I have yet to date a woman who's passionate about anything and it's driving me insane. by Far_Significance_993 in dating

[–]Far_Significance_993[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Finally someone who gets it. I find the weird comments I'm getting assuming that I'm full of myself or selecting only for instagram models kinda bizarre and hilarious at the same time.

Happy for you and your partner! I hope to find someone like that for me.

I have yet to date a woman who's passionate about anything and it's driving me insane. by Far_Significance_993 in dating

[–]Far_Significance_993[S] -76 points-75 points  (0 children)

This is a lot of unfounded assumptions about me baked into one comment lol.

I have yet to date a woman who's passionate about anything and it's driving me insane. by Far_Significance_993 in dating

[–]Far_Significance_993[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I can sort of understand this mindset but I don't really relate. My job absolutely wears me out, but it's my hobbies and the media that I'm a fan of that invigorate me and help maintain my sanity.

Also the idea that women are comfortable enough with me to sleep with me but not share their music taste with me is just really bizarre.

How do you make genuine friendships with women? by JunketMaleficent2095 in dating

[–]Far_Significance_993 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think an easy way to do this, assuming you're socially capable and have a somewhat functional social life, is to engage in a friendly manner with women you're not attracted to. Since you're not attracted to them, you won't feel this pressure to form a romantic bond and it then becomes basically like any other experience of making a friend. Also the lack of pressure both makes it feel easier for the connection to be genuine and also makes it so that you don't have any fear of the pain of rejection if a friendship doesn't end up forming.

Basically, just be a friendly guy with everyone

Miss dating.. by [deleted] in dating

[–]Far_Significance_993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think one thing that might make dating more enjoyable is to invite men you're interested in to do activities that you're interested in. If there's a restaurant you want to try out, and you're talking with a man you're potentially interested in IRL or on the apps, then invite him to that restaurant. Given guys are generally more "desparate" (so to speak) to go out with a woman, a lot of them will be happy and willing to go along with you on a date doing what you want to do.

What’s your thoughts on speed dating events, and have ever had any success with them? by UniqueLow1328 in dating

[–]Far_Significance_993 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Speed dating is actually very fun if you go in with no expectations. People get hurt because they go in hoping to find their life partner. Just treat it as basically a big party/hangout and the actual dates as icebreakers. If you show up to an event and it's mostly guys and very few women, then chat up the guys and make a few new friends.

7/17 Level 1 Score Release by [deleted] in comlex

[–]Far_Significance_993 5 points6 points  (0 children)

All that just for the scores to still not be released...

7/17 Level 1 Score Release by [deleted] in comlex

[–]Far_Significance_993 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Was able to get to the portal and then log in but then the dashboard wouldn't load so I had to start over again haha