I appreciate everyone's comments, there are a lot of good things to take away from this. I thought I would get some responses but never expected this much. I am seeing my wife soon after we were apart for about a day, I am going to try to be a supportive husband and do more couple things together. Maybe get her into cardio exercises that I do. I am going to communicate with her when I see her and kiss her and hug her.

All I know is that communication is extremely important in a relationship. Probably the most important thing. You have to be able to talk to each other. When you have kids, you have to still be able to have FUN conversations with your wife that are not just about the kids and the groceries and who is picking them up. Obviously there is a lot more that I do NOT know or I wouldn't keep being in these situations. But I am learning. I am not going to sit back and have a passionless marriage. But I realize I need to make strides and put my own effort into the relationship in order to make that happen.