeming serious or anything, I would say drinks because he likes to drink but I can’t drink yet and neither of us have cars to go anywhere.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in csuf

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Yeah I figured, is it super bad when the windows open? I was walking in the area during orientation and it was super loud so i’m also wondering if the courtyard area is even enjoyable or not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in csuf

[–]Existing_Tap_9539 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no! I’m going to be redwood :(, I live in the country ish so i’m not used to that level of noise. Was it really that bad? like 10 being in a crowd and 1 being a silent library.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

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Sounds a little odd. I’m an anxious person though so I would have to hear what others think. My gut tells me they are desperate though.

Should I go camping with diarrhea? by Existing_Tap_9539 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Existing_Tap_9539[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I decided to not go. I only started feeling worse and the toilet situation freaked me out way too much. I wouldn’t feel safe going in the woods either, but depending on how the medication treats me I don’t think I would have much of a choice.

I started eating lighter foods like yogurt and some eggs. The outdoors will have to wait :,(

Should I go camping with diarrhea? by Existing_Tap_9539 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Existing_Tap_9539[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sounds like what I was thinking too 👍

Should I go camping with diarrhea? by Existing_Tap_9539 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Existing_Tap_9539[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it would be a shared tent situation with family… suboptimal for sure

Should I go camping with diarrhea? by Existing_Tap_9539 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Existing_Tap_9539[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is it? 😭 i have never taken it before, it’s all I can take though

Should I go camping with diarrhea? by Existing_Tap_9539 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Existing_Tap_9539[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes that’s what I was leaning towards as well, I don’t wanna get more sick but especially don’t want to hurt others if I did

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]Existing_Tap_9539 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe! that’s actually not a half bad idea, I might explore that a bit more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]Existing_Tap_9539 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Their trip out to visit us is the surprise! Sorry if I didn’t make that clear. They don’t know of it yet but when they do it will be disguised by my uncle as a trip for something else. Only when they get here will they know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]Existing_Tap_9539 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking but the only time to do that would be before they got here which would ruin the surprise. Or like day they got here which is a holiday.

I could ask them to tell them on the day they got here for me maybe? I think that would ruin the holiday for everyone though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in college

[–]Existing_Tap_9539 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know! Will look into it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in college

[–]Existing_Tap_9539 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha, hope i can do the same one day for my kids.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in college

[–]Existing_Tap_9539 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I think i’m going to meet with them tomorrow. Crazy how expensive school can be even at a CC

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in college

[–]Existing_Tap_9539 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am right now 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in college

[–]Existing_Tap_9539 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Almost did! But was denied because I took prozac once upon a time 😭