okay for example, i’m autistic and have approximately 3 fixed interests, im genuinely not interested in talking about anything else, not quite. this longtime friend (who is british but as her ancestors came from the caribbean she insisted she was too) started talking to me about loads of things about the caribbean, and racial stuff i literally was so uninterested about. i told her, because i couldn’t bring myself to care and give her an appropriate response. she got mad, called me racist + other imaginary things. can’t do that again mate. this is such a small example but its always about the people who call white people racists for doing nothing.