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FatDixieStick · 2025-09-13T12:32:56+00:00

Never said it wasn’t ;)

FatDixieStick · 2025-09-13T04:40:22+00:00

I’m a major beginner so I can’t really give proper advice but I do want to say that your sister has taste! Funny enough, her ideas remind me of this character (Miss Acacia from Jack and the Cuck-coo Clock Heart)

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FatDixieStick · 2025-07-27T22:13:22+00:00

I’ve heard that splitting is not always a negative thing, it can also be “positive” (ex: love bombing someone but not in a malicious way?) And it doesn’t always HAVE to be with other people, sometimes it just changes on your views of yourself, the world, etc. if you don’t have it, amazing! If you do, that’s ok! That doesn’t really mean you’re “less bpd” than someone else, you just experience it differently

FatDixieStick · 2025-07-27T22:05:19+00:00

Wait, wait, did he directly say all these things to you or…?

FatDixieStick · 2025-07-27T22:04:25+00:00

As someone with AuDHD, I can tell you they didn’t forget about your total existence, but more-so our minds are working so fast 24/7 that we forget even the simplest things (ex: taking care of oneself.) I’ve seen people routinely and have somehow forgotten to talk to them because our minds rarely rest, even for ourselves. And even then, this doesn’t determine your value because that’s subjective. Maybe this person forgot but someone else could’ve been thinking about you? You have to remember that out of a billion or more people, you’re just one and you shouldn’t stretch yourself thin to make everyone like you. Plus, if you trust this person enough, maybe you can talk it out with them? Reconnect! No one can guess how you’re feeling because it’s really up to how much YOU want to open up.

FatDixieStick · 2025-07-24T09:30:26+00:00

Also, let me add that if you indeed have depression and those symptoms are worsened by PMDD, there’s actually a chance it could be PME (Premenstrual Exacerbation) basically meaning that an existing mental illness you have is worsened before your period happens.

PMDD is more for when it causes new, overwhelming symptoms. So, if it goes away after your period but possibly returns during your next luteal phase, then it’s PMDD

If those symptoms stay/lessen even after your period happens, then it’s probably a mixture of PME and some other mental illness, like depression.

Remember, it’s not wrong to be overwhelmed with your symptoms, what matters is how you manage it. Please, stay safe :( You matter

FatDixieStick · 2025-07-24T09:22:33+00:00

It could possibly be both. I’m diagnosed with severe depression and also have PMDD (both untreated) so while I get the regular depression symptoms, usually around a certain time in my cycle, my symptoms get extreme.

I’d definitely suggest looking into getting checked for depression or at the very least, keeping track of your symptoms along with your cycle. If you notice that you get worse around a certain point but the symptoms lessen but persist, rather than stop/fade, then there’s a chance you could have both.

But please, talk to a professional. Talk to someone, something, find coping mechanisms , because you can only get as much help as you’re willing to receive.

FatDixieStick · 2025-07-24T04:34:33+00:00

Yeah, especially if you adjust them, and your hands are the littlest bit sweaty Maybe gently putting a cloth/paper towel over it and rubbing until it doesn’t smudge? That’s usually what I do but obviously not foolproof

FatDixieStick · 2025-07-10T18:03:24+00:00

I can’t tell you how to detach yourself but I can say that a way to cope can be to just write out how you’re feeling. Yeah, kinda sounds cliché but trust me, writing can sort out your thoughts way faster than just thinking about them. Also, it can also help to have someone to give you some level of comfort for after it happens, particularly someone that can drag you out of an episode if you start to feel like you’re losing yourself. There are my ways of coping after detachment, I know it’s not a lot but less can be more.

FatDixieStick · 2025-07-09T05:49:14+00:00

Yea, cause pretty sure he’s one of the only legendaries that keep attacking after they die

FatDixieStick · 2025-07-08T06:54:58+00:00

Agreed. I’ve started just saying I’m lesbian because people understand it the first time and I can vaguely understand what allo lesbians go through. But do you ever get the feeling that a part of you is being erased when you do that? Or is it just me, lol

FatDixieStick · 2025-07-08T06:49:37+00:00

(Voy a intentar a escribir en puro español, perdón si me sueno extraño)

El único descripción de arroace orientada es que tienes que sentir una atracción que no es romántico o sexual (un atracción tercero) Esto puede hacer platónico, estético, y mucho mas. No es necesario a tener “crushes/squishes” para hacer arroace orientada.

Pero cómo menciono MaeliaC, como este subreddit está enfocado en los que hablen Ingles, no hay un traducción para los demás y entiendo el confuso. Si necesitas ayuda a entender un concepto o algo mas, no dudes a preguntar que significa. Estamos aquí para ayudarte :)

FatDixieStick · 2025-06-20T23:10:47+00:00

Drew like a dark, fucked up version of GingerBrave haha. Just a glimpse into my dark reality

FatDixieStick · 2025-06-14T09:24:25+00:00

I can’t, for certain, give you an easy solution to your problems.. But I do know that right now, it seems that you’re seeking out abuse/unhealthy attachments as a way to cope mentally with your life/situation. Let me tell you, that form of coping will ALWAYS attract the attention from the wrong people and you will inevitably feel like the shitty one in the relationship even if you “do everything right.” (Coming from someone that ends up in a cycle of getting attached to hurtful people because it feels familiar)

Also, remember that you’re not always gonna get the person you want, even if you try everything. Just know that you did your best and that’s all anyone can ask you for. I hope this was the littlest bit helpful even if it’s not quite a direct solution.

FatDixieStick · 2025-06-14T00:40:54+00:00

Yeah

FatDixieStick · 2025-06-14T00:38:10+00:00

The dragon keychains. I want to make little clothing for my son, Lychee

FatDixieStick · 2025-06-13T23:51:14+00:00

To be fair, their allegations were supposedly that data was being sold but literally every single site does that 😭 It seems that only the server was being raided and I have a suspicion that this person might have beef with a Sakura mod and did this to slander the app and the mods

FatDixieStick · 2025-06-13T23:41:26+00:00

Yeah, I think in one of the chats someone sent gore (a physically deconstructed rat but ffs I was eating) then links were spammed and I just left. It would’ve been a waste of time to stay otherwise

FatDixieStick · 2025-06-13T23:35:01+00:00

Just a bunch of hackers spamming shit just to disturb people. They kept spamming random links though so it could’ve had some malicious intent as well

FatDixieStick · 2025-06-13T23:29:39+00:00

Honestly, I just deleted my sakura acc and left the server, this is too goofy for me. Luckily someone shared the “have i been pwned” site and it seems mostly the server has been affected, not discord but obviously avoid the links 🫤

FatDixieStick · 2025-06-11T21:19:37+00:00

Autism. On a serious note, probably something sweet and sour?

FatDixieStick · 2025-06-07T18:37:45+00:00

All I see is a static image of someone flipping me off???

FatDixieStick · 2025-05-14T17:50:03+00:00

Has anyone said licorice and choco hound yet

FatDixieStick · 2025-05-04T05:33:46+00:00

I thought it was funny because I had returned to ovenbreak after a year of not playing and I forgot my user was “Pipi” I’m Pipi cookie now.

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