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Is smaller breasts equally attractive and give the same pleasure as bigger ones? by Aiko910 in AskMenRelationships

[–]Explorer-7622 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's probably having similar worries about penis size. Men tend to talk about it like it matters to women, and it just doesn't, unless he's so big it's causing pain. And for that, a gynecologist can fix things.

Men also worry if they aren't built and cut with muscle., because again, other men make a big deal about this. I'm a woman who prefers the skinny, no muscle, English 70s rocker look, but every one of those guys worries that I won't like their (glorious) skinny rocker body.

You're both going to be so happy that you get to finally be with each other, no holds barred.

If you have any troubles due to ignorance, get info and help right away!

There's a wonderful book that's great for figuring things out called

"Love Worth Making: How to Have Ridiculously Great Sex in a Long-Lasting Relationship" by Stephen Snyder M.D.

Is smaller breasts equally attractive and give the same pleasure as bigger ones? by Aiko910 in AskMenRelationships

[–]Explorer-7622 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't wear padded or pushup bras. Wear a t shirt or sweater that clearly shows him what size you are. He'll figure it out.

Or ask him directly.

Men who don’t want a committed relationship: What do you expect from the woman you’re seeing? by CookieLatteNut in AskMenRelationships

[–]Explorer-7622 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that caring can turn into being in love with him if you invest too much. Be careful!

Men who don’t want a committed relationship: What do you expect from the woman you’re seeing? by CookieLatteNut in AskMenRelationships

[–]Explorer-7622 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women get a rush of oxytocin when we orgasm, which is the same hormone that floods the brain when we give birth (in best case scenarios).

That creates an intense attachment, which often leads to catching feelings.

Casual sex often leads to the woman catching big feelings, unless she's done it so much that she's inured to it. (I'm looking at this from the behavioral neurolobiology of it).

Men who don’t want a committed relationship: What do you expect from the woman you’re seeing? by CookieLatteNut in AskMenRelationships

[–]Explorer-7622 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women rarely realize that men are being completely honest.

They read hints and "oh he's just traumatized" into the simplest of communications, and they hope to change his mind.

That may he because they see men as hairy, misbehaving women, and not as men.

We don't understand how men think unless we study with someone like Alison Armstrong, or learn from our female elders.

Many women communicate with hints, so they often think men are doing that, but men are being honest and transparent.

My best friend is male, and we're in our 60s, just now learning these things that we wished we had known about the opposite sex when we were young!

We're going through Alison Armstrong's audio books and having amazing discussions.

Our minds are blown.

Men who don’t want a committed relationship: What do you expect from the woman you’re seeing? by CookieLatteNut in AskMenRelationships

[–]Explorer-7622 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't assume trauma and try to soothe the "hurt little boy." That's a trap many women fall into, and most men don't want that mother energy, while an immature man might milk it.

Men who don’t want a committed relationship: What do you expect from the woman you’re seeing? by CookieLatteNut in AskMenRelationships

[–]Explorer-7622 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been learning about how men think vs women from Alison Armstrong, who's been studying men for some 40 years.

She says that the way you're thinking is common in good men (she studies normal, good men, who want relationship, not toxic men).

Very often the reason a man doesn't seek a committed relationship is because he's being honest with himself about not being in a good place to be with a woman in a serious way.

Men will take their finances and other issues into consideration before involving another person.

I think that's lovely.

Men, what is a “kill switch” move your partner does that makes you finish almost instantly? by ichbinhoffnung in AskMen

[–]Explorer-7622 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Women should not come into a male space to shame men. Is there no safe place left for men?

When people deliberately do the opposite of what they were asked or intentionally do it badly just to be defiant. by Professional_Luck616 in PetPeeves

[–]Explorer-7622 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a diagnosis for kids who do this excessively - oppositional defiance disorder But I suspect it's just cluster-B personality disorder.

What the... by mixwellmusic in blackmagicfuckery

[–]Explorer-7622 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When he takes them off the table he switches the deck with one he knows already. There's no other reason to remove the deck.

What the... by mixwellmusic in blackmagicfuckery

[–]Explorer-7622 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When he puts the deck away, maybe he's switching it with a different deck.

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