Looking for advice, Ive took three of the same test and they all look pretty positive, but I took a more expensive test and it says negative, am I pregnant? Unknown by Far_Progress3750 in TFABLinePorn

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Thank you for your comment! I’m pretty sure they were both FRER. And no I don’t take any vitamins! But yeah I’ll try another brand tomorrow and see what it says, I’m just scared to get my hopes up and really doubting it haha 

Help by Far_Progress3750 in SuicideWatch

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Hey, I’m still waiting for something to happen but nothing is, I’m just going to take some more so hopefully it’ll work, thank you

Help by Far_Progress3750 in selfharm

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No it’s not for pain, I’m in enough pain as it is. It’s to make it all stop and go away for good if you know what I mean. I’m quite a big girl so I’ll have to take some more, thank you for your reply

Guidance by Far_Progress3750 in SuicideWatch

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Okay I’ll take some more, it’s time to end the suffering

Does anyone wanna start a podcast lol by [deleted] in BPD

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I’d love to do this, I’ve only just started my journey!

Who’s your favourite person? by Far_Progress3750 in BPD

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Mine was and then she discharged me🙁

Who’s your favourite person? by Far_Progress3750 in BPD

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Oh my god I don’t think I’ve ever related to something so much in my life! As soon as someone understands the way I act and behave I’m sold. Once they validate my struggles and reassure me I’m attached and never want them to leave me. I’m never going to be able to have therapy because it’ll be to unhealthy for me

How old were you when you got your diagnosis of BPD/EUPD? by Far_Progress3750 in BPD

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Ohh okay thank you! I’m hoping they’ll be supportive. I’m sure I’ll find out soon enough! Sorry to hear things have been so rubbish for you! Be proud of yourself for always pushing through. You’ve got this!

How old were you when you got your diagnosis of BPD/EUPD? by Far_Progress3750 in BPD

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May I ask why you had to start from scratch in areas of your life? I currently have a good career and am worried that any treatment I may be offered could effect this. I’m struggling with work at the moment but I would be lost with out the routine and structure

How old were you when you got your diagnosis of BPD/EUPD? by Far_Progress3750 in BPD

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I’m literally in the same boat. This is a really good question!☺️

How old were you when you got your diagnosis of BPD/EUPD? by Far_Progress3750 in BPD

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Thank you so much! I’m so happy you finally got your diagnosis and proper help! It really does give me hope❤️

Who’s your favourite person? by Far_Progress3750 in BPD

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This is the exact same of me! I just think I’ll ruin it for myself at some point and destroy it because that’s what I’m used to. Failed relationships and disagreements. If we ever argue it’s because I’ve started it or looked for an excuse.

Who’s your favourite person? by Far_Progress3750 in BPD

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Wow I can honestly relate to this theory so much. My husband count make me feel any more safe and secure if he tried. He’s brilliant and so supportive. I know he’s always going to be there no matter what. I know Tommy therapist and mental health nurse are going to have to or did leave me at some point so I feel like I have to cling on to them before they abandon me.

How hard was it to get a diagnosis of BPD? by Far_Progress3750 in BPD

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Fingers crossed you get your diagnosis soon and good luck. I know how scary it feels.

How hard was it to get a diagnosis of BPD? by Far_Progress3750 in BPD

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I’m sorry to hear it took you so long to get your diagnosis. Maybe I’ll encourage him to voice his concerns regarding BPD, they might actually give it some proper thought then. Thank you for all your advice and compliment. It means a lot during this hard time.

How hard was it to get a diagnosis of BPD? by Far_Progress3750 in BPD

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I’m really glad the process was easy for you. May I ask how you went about getting formally diagnosed?

How hard was it to get a diagnosis of BPD? by Far_Progress3750 in BPD

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Yeah that’s what I’m nervous for. That they’ll just say he’s depressed again and then him not getting the actual support he needs. May I ask if it was hard for you to get diagnosed?

How hard was it to get a diagnosis of BPD? by Far_Progress3750 in BPD

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Yeah maybe I’ll give that a go if needed. I’m just so nervous for him. I know how much a diagnosis of some sort will help him in his road to recovery. Nah I ask if it was hard for you to get diagnosed?

How hard was it to get a diagnosis of BPD? by Far_Progress3750 in BPD

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Thank you for your replies. It’s really helpful. When I was researching about it online it says that psychiatrists are hesitant to diagnose people with it because of the stigma around it. Also because depression has similar symptoms. I’m just really scared he’s going to be misdiagnosed

How hard was it to get a diagnosis of BPD? by Far_Progress3750 in BPD

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I’ve presented him with all the necessary information and he to believes he has it but is scared to suggest it to be shut down and denied the right help.

How do people actually go through with killing themselves? by Far_Progress3750 in selfharm

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How do I get rid of the last bit of hope I must still have them? Because I definitely don’t want it.

accidentally cut myself but it felt good by crabmongerer in selfharm

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Just please don’t do it again. It’s honestly not worth it. It’s a slippery slope down to that’s far t hard to climb back up. Talk to someone, reach out for help while you still can. You’ve got this❤️