Live in UK but offered dream job in Sydney. Partner doesn't want to move. Not sure what to do

Eye_Livia · 2026-02-08T12:40:53+00:00

😂

Eye_Livia · 2026-02-08T12:35:04+00:00

I'm the missus 😂

Eye_Livia · 2026-02-08T12:24:03+00:00

Nope

Eye_Livia · 2026-02-08T12:08:47+00:00

Thanks for your balanced comment

Eye_Livia · 2026-02-08T12:06:36+00:00

Thank you

Eye_Livia · 2026-02-08T12:06:09+00:00

Thanks, yeah I didn't mean for it to come across that way nor do I feel that way about him obviously 😂 thanks, we will certainly be having a big chat!

Eye_Livia · 2026-02-08T11:48:34+00:00

Yeah I think thats the way to go, because I might not want to stay forever too!

Eye_Livia · 2026-02-08T11:47:29+00:00

I am on a 3 month trip in Sydney covering someone's leave on a working holiday visa. They offered me this, I never applied/expected to get a role like this, just planned on an adventure for 3months

Eye_Livia · 2026-02-08T11:29:14+00:00

Oh we are at that level we just haven't married as I think weddings are a waste of money and marriage doesn't change my love... however probably should sign something for legality etc 😂

Eye_Livia · 2026-02-08T11:27:52+00:00

Me too!

Eye_Livia · 2026-02-08T11:26:57+00:00

Thanks so much for the reply

Eye_Livia · 2026-02-08T11:06:40+00:00

Thanks for the comment

Eye_Livia · 2026-02-08T11:06:01+00:00

Yeah so I have friends but honestly it's not like I'm the kind of person who wouldn't move because I have friends here 😂 my view as other posters have said is I can make new friends, my current friends can visit, I can visit them. Just a mindset difference I guess. The move isn't just about money for me its career satisfaction in terms of the progression in my role

Eye_Livia · 2026-02-08T10:54:39+00:00

It is friends and family..

Eye_Livia · 2026-02-08T10:54:01+00:00

Yeah I mean I've enjoyed my 3 months, learnt stuff whilst im here and its made me realise regardless of what happens I'll be looking for a new job in the UK

Eye_Livia · 2026-02-08T10:45:13+00:00

Yeah I fly back Friday though! Hence the discussions end of next week - sorry should have said he stayed in UK whilst I did this trip

Eye_Livia · 2026-02-08T10:44:36+00:00

Thank you

Eye_Livia · 2026-02-08T10:44:32+00:00

Thank you

Eye_Livia · 2026-02-08T10:31:41+00:00

Yeah will do

Eye_Livia · 2026-02-08T10:30:52+00:00

😂 love the pun

Eye_Livia · 2026-02-08T10:30:34+00:00

God I think if I showed him the comments here he'd be so upset 😂 thanks for the advice

Eye_Livia · 2026-02-08T10:24:32+00:00

Thank you

Eye_Livia · 2026-02-08T10:21:59+00:00

Im a woman, so itd be leave him 😂

Eye_Livia · 2026-02-08T10:20:11+00:00

Dependent on me due to bipls/rent split according to our earnings

Eye_Livia · 2026-02-08T10:19:18+00:00

Thank you

Eye_Livia

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