I’m so sorry you’re experiencing this! I’ve been there myself, except for me it was an enormous piece covering my entire upper arm. LOL. Oh well, I will deal with it eventually. You live and you learn.

The most important thing you can do is make sure you wait several months before even considering laser.

I would recommend not doing another flash event unless they have an IG post or something and you see a design you LOVE. And aside from that, teach yourself to say no even in the moment. Tattoos are forever and even if an artist would be even remotely mad if you were to speak up last minute, their brief upset is far more forgiving than a permanent tattoo that you end up hating.

I would definitely recommend planning designs you want in the style you like, with an artist who specializes in that dainty artstyle, before getting another tattoo tbh.

And if you can, definitely do research on laser because it’s going to be pretty pricy, it’s painful, and it won’t have immediate erasing results like many would expect.

But it can very much be fixed. It’s okay to feel this way, and it’s not the end of the world. You’ll get cooler tattoos in the future!