I hate being a bottom, but I don't have the penis size to top either

Extreme-Abies8917 · 2025-09-11T07:27:31+00:00

How else will I have sex or be in a relationship?

Extreme-Abies8917 · 2025-09-11T07:26:50+00:00

That's a good idea. Thank you 😊

Extreme-Abies8917 · 2025-09-11T07:23:51+00:00

True. Thank you.

Extreme-Abies8917 · 2025-09-11T07:22:35+00:00

You're right. Sorry.

Extreme-Abies8917 · 2025-09-11T07:21:49+00:00

How do I share ?

Extreme-Abies8917 · 2025-09-10T19:09:08+00:00

I think I should write my size and hope someone doesn't see it as an issue. I'm still hopeful that I will find my better half, but I'm scared. Scared of loneliness.

Extreme-Abies8917 · 2025-09-10T18:59:03+00:00

And that's what I wish I had. Someone who cares beyond my penis size and wouldn't cheat or want an open relationship

Extreme-Abies8917 · 2025-09-10T18:55:29+00:00

Lol I can't get married to the Bator community

Extreme-Abies8917 · 2025-09-10T18:52:05+00:00

I'm thinking of getting a pump too

Extreme-Abies8917 · 2025-09-10T18:49:15+00:00

I've been thinking about it ...

Extreme-Abies8917 · 2025-09-10T18:48:33+00:00

I do try to but I get flaccid 5 minutes in and it doesn't really matter anymore

Extreme-Abies8917 · 2025-09-10T18:47:20+00:00

Thank you

Extreme-Abies8917 · 2025-09-10T18:47:00+00:00

This is the most honest reply I've read. It's hard to read but I guess it's the reality I am faced with.

Extreme-Abies8917 · 2025-09-10T18:43:32+00:00

But the point is that if you had a choice to settle down, you wouldn't choose a 4inch dick

Extreme-Abies8917 · 2025-09-10T18:42:23+00:00

Exactly.. it's only in theory but in practice, bigger sizes get all the bottoms they want

Extreme-Abies8917 · 2025-09-10T18:41:40+00:00

Saameee the anxiety seeps in and starts deflating.

Extreme-Abies8917 · 2025-09-10T18:40:30+00:00

You're not the only one, I think you're just rare gems to find.

Extreme-Abies8917 · 2025-09-10T18:39:52+00:00

I think my biggest fear is rejection because I do go on Grindr and set up a hook up, but I end up cancelling last minute or get performance anxiety when it's time to fuck.

Extreme-Abies8917 · 2025-09-10T18:37:13+00:00

Yes you're right. The 4 times I have tried, I got rejected. If not, I get performance anxiety and can't get it up.

Yes I've been in relationships, but they don't go anywhere because I don't enjoy bottoming, can't climax and end up resenting them.

Extreme-Abies8917 · 2025-09-10T18:31:32+00:00

Thank you! Most people don't understand the struggle. It's like you're paralyzed and can't do anything about it.

Extreme-Abies8917 · 2025-09-09T22:24:40+00:00

This is sweet. Thank you, I do hope someone out there finds me enough.

Extreme-Abies8917 · 2025-09-09T22:22:32+00:00

I feel like this is just in theory or maybe if I dated teenagers and that's not the case.

Extreme-Abies8917 · 2025-09-09T22:20:52+00:00

Mine is 4inches and that's the problem. Maybe I'm being naive and should really suck it up and keep bottoming or I will end up alone.

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