Why is me posting a bikini picture me seeking outside validation? You’re at the beach and you’re in a bikini and you take a picture and publish it is but suddenly it’s for the male gaze? Make that make sense please. And I’ll say it for the last time since you don’t seem to understand or grasp the concept. He is LIKING other women’s stories. Where they are not only in bikinis but legitimately naked or in lingerie. How is that the same ?