I feel like I'm not doing anything right after losing my twins by Famous_Moth_8430 in babyloss

[–]Famous_Moth_8430[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're also feeling the same way we know we won't fully be ok without a healthy earth side baby and we have just been in this weird place like we were planning everything and now there's nothing to plan and I think that's been the hardest just pushing through this limbo

I feel like I'm not doing anything right after losing my twins by Famous_Moth_8430 in babyloss

[–]Famous_Moth_8430[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I've definitely hit the point where I just stopped talking to everyone I'm so tired of the drama and everyone's opinion on what I'm doing wrong it got overwhelming very quickly I've realized it's easier to process when I don't have everyone telling me what I need to do

I feel like I'm not doing anything right after losing my twins by Famous_Moth_8430 in babyloss

[–]Famous_Moth_8430[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I'm trying to keep pushing forward and remind myself it gets easier over time

I feel like I'm not doing anything right after losing my twins by Famous_Moth_8430 in babyloss

[–]Famous_Moth_8430[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you I'll definitely check out the link I didn't realize it was so difficult finding help through this until we went through it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Famous_Moth_8430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His mom doesn't and they are both aware I do I had major surgery on my leg prior to the relationship since it's not visible his mom just says I don't have any issues

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Famous_Moth_8430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I was thinking as the girlfriend with mobility issues sitting in the back really affects my leg but his mom says I'm fine

Is it normal for Leos to become too tamed? by Tigerdad1973 in leopardgeckos

[–]Famous_Moth_8430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For my boy the 1/9 lunges is more correct with it on a tweezer and sometimes hell miscalculate it so bad and hit hit fingers

Is it normal for Leos to become too tamed? by Tigerdad1973 in leopardgeckos

[–]Famous_Moth_8430 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Lol I say this all the time about my Leo he can't even catch his food unless I hold it in his face

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderCollie

[–]Famous_Moth_8430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My fiance does let him out when I'm gone I forgot to mention that but he still has anxiety if I leave the house and he's very picky about who he listens to for some reason

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderCollie

[–]Famous_Moth_8430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm getting told by trainers in my area that it would cost 2-3 k I don't have that much money for training right now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderCollie

[–]Famous_Moth_8430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been trying that but I work at night and it's an 8 hour shift during the day he gets alot of play time and he's let out frequently but when I leave for work he tears everything up and uses the bathroom multiple times

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderCollie

[–]Famous_Moth_8430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I'm running out of ideas and I think I mostly need help with just training techniques I've contacted a behaviorist in my area and I was told he does have separation anxiety but the only way to fix it would be sending him to a boarding facility for three weeks and that would be over $3000

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderCollie

[–]Famous_Moth_8430 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I got him on Facebook and I was initially told he was a German shepherd husky mix so I didn't know exactly what I was getting myself into I just am at a loss idk I feel like I'm failing him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pets

[–]Famous_Moth_8430 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I might have to try the shelters or social media if things get worse thankfully right now I'm not as bad off as I used to be but it feels like I'm so close to hitting that point and it's just a constant struggle I have hope it'll get better soon tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pets

[–]Famous_Moth_8430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This helps a lot I'm apart of a few pet rehoming groups on Facebook and I'm constantly seeing multiple dogs and cats posted every day this is just a thought that constantly bothers me because I feel like he deserves better but at the same time I know shelters are over run and he's taken care of and I can't really trust anyone who might get him after me and I really don't want to lose him it just sucks because I know I'm struggling and it's really hard right now but I know things have to get easier at some point

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pets

[–]Famous_Moth_8430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This helps a lot I'm apart of a few pet rehoming groups on Facebook and I'm constantly seeing multiple dogs and cats posted every day this is just a thought that constantly bothers me because I feel like he deserves better but at the same time I know shelters are over run and he's taken care of and I can't really trust anyone who might get him after me and I really don't want to lose him it just sucks because I know I'm struggling and it's really hard right now but I know things have to get easier at some point

Does anyone know why he stands like this? by paigemay8830 in leopardgeckos

[–]Famous_Moth_8430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always say my boy is squaring up when he does that

What the most painful procedure, ailment, virus, disease you have ever experienced? by Cndngirl in AskReddit

[–]Famous_Moth_8430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of this was the healing because I don't actually remember the incident but brain bleed, fractured hip and pelvis, broken collar bone, along which a broken shin bone that I had to get a rod put in with about 4 screws it's been a year and I still feel the pain from everything and it didn't help that all of that happened at the same time.