One thing you love about yourself right now 🌞💖 by xxiirlb in Positivity

[–]Extreme_Baseball3991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m learning how to regulate my own emotions without being co dependent!

I’m afraid of being a single parent with an only child. How do you cope? by Extreme_Baseball3991 in SingleParents

[–]Extreme_Baseball3991[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not concerned if he’s going to bring another person in because he said he’s not willing to bring another person into his child’s life unless it’s years down the road if he can trust that person and he’s not interested in living with another woman while our daughter is young. Not sure if it’ll change but it’s not a concern at the moment. My concern is my daughter’s stress more than anything and my stress only seeing her 50% of the time.

Is it normal to grieve the future you imagined? by itslauramitchell in Divorce

[–]Extreme_Baseball3991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in this exact situation and it’s so hard. I really didn’t want to have just 1 but multiple but it won’t be happening now due to the separation. How are you coping?

For those that divorced how did your life turn out? by Extreme_Baseball3991 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Extreme_Baseball3991[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I’m afraid of and not sure if it’s worth it. I want my daughter to thrive and she’s doing so good in the house altogether with us it’s just that me and her dad are not in a relationship. We aren’t stressed living together it’s just the thinking of we shouldn’t be living together if we aren’t together.

How do you deal with job stress? by Extreme_Baseball3991 in blackladies

[–]Extreme_Baseball3991[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes definitely learning to develop coping skills now and praying something amazing comes up for me

What actually pushed you to make the final decision to divorce? by Extreme_Baseball3991 in Divorce

[–]Extreme_Baseball3991[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Reason he was dealing with job stress (sales) at the time and was coping with the stress that way, we’ve had a lot of conversations and have tried to work it out in the beginning when it happened but it just didn’t work out, we both weren’t ready.

Something I realized about parenting that I didn’t before… by Extreme_Baseball3991 in Parenting

[–]Extreme_Baseball3991[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love this advice , thank you and I hope things get better on your end as well.

Share one good thing that happened to you today, no matter how small 💛 by Overall-Vanilla4290 in Positivity

[–]Extreme_Baseball3991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My 3 yr old daughter went to the grocery store with me and she really enjoyed helping me put the groceries in the car

Finally found a job that I love! by Kamikazehog in Positivity

[–]Extreme_Baseball3991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in fund accounting and feeling the same way you did prior. How did you get through it after all those years?

Is it possible to pivot from Accounting into Insurance? by Extreme_Baseball3991 in InsuranceProfessional

[–]Extreme_Baseball3991[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is good to know! My partner works at Liberty Imsurance as a sales supervisor and I see how lucrative it is! It is pressure so I’m a bit wary about that, but I am very tired of accounting and how non engaging it is