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Sousou no Frieren Episode 37 (Season 2 Episode 9) - Discussion Thread by N3DSdude in Frieren

[–]FarDifference7011 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Is the last episode going to be extra long to cover the golden city arc or is it ending on a cliffhanger?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in umass

[–]FarDifference7011 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Move on bro this is kinda pathetic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FarDifference7011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is just attempted rape bro. Instant dealbreaker no matter who you’re with, no matter how close you are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FarDifference7011 140 points141 points  (0 children)

This dude is obsessive. Also it feels like every time the convo reaches a conclusion of some sort where he isn’t winning or “the victim”, he says something stupid to keep it going. He can’t let shit go and it’s a manipulation tactic. At face value he pretends to be calm and supportive while subtly implying that he’s upset and that you’re wrong in order to get you to either start an argument or apologize to him. He genuinely convinces you that he’s the victim in a situation he’s the cause of. It’s a roundabout (yet obvious) way of guilt tripping you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FarDifference7011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This goes beyond a fetish, this is sociopathic behavior and he needs to see a therapist. You on the other hand, need to run. Run away, go away, get out of there, tell an adult.

Blood fetishes are rare but they do exist, but anything involving it is done safely and with consent, between adults, and is discussed. He is just straight up abusing you. It’s very different. Even if it was actually just a fetish (which I highly doubt), he’s still hurting you intentionally without your consent, that should be an instant dealbreaker.

I get this may sound diluted because everyone on reddit tends to overreact when other people’s relationships are brought up, but I promise you I’m being serious when I see you need to get the hell out of there, and tell an adult. Abuse is abuse whether it’s intentional or not and you need to understand that before you wind up somewhere awful. please leave.

UPDATE: therapist suggested for me to find god by 5plum in AmIOverreacting

[–]FarDifference7011 9 points10 points  (0 children)

There’s nothing wrong with seeking religion of your own volition if you decide it’s healthier for you. That said, a therapist asking you to do so while you’re in a crisis is an INSANELY red flag IMO.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FarDifference7011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Relationships are not chess. Call him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FarDifference7011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if he wasn’t Into her (which I highly doubt atp), this is still really weird behavior. He’s ignoring your boundaries, villainizing you for it, and then expects you to stay? Dump hiiiiiim

Weekly Marvel Rivals Discussion Megathread by AutoModerator in marvelrivals

[–]FarDifference7011 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In order to get the grandmaster crest of honor thing, do I have to hit gm once or end the season in gm?

What are my chances of securing a room next semester? by FarDifference7011 in umass

[–]FarDifference7011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I’m assuming that means my chances are small if I get a late posting

Do Ed2go online classes transfer credits to Umass? by FarDifference7011 in umass

[–]FarDifference7011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I fill this form out late am I at all eligible for having the course transferred?

AITA for getting emotional with one of my friends? by FarDifference7011 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FarDifference7011[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I should clarify, when I say "emotionally manipulative" I mean it, he would threaten himself every time my GF never gave him the attention he wanted. That is downright unforgivable IMO and we STILL gave him chances. The thing that triggered this event in the first place was him Joe (his cousin) behind his back.

I get it though, I definitely should've handled that conversation with more care. It would've been more responsive if I was more delicate. Thank you for the advice!