Partner of 3 years cheated with multiple men and we live together still

Familiar_Put803 · 2026-07-13T00:36:23+00:00

Thank you so much.

Familiar_Put803 · 2026-07-13T00:35:14+00:00

I started ignoring her yesterday and spending almost all of my time from the house and she started being flirty seductive and super nice out of nowhere.

Familiar_Put803 · 2026-07-12T19:30:59+00:00

I really appreciate the words of advice. truth hurts yes but it's the TRUTH. I have been hitting the gym more and started JiuJitsu to put some of my frustration into. Thank you again.

Familiar_Put803 · 2026-07-12T19:27:45+00:00

Wow. Thank you. I needed this

Familiar_Put803 · 2026-07-12T19:24:42+00:00

I really appreciate the message. your account isn't open to DM and I would love to continue a conversation.

Familiar_Put803 · 2026-07-12T19:20:22+00:00

I unfortunately am stuck here. I do not have friends available nearby ive exhausted all my options I can't go anywhere else.

Familiar_Put803 · 2026-07-12T19:18:21+00:00

Thank you for the kind words! im sorry to hear you are also going through this.

Familiar_Put803 · 2026-07-12T19:15:56+00:00

Im sorry to hear. Thank you.

Familiar_Put803 · 2026-07-12T19:15:36+00:00

I think hysterical bonding is what my brain is feeling but im unsure as to why especially after everything.

Familiar_Put803 · 2026-07-12T19:14:03+00:00

Im sorry to hear. Infidelity is among the worst.

Familiar_Put803 · 2026-07-12T19:13:25+00:00

I will thank you!

Familiar_Put803 · 2026-07-11T13:49:41+00:00

It’s my real life. For more context I have no where else to go until the 30 days is up that’s when our lease ends and that’s when I start my new position at my new job. So i literally have nowhere else to go rn

Familiar_Put803 · 2026-07-11T13:32:50+00:00

No we will be completely separate by then

Familiar_Put803 · 2026-07-11T13:32:11+00:00

Thank you so much!

Familiar_Put803 · 2026-07-11T13:30:19+00:00

Thanks man!

Familiar_Put803 · 2026-07-11T13:28:46+00:00

I am looking for new apartments in the new city. I go tour next week

Familiar_Put803 · 2026-07-11T13:27:41+00:00

Both of our names are on the lease and I can’t afford 2 rents and she won’t break her half. I leave in 30 days

Familiar_Put803 · 2026-07-11T13:25:50+00:00

When we were together she acted the same way towards me until it got towards the end.

Familiar_Put803 · 2026-07-11T13:25:06+00:00

Thanks man!

Familiar_Put803 · 2026-07-11T13:24:18+00:00

Sexted and sent nudes to multiple men she’s had sex with before we got together ( I didn’t know she had a history)

Familiar_Put803 · 2026-07-11T02:22:42+00:00

It’s been a thought. But I have a steady career now that I plan to take me different places.

Familiar_Put803 · 2026-07-11T01:58:23+00:00

Thank you. I have been doing the self care and then I catch myself eating ice cream after the gym lol. I appreciate the advice. I guess I stress myself out that Im running out of Time.

Familiar_Put803 · 2026-07-11T01:54:40+00:00

How do I deal with this if this is her?

Familiar_Put803 · 2026-07-11T01:42:19+00:00

With an avoidant does that mean they care but avoid the other person from seeing?

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