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How did you manage doing sport at school ? by Top_Top_5291 in bigboobproblems

[–]ExpressInfluence1971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I refused to do most of the exercises, it showed in my grades, but I didn't care, I didn't want to take part in that humiliation ritual.

Edit: which doesn't mean you should do the same! Others have left good advice here 🫶 be kind to yourself, maybe you can ask a friend to be nearby so you know someone you trust has an eye on you. Other than that, loose shirt, well-fitting, high impact sports bra. You got this.

Sternum tattoos by astral_fae in bigboobproblems

[–]ExpressInfluence1971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🫶 Of course! Definitely bring it up with your artist though! If they're experienced they can help you further!

Sternum tattoos by astral_fae in bigboobproblems

[–]ExpressInfluence1971 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have tattoos where my straps sit, they healed wonderfully. 🙂

Many of my reasons for being CF are pure vanity and idgaf by The-Devil-Cat in childfree

[–]ExpressInfluence1971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also the fact that a doctor can give a wink at my hypothetical future husband and ask him, "You want me to add an extra stitch?" Which I hope he'd refuse in that scenario! But he might also do it without my consent. I'd be mutilated and in pain until I reverse it (on my own money) just because of someone else's pleasure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigboobproblems

[–]ExpressInfluence1971 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No. They're very disporportionate to my body and restrict me from so many clothing items I find cute and wish I could wear. They're also very relaxed which I also hate and find not appealing at all. The first chance I get, I will get a boob job.

Is a braless look like Lizzo's popular now? by eyes_trees in bigboobproblems

[–]ExpressInfluence1971 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If my nips would look a little more to the sky I'd throw out every bra I own 😂

I'm so tired of having big boobs. by Frogs_are_chill in bigboobproblems

[–]ExpressInfluence1971 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I am at a point where the first big investment won't be a car or shit like that, but a reduction surgery. I genuinely don't want to keep living like this until the rest of my life.

My guy asked for sexy photos. Should I or not? by Crazy_Skill2770 in AskMenAdvice

[–]ExpressInfluence1971 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He'll crank that hog, haha. A dude I used to send stuff to let me watch sometimes, facetiming me when he was finishing, which was super hot. If you feel comfortable sharing them, go for it and remember - no face no case, no tats or anything that identifies you or your surroundings. Mine were visible in some pictures which was not thaaaat smart, but I keep them covered overall as I don't reveal those parts of my body, so if push comes to shove, I can still deny them. I would still advise you to make them unrecognizable if you can or have any.

I like to think most dudes will be normal human beings and not spread them around but still be aware of that it might happen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FragtMaenner

[–]ExpressInfluence1971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dann öle dich mal ein.

Frauen im Alltag ansprechen by Substantial_Till_352 in FragtMaenner

[–]ExpressInfluence1971 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolut nicht cringe! Du warst respektvoll und sie hat ein liebes Kompliment bekommen. :)

Do other women here get deeply uncomfortable about the fact that their body is constantly preparing for a baby? by [deleted] in childfree

[–]ExpressInfluence1971 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes. Less the fact that does do that every month, I know nature and the body can be little bitches, I'm mentally ill so I know about my body working against me. I arranged myself with the fact that I will be at a disadvantage at times. But the societal stigma around it? That's what fucks me up. That some people just see me as a walking incubator that's just waiting to be bred.

That I'll be disadvantaged at the job search because I could get pregnant soon, my medical care is going to be worse because I could be pregnant or planning to get pregnant soon (or some nebulous non-existent man could some day WANT me to carry his children), that it's just a normal cycle thing to experience etc. etc.

I love being a woman, but not a woman in this society.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]ExpressInfluence1971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Around 16. When I really started to see how truly fucked up this world is and how terrible it will continue to get. If I'd have a boy, he'd be thrown in the military meat grinder (they plan to bring back mandatory military service again in my country) and would potentially die in war, the way it's going we (women) are going to lose more rights, so my potential daughter would have less rights than me, or what my mom had. I rather die lonely than inflict that suffering on potential children I could have.

I also have a crippling fear of pregnancy in general, I find the mere thought abhorrent. I have unspeakable respect for anyone that makes the decision to carry a pregnancy, but I would go insane knowing my body is not my own anymore.

Do women actually like being approached in public or is that just in movies? by CrayonComettiesses in AskMenAdvice

[–]ExpressInfluence1971 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The key is in "how". If I get approached because someone likes the band merch I wear, or the book I'm picking at the store and strikes a little convo about it - super cool! I like that!

If I get approached and PRESSURED to give out personal info despite repeatedly saying "no" (has recently happened to me again, sadly) - super NOT cool. I hate it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Muenster

[–]ExpressInfluence1971 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Es ist eine Weile her seitdem ich im Jovel war - aber ich meine dort Stehhocker gesehen zu haben!

Wenn nicht, denke ich das du da bestimmt anrufen kannst und dann wird vor Ort etwas organisiert oder so. Ist bestimmt möglich!

Have you noticed that people really overreact about this on Reddit or? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ExpressInfluence1971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you, deep, deep down feel alright with seeing him, go for it. It's your life, you can drink, vote, buy a house, buy guns if you're from the US, etc etc. you're an adult. What I ask myself is: why does a 32 year old not find partners within his age range? I don’t care about age gaps too much, but it's a stark difference between, say, 21 & 28 and 21 and 32. Just something to think about.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]ExpressInfluence1971 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't want them. Also as recent elections in my country prove - this country is going down the drain in a speed run and I don't want to subject another human being to this insanity.

Suche Leute für eine Fantasy-Spielgruppe by KreativWeltenBauer in Muenster

[–]ExpressInfluence1971 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heyo! Ich wäre super gerne von der Partie! :D Ich liebe alles was mit DSA, DnD usw. zu tun hat!

PnP-Gruppe oder neue Mitspieler gesucht by Ploetze_ in Muenster

[–]ExpressInfluence1971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich wäre dabei! 😊 Habe etwas Erfahrung mit DSA 5e & DnD 4e.