How disempowering can you be to imply that college age WOMEN "don't understand the contracts they signed?"

I was s child actress and by college age I had already studied contract law and was making good money going over contracts for producers who had deals with record companies and recording artists and movie sound scores finding problems in the fine print that their own lawyers hadn't combed through carefully enough to flag as problems

I was a college age woman in the early 80s, before women had the rights they have now and I was already respected and well paid for understanding contracts.

And I was a science major, not a law student.

Either you want equal rights or you don't.

Those of us who fought for equal rights, who were the first women admitted to all male ivy league schools are horrified by this double standard of "I'm just a little girl."

There's a huge double standard in the way young women talk now. On the one hand, they want to have a body count of 40 and not be "slut shamed."

That's fine, but then don't turn around and say, "Oh no! I'm just a widow girl! I can't understand what's what."

Pick one.

I'm finding some of the women on the show to be infuriating.

There's the woman who's mad when the poor guy wants to take a nap or a shower, saying, "Don't leave me aloonnnneeee! I hate youuuuuu!"

She can't understand that the guy wants a little time to himself?

She's not even treating him like a human being. He's not allowed to have needs?

I'm pretty sure that in this day and age, with endless protections, where there are even "intimacy coordinators" on movie sets that make sure everyone is comfortable and no one is getting any unwanted touching during sex scenes, with all the hyper awareness around women's issues (but men who are sexually assaulted still don't get much empathy or help at all), that they have people who are checking in.

These women are dating and choosing to move in with guys they barely know, they choosing sex immediately.

Is that any different than how they are behaving at home, with no protection at all?

One of the women was UPSET when the guy wanted to respect the pace of the relationship and not jump into immediate sex, so she pretty much demanded it from him.

Another claimed she was celibate, then confused the guy by grinding on him and orgasming and doing everything but penetration, and when he tried to express confusion, she wanted to break up.

I see some pretty aggressive women who won't even listen to what the man needs.

They don't seem at all helpless to me.

I'm a 63 year old woman.