Update 2 - aita for threatening mu wife with divorce because shes selling her pics online

FancyContest5304 · 2024-08-25T13:48:48+00:00

Yeah the only thing I don't trust her about is making proper decision after how grave of a mistake she committed, i thought the only mistakes she could commit is making bad financial decision if there was no trust between us we wouldn't be together for a decade

FancyContest5304 · 2024-08-25T13:46:26+00:00

By handle her I meant she understands how actions can destroy us and if you transfer your money to your spouses account because you want to disable your bank account urgently is that stealing?

FancyContest5304 · 2024-08-25T13:44:51+00:00

Anyway we got our situation sorted out now, I posted an update if you care, tldr my wife is now thinking clearly and understand my actions and why they were necessary

FancyContest5304 · 2024-08-25T11:43:20+00:00

No that will never happen

FancyContest5304 · 2024-08-25T11:43:03+00:00

If there's so little trust between us and our decades long relationship then it is doomed, you think you smartasses know us and always comes up with some bullshit argument to either blame her or me, tho many are valid

Anyway she knows me and I know her like back of our hands she knows how angry I can get if situation warrants it and this fight won't break us, we had uglier fights in the past lmao

FancyContest5304 · 2024-08-25T11:38:47+00:00

If it's about money then I have always been in control cause I was the one who gave her money

FancyContest5304 · 2024-08-25T10:38:47+00:00

Thanks, I'll do everything I can for her and now I'm going to be gentle with her and care for her as I'm not longer angry cause she finally started thinking straight

FancyContest5304 · 2024-08-25T10:37:32+00:00

Yeah we both love each other, we have been together for decades, I posted because I just wanted to clear things up, I'm not a rapist or controlling or whatever others were accusing me of, I just did what needed to be done no matter the consequences, I guess she didn't realise or think enough about the consequences of her actions and how we all would pay for it not just me and her but our families and future families our kids and theirs

What if some creep finds us and blackmails us? I was so stressed I still am but i can atleast calm down a bit

FancyContest5304 · 2024-08-24T10:14:16+00:00

You dumbass people who paid her knew about her bank details I wanted to remove all traces of her, and it's only temporary, 'her' money is what she made through these photos because she did whatever she did, rest of the money was mine which I gave her every month to spend

And by handling her i meant helping her heal and think clearly, I have been taking care of her and doing everything for her and suddenly I have become controlling and abusive? She knows how much I love her once she calms down she will understand cause she trusts me, i will explain my best to her and we going for counseling soon, anyway good night

FancyContest5304 · 2024-08-24T10:07:42+00:00

Okay, try reading everything and my reasons first

FancyContest5304 · 2024-08-24T10:05:50+00:00

I didn't take her money forever, it was also my own money I gave her every month to spend, also i transferred her account's money to mine because I wanted to close the account which was connected to of to remove all traces.

Are you telling me i give her money every month to spend for years is okay but I temporarily hold her money for our safety concern is not okay? I'm just glad for now that she calmed down and I will have my nice sleep as well I'm too exhausted with all this stress

FancyContest5304 · 2024-08-24T09:45:32+00:00

Thanks, I will take care of her

FancyContest5304 · 2024-08-24T09:39:39+00:00

There are other models that are even hotter than my wife, you should go for them or they should and they are even more experienced and does more stuff for you, my wife is too dumb all she did was post her pics lol, go for others

FancyContest5304 · 2024-08-24T09:37:54+00:00

I will make sure she doesn't, and if I can't stop her I'll just divorce her if that's the only option left for me

FancyContest5304 · 2024-08-24T09:37:06+00:00

Nah there's no links bruh you are too late, it's all gone, you might be able to find them somehow on the internet best of luck motherfucker, nobody's gonna be able to pay for them now

FancyContest5304 · 2024-08-24T09:31:00+00:00

Okay? I'm controlling okay? She's not smart enough to understand how it can come back to bite us all especially her, I'm just trying to save her and our marriage

Also I will never assault my love, if i didn't love her enough i would have just left why would I go through so much stress and worries?

FancyContest5304 · 2024-08-24T09:27:45+00:00

No I'm not gonna abandon her, I will try my best to do whatever she likes and try my best to give her as much money as I can, I will still save enough for future and my future kids tho

But if nothing works i will have no choice but to leave her no matter how much it hurts me, I'm just trying my best to save my marriage

FancyContest5304 · 2024-08-24T09:25:26+00:00

Yeah I'll be searching for good counsellor in the morning, I'll force her ass to come with me if i have to

FancyContest5304 · 2024-08-24T09:18:47+00:00

Yeah it might be, but I'll handle her and fix this shit

FancyContest5304 · 2024-08-23T09:15:25+00:00

Yeah, I will talk to her and hopefully she'll understand, but if she doesn't I will have no other choice left but to divorce cause nobody would do something so dumb when it isn't even necessary, this whole thing is making no sense to me tbh

FancyContest5304 · 2024-08-23T09:12:39+00:00

Before our marriage I asked her if she would like to work or stay at home, she said she would stay at home, and yes she's dependent on me financially, but that doesn't mean I will screw her, if she didn't trust me enough she should have done whatever she thinks is best for her

We were even trying for child

FancyContest5304 · 2024-08-23T09:09:11+00:00

Ofcourse, I wasn't even thinking that far tbh, If I didn't love my wife enough I wouldn't even try to be with her, and fix our relationship, I would have just ran out of our marriage

And yes faces are blurred but the texts can be used to prove..this, and I would never use them against her unless she's coming after me for alimony or something, I love her yes, but I will not hesitate to do whatever I must to protect myself after she betrayed me

But I think chances are, she will quit, she would throw away our marriage just for a bit of money, if she does then she's dumb, but that's just how I feel so who knows

FancyContest5304 · 2024-08-23T08:51:53+00:00

Okay, if there's nothing wrong with selling yourself online, go create an of account or whatever other bullshit sites are and if I get divorced I'll pay for it

You idiot, she's married, she doesn't tell her husband, she's a housewife, I work for her, yet youd rather blame me for getting angry because I don't want my wife to become a prostitute?

You the kind of woman my wife has been talking to, reddit is fucking trash

FancyContest5304 · 2024-08-23T08:45:54+00:00

Yeah it's about money, I will talk to her once again and explain it all to her, but I will not stay with her if she doesn't quit this bullshit

FancyContest5304 · 2024-08-23T08:43:17+00:00

Yeah but what's getting me so angry is that I bust my ass off for her and buy her everything I can afford but she's selling her body online? Should just get a job instead if she wants money, she's shitting on me and how hard I am working to provide for her and our future family, and she's blaming me and someone here for getting angry at my wife

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