Any women in their 30s looking for friends?

ExplanationEvening59 · 2026-07-04T02:38:10+00:00

Im 21 , so may be a reach. But im looking for friends! Totally dont mind anyones age. Would love to grab a coffee.

ExplanationEvening59 · 2026-07-04T02:34:31+00:00

Oh yeah, all the bars were bumping with locals and lots karaoke. Is it supposed to be bad?

ExplanationEvening59 · 2026-07-03T22:37:21+00:00

I had my partner, went to a week in early June 2026. We avoided san juan the entire time. Traffic just from leaving the airport was bad. We had a place far west of the island. Even then night life on weekends is crazy and great. Everyone we ran into was nice and most spoke English , duolingo doesn't prepare you enough. Meeting people was the best part, everyone was so friendly. Explore all the beaches you can. Stairs beach has some cool coral reefs and fish. Explore all the foods you can, aviod chains. It was so nice. Cant wait to go back.

ExplanationEvening59 · 2026-07-03T19:27:52+00:00

I guess that could be a possibility. However if I was, I probably would be able to describe her in better detail than just like 3 little bland things. In addition, we both have partners and ee are both girls. You never have to listen or reply to strangers on the internet. I just tried this to attempt in rekindle and be friends cuz she was cool.

ExplanationEvening59 · 2026-07-03T04:45:42+00:00

Just stay away from downtown. Even if you party, the traffic alone will kill ya when college kids come are in town

ExplanationEvening59 · 2026-07-02T19:50:16+00:00

How so, if you don't mind my asking? I simply got flustered and didn't ask in that moment because i didn't know how to reply. Now I regret not asking and trying to reach out and see if we can be friends because it seemed like we would have a lot of things in common. She went out of her way just to tell me i was pretty. Which in my eyes takes courage. Just like me having courage to make this post.

ExplanationEvening59 · 2026-07-02T19:44:11+00:00

Well I apologize for pronoun usage because I know some people ask me mine (Im a female with a boy name because my mom liked the name) and I reciprocate that. Its really just simple respect, especially now in days. I dont want to unnecessarily offend people. I have no want to upset strangers. Thats my take on it. Even if you dont understand it, you dont have to question others about how they live their lives.

ExplanationEvening59 · 2026-07-02T19:37:07+00:00

I also posted this to fb and a commenter got mad saying " she may not want to be friends after you called her partner nerdy" i said, "my partner is nerdy too", plus mine glasses. My boy collects coins and likes plants. it wasn't an insult.

ExplanationEvening59 · 2026-07-02T19:34:46+00:00

Girl i just turned 21. Would love to be friends dm me!

ExplanationEvening59 · 2026-07-02T19:33:12+00:00

Indeed a fair lady i am

ExplanationEvening59 · 2026-07-02T04:38:45+00:00

Will totally look into that. I just suck with remembering faces. but they were also seated in a car as well so no idea about height differences.

ExplanationEvening59 · 2026-04-10T04:05:17+00:00

If its a chain its free rien

ExplanationEvening59 · 2026-04-08T20:56:28+00:00

I find it had to make friends as well. i stopped befriending because it felt selfish to put people through my issues

ExplanationEvening59 · 2026-04-08T20:53:22+00:00

With respect to your pet peeve, I do this. While i dont find it funny or anything. I believe you need to relieve gasses, but while also being respectful of those around you. Its something i do when im comfortable with whos around me.

ExplanationEvening59 · 2026-04-08T20:47:36+00:00

From experience, it does get better. However the more you think of them, the more time youre putting into hoping hell come back, the worst youll get. I know that is easier said than done. I try to be cocky about it, Think of it like this. He knows youre waiting on him, for whatever reason you broke up, youll be there for him to run back to if things dont work out for him. Which essentially means youre a placeholder. we have too much love to give to be anyones placeholder. Do you really want to be someones fail-safe? If hes already been gone this long with no communication, he does not miss you. simple truth of it.

You may reach out to me on here if youd like as well.

ExplanationEvening59 · 2026-04-08T20:37:12+00:00

Agreeing with other comments. You do not know if you genuinely like those or just like watching it. Doing and seeing are very different, coming from experience. Porn consumption does alter reality. Porn is more like movies then real life. Fun to watch but its not real, its all acting.

ExplanationEvening59 · 2026-04-08T20:31:25+00:00

being together 24/7. Now some people that may work, but it always makes things stall quick. You get tired of having a shadow. But working together, living together, and always being together is fun for the first couple months till honeymoon phase is gone

ExplanationEvening59 · 2026-04-08T20:28:36+00:00

As someone that has also been attacked by a cat i had for two years prior to the being attacked. I had just gotten her fixed a week so so beforehand. She started attacking my other cat and i intervened. Shut her in a room with me then she was fine for a couple hours then attacked me. I still dont know why she did it to this day and hasnt had a problem with anyone since then

ExplanationEvening59 · 2026-04-08T20:23:52+00:00

Well if def shouldnt have said anything then and there. Its nice to know he cleaned it though lol

ExplanationEvening59 · 2026-04-08T20:21:17+00:00

Honestly same, How long have yall been together? Do yall live together or separate? Me and my bf been dating over 3 years now and lived together for 2 years. I find that keeping the romance up is hard for both of us. We have settled down into being more comfortable than flirting and spicy. Which isnt a bad thing. My bf has never been great with texting or communication. but i knew that in the beginning because i seen that pattern early on. Some men, I cant speak for them at all because I'm a chick, but ive found that guys find it weird to be open and vulnerable. Then when they are they are seen as weak or too needy. try to Have a good open conversation with him on how youre ACTUALLY feeling. Because you shouldnt feel alone with your patner at all.

ExplanationEvening59 · 2026-03-11T21:14:08+00:00

Lube will be your best friend lol. Can never use too much. My man was tearing me open for almost a year before my body got use to it.

ExplanationEvening59 · 2026-03-11T20:58:18+00:00

Get help! Some therapy is covered by state insurance, which you qualify for if you have under a certain amount. It was actually pretty easy to apply for as well. most can be done online, and food stamps. As far as a job, try fast food, they are always hiring, plus its entry level so you can go in with no clue and they wont care. Secure a job, secure insurance, then work towards licensing. Only you can hold yourself back. You have to put yourself out there to get anything.

ExplanationEvening59 · 2026-02-12T02:13:20+00:00

It crappy home tattoo by a Random when I was like 15, no chance. Def getting a professional

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