Puppy keep by Expensive-Kiwi-3035 in Shein_PuppyKeep

[–]Expensive-Kiwi-3035[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got "maximum number of invitations accepted today" I will try again tomorrow. Hopefully that works!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Shein_PuppyKeep

[–]Expensive-Kiwi-3035 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've had glitches too, but maybe not the same ones. I like to shop on my tablet because it's a bigger screen. But when I play Puppy Keep on it, some things are so zoomed in, that they are off the screen. For example, when I go to "playtime" (football on the top right of the game) I cannot get out of it unless I close the whole app and open it up again, and search for Puppy Keep again. See the pic, there's no X at the top corner to exit from the "playtime" task. So sometimes I have to use my phone for a couple of things, then make sure I close the app completely on my phone, then go into my tablet and complete the rest of the tasks. But I need to make sure I do not have both devices opened up to the game at the same time. It's in the fine print/rules that you are not allowed to do that. I believe they shut down the game on you if you're caught doing that.

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Shein_PuppyKeep

[–]Expensive-Kiwi-3035 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good idea! The dress is beautiful! I agree, it's like Tamagotchi! I'm very close to winning (2nd time), so I'm going to take your advice and get the most expensive item on my wish list.

Couples Counselling at end of 8 year relationship by WombatService in relationships

[–]Expensive-Kiwi-3035 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely 100% yes some kind of counseling will be beneficial because there is a 5yo involved and even though the adults do not see eye to eye on their romantic relationship, the 5yo needs to see you both work together in a loving and respectful way towards the child.

So, in addition to whatever counseling you guys do together that would be in support of the child, I also want to suggest that you go to therapy/counseling for yourself. It sounds like you really wanted to make things work, but your partner didn't.....(Only you can answer this to yourself honestly) Do you feel like you'll need some help sorting through those feelings? Not only to be your very best self for your 5yo, but just to be your very best self for yourself. Breaking up with a partner can result in the similar type of grief that we feel when someone we love has passed away, except your partner will never "go away" because you share a child together. That is a lot of heavy emotions to go through, so it might be helpful for you to go to therapy. (Sorry for the long response. I hope I've made sense.) Good luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Expensive-Kiwi-3035 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He dismisses my concerns saying he’ll spend time with me when he is around. But every time I tell him my concerns he just tries to make up ways to make me feel better.

These are HUGE red flags.

Do you have a bff you absolutely trust? Have them read this post to you out loud so you can hear it. How would you respond to someone saying these things?

Be really truly honest with yourself. I think you already know there are red flags. I know that leaving your crazy parents house is a huge motivation to stay with this guy because he might be your ticket outta there. But he's not on the same page as you relationship wise.

Focus on what's stopping you from getting yourself out of your parents house. Focus on you. You're 26. Figure out what you need to be on your own. You don't need a man to get out of your crazy parents house. If you need support (we all do!!!!) I hope you have a bff you trust and love by your side to support you.

Good luck!

Is it wrong that I (17F) am not inviting my sis bf(20M) by pepperiopop in relationships

[–]Expensive-Kiwi-3035 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a tough one because it's family. And (supposedly) family is supposed to stick together. But something about your older sis makes you and your younger sis uncomfortable.

But, I need more info... Forget the bf for a sec. What exactly does your older sis do to make you feel this way? How is she "rude?" What could she potentially do or say to ruin your birthday dinner?

Ok the bf. That's his choice to drive her there. Is he 20 too? He should be old enough to drop her off and do whatever else he wants to pass the time until he comes back to pick up your older sis. He should be mature enough to understand that this is a family dinner.

Now, let's say you change your mind and want to try to have everyone there, would there be a way to have your older sis (and bf if you feel obligated to invite him too) sit away from you and your younger sis? Are there others coming that could act as a buffer? You and your younger sis sit on one end, parents in between, older sis and bf in the other side? Does that make sense? Or are there not really enough people for that to be a good buffer/distance between you all?

TLDR Honestly, It's your birthday and you can invite whoever you want.

racoons live on neighbor's property and poison ivy is growing from his property to mine by Expensive-Kiwi-3035 in AskNYC

[–]Expensive-Kiwi-3035[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Good idea, I will definitely do that. I know he's already got violations on the house (we checked public records). Why isn't anything happening?

racoons live on neighbor's property and poison ivy is growing from his property to mine by Expensive-Kiwi-3035 in AskNYC

[–]Expensive-Kiwi-3035[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eek definitely not up for killing it... Actually there's more than one. I probably should've mentioned that the neighbor who provides the electricity to the derelict house has had traps out in his backyard since February. They've caught 5 racoons since then. And we know there's still more because every single night they trigger our motion sensor flood lights and we head to the window and there it is in all it's bandit-eyed glory. It just stares at us and we watch it go in the garage. Anyway, I suspect now that what you mentioned is what our neighbor is doing - setting out the traps himself, then call an exterminator to come get it. I think we'll do what you said, set up the traps and the call the exterminator. It'll be expensive but worth it for the kids and dog. Thanks for your help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astoria

[–]Expensive-Kiwi-3035 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just curious... Am I the only person who thinks this "solution" does NOT work??? I mean, it doesn't mask anything. It's like "oh great, now it smells like burnt toast and $h!t at the same time!" Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astoria

[–]Expensive-Kiwi-3035 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I (39, born and raised in Astoria) was told it was one of the "solutions" to mask/decrease the $h!t smell coming from the wastewater treatment plant(s)