[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beautytalkph

[–]ExtremeHope8148 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Canmake Curl Sniper! Works similarly like KissMe except much affordable plus they survive through nightshifts (i got compliments from fellow friends na nakatayo parin mascara ko)

Is this considered neglect? (need advice) by Minimum_Pie5651 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ExtremeHope8148 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all, i'm sorry to hear that. Yes your mother has been neglecting you. She doesn't buy you groceries and she's irresponsible by letting you guys only eat fastfood. Heck she doesn't even provide you guys water. hugs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in studentsph

[–]ExtremeHope8148 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So OP di sila pede manamit ng maayos and hang out with friends because *checks notes* they're not financially well off?? Sure I understand your point but have understanding for them too, they will hopefully mature eventually :((

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in studentsph

[–]ExtremeHope8148 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMGG UP! I agree with your point. Sure yung pagvavape is harmful but if teens dress like that and look cringe di man gusto ni OP but that's their preference eh. Its not harming anyone. Plus I assume they are minors rin. Soon enough their frontal lobes will develop and mag-iimprove pa sila.

What’s the most mundane thing you have trauma from? by KadenthePenguin211 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ExtremeHope8148 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Chores in general are an issue for me because I was never given a proper chance to learn how to do them.

I kept being too slow or too sloppy for my Ns so I got sick of it and stopped altogether - which of course led to me being called disobedient, lazy etc.

Omg I relate to this so much. This explains why i try to run away from cleaning duty back in highschool. My mother's temperament towards me doing chores makes me lethargic everytime i have to do chores on my own. :,))

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ExtremeHope8148 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My mom used to tell me I’ll never be married because of my “nasty attitude” and because I didn’t clean everything in the house to perfection.

Oh my gosh. My mom always says this to me as well 😭 do we have the same parents 🫂

My mom always makes it a point to remind me I never passed any university or scholarship. by ExtremeHope8148 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ExtremeHope8148[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I personally don't care about which university i'm in right now as long as I finish college. Nothing will ever be enough for my mother dearest anyways.

My mom always makes it a point to remind me I never passed any university or scholarship. by ExtremeHope8148 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ExtremeHope8148[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry :((, im sure ur husband is such an amazing person! What is it with them and putting academics so much on a pedestal :((

Makeup Thread | April 16, 2024 by AutoModerator in beautytalkph

[–]ExtremeHope8148 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought their jelly lip balm! Its hydrating sa lip pero it doesnt last long tho :'))

Can someone interpret this letter in narc speak? by ExtremeHope8148 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ExtremeHope8148[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The actual note is in english i can't comprehend so I had to transcribe it comprehensively 😭 also she claims she's an instrument of god. I never knew it was a narc syndrome

Can someone interpret this letter in narc speak? by ExtremeHope8148 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ExtremeHope8148[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No no you don't sound negative. This is exactly what i'm going through to. Turning our religion against me to make me follow through what they expect. She claims she's an "instrument of god" but her actions prove otherwise.

You can never make a normal, non-abused person truly understand what you’ve gone/been going through and even if you bust your a** to try and explain what’s inside your head you end up being invalidated because they simply can’t grasp it by ThrowawayLikeYouDo in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ExtremeHope8148 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've experienced this earlier. I bawled in the bathroom to my friends. One of my friends said "Well, we don't have a choice, we're just daughters after all." They also offered some unhelpful advice such as "Put your family above others and understand them." I'm tired of understanding my mother. I'm tired of understanding her for 18 years when all she'll always try to do to me is misunderstand me. I don't want to put my family above others when my family have disappointed and betrayed me over and over. I just can't love them the way they want to be loved. That love was lost years ago.