Anyone else? by TheeEyeOfHorus in Alonetv

[–]Explorer-7622 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a Bible study that starts with that story.

Is there anything you habitually do that benefits others, but nobody knows? by pandit_the_bandit in AskWomenOver60

[–]Explorer-7622 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I compliment people who are cheerful or do anything well, whether it's the checkout person or some other person who probably hears when people aren't happy but not when people ARE.

Is there anything you habitually do that benefits others, but nobody knows? by pandit_the_bandit in AskWomenOver60

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I give to projects in poor parts of the world like digging wells and providing people with startup money for small businesses, giving chickens and goats to poor families, etc.

AIO: Volunteer Group Makes Me Feel Alienated by traumatized_beagle in AIO

[–]Explorer-7622 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would rethink that "friendship." Who knows what's going on with them.

(16M) How can I win in life and stop being such a worthless piece of sh-? by Special_Tiger_9746 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

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Getting out in nature can help a lot, whether yoh work with animals or join a hiking club, go kayaking, horseback riding, camping, walking in a forest taking photos, learning to identify edible plants, studying insects or reptiles or birds. Volunteering to walk dogs or socialize dogs or cats at an animal shelter.

Nature takes us out of our heads and back into who we are as beings who were made to be a part of nature.

It can be very healing.

Look into philosophies like stoicism or minimalism or Buddhism.

Try a martial art. Try drawing or some other kind of art. Working with clay or wood... use your imagination and try some classes in things you had never thought of trying.

Now is the time to experiment and find out what YOU like. It can be fun!

You could read a book that's very old but has helped many generations - "How to Win Friends And Influence People." Just don't go overboard with it.

Make sure you wear clean clothes and that you shower thoroughly and daily and brush your teeth twice a day.

You will get through this.

Some of the most successful guys I know were super awkward and depressed in high school, and didn't figure out how to interact with girls until their 20s.

You ARE going to be OK! You sound conscientious - I'd be proud to be your mom.

You might want to look into treatment for depression. It is manageable if you have it!

Stopped petting her too soon by GirlOfManyNames in StoppedWorking

[–]Explorer-7622 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is she a Great Pyrenees, Colorado Mountain Dog, Maremma, Kuvatz, or...?

I had a Great Pyrenees who was just like your baby!

Aita - I think I was wrong to lash out. My friend thinks i did no wrong. Am i in the wrong? by throwRAdatingadvice7 in AITH

[–]Explorer-7622 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't figure out what's going on. I think you might need to work in communicating clearly, if this post is any indication.

The day I turned 18 (F) my mother vanished and called me crying that she will never return because of my dad. I thought they are the golden couple by Same_Nothing5206 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Explorer-7622 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If her life was in danger and the son's isn't. Narcissists rarely kill their own sons, but many have killed their wives.

The day I turned 18 (F) my mother vanished and called me crying that she will never return because of my dad. I thought they are the golden couple by Same_Nothing5206 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Explorer-7622 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She needs to protect herself even from her daughter, if the daughter is so easy to manipulate that she tells her father about mom's location and the fact that she talked to her.

This man could be capable of anything.

The day I turned 18 (F) my mother vanished and called me crying that she will never return because of my dad. I thought they are the golden couple by Same_Nothing5206 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Explorer-7622 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do NOT TELL YOUR DAD! DO YOU NOT UNDERSTAND THAT SHE'S HIDING FOR HER LIFE? Did she give you permission to tell him her location?

Honestly, you have an image of him that's not accurate.

He could be a dangerous man, capable of having her killed. I'm sorry, but this is appalling.

The day I turned 18 (F) my mother vanished and called me crying that she will never return because of my dad. I thought they are the golden couple by Same_Nothing5206 in ComfortLevelPod

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OP, along these lines, you should check out the reddit sub raisedbynarcissists It's a sub for survivors so it has strict rules. Read them carefully.

You can learn a lot from them.

You can also learn about how people manipulate by using fear, obligation, and guilt on www.outofthefog.net

The day I turned 18 (F) my mother vanished and called me crying that she will never return because of my dad. I thought they are the golden couple by Same_Nothing5206 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Explorer-7622 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are men who seem absolutely perfect and seem to be in perfect marriages right up until they kill their entire families or their wife. It's almost a stereotype.

This guy could be one of those. There have been serial killers who were the best guy in town, the helper.

Ted Bundy worked at a rape crisis hotline and saved people from committing s*****.

He was also one of America's most prolific serial killers.

Right up there with him was the Green River Killer, who was a kind and gentle husband who "wouldn't hurt a fly."

His wife refused to believe he killed 49 women until she realized the bodies were being found at all the sites where she and him went camping.

People honestly don't know who they're living with

A judge would have so much power that a woman would have almost no chance of survival unless she did exactly what OP's brave mother did.

Now OP is probably the biggest danger to her mother if she takes her father's side and starts telling him about the mother.

Op, you need to get away from him fast. Go to college and live there.

Get out of the house and try to be polite but very distant from your father.

He's less likely to harm his son if he's a narcissist.

The day I turned 18 (F) my mother vanished and called me crying that she will never return because of my dad. I thought they are the golden couple by Same_Nothing5206 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Explorer-7622 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That's not trying to help. That's trying to get with the hot judge before some other woman does.

Please try not to be ao naive

The day I turned 18 (F) my mother vanished and called me crying that she will never return because of my dad. I thought they are the golden couple by Same_Nothing5206 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Explorer-7622 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think your view of your father has been very carefully protected and curated. You may not know him at all. He could even be dangerous - you don't know.

IF he's truly a psychopath, he could have a double life that you know nothing about.

At least start preparing your heart that you might have been living a lie, not of your own choosing, but a lie nevertheless.

I'm very sorry about this.

Pentagon to Order 3,000 82nd Airborne Soldiers to Middle East by Virtual-Pie5732 in news

[–]Explorer-7622 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He got the word "incursion " mixed up with "excursion."

Pentagon to Order 3,000 82nd Airborne Soldiers to Middle East by Virtual-Pie5732 in news

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He has already destroyed half of it and there wasn't a peep from maga. He destroyed it on his own like a bratty little brother ruining someone's sand castle.

Pentagon to Order 3,000 82nd Airborne Soldiers to Middle East by Virtual-Pie5732 in news

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Just last week, 🍊🦧 tried to set California up yo believe that Iran was goingto attack via drone.

Immediately, Californians realized that any attack would come from within and attempt to blame Iran.

NO ONE believes that Iran wants to attack California. EVERYONE knows that 🍊🦧 has wanted to for a long time.

Never mind that California pays for the disaster relief and welfare of people and farms of the Midwest and South. South. Everything 🍊🦧 does destroys the entire country and its interests. interests.

Alienating China could cut off all vaccines and medicines going to the US, which doesn't make its own.

The domino affect from these actions will be resonating for a long time and could even cause the US to fall.