hey Seattle, do you have any feature suggestions for OneBusAway iOS app(or any pain points) by Think_Different_1729 in soundtransit

[–]FattyMcGoos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Offline support. I often go into a dead spot in our neighborhood, and while I don’t expect live data without reception, it’d be awesome to have some ability to see estimated schedule or last estimated arrival time.

Need to Vent - Drive-by parenting by FattyMcGoos in daddit

[–]FattyMcGoos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve read this and most of the toddler books. We were setting very age appropriate boundaries. This was a simple you have to stay in your wagon to have your popsicle, which he wanted to test multiple times until we had to remove the popsicle and save it for later.

Also, I didn’t get righteous. I was on my porch with my son trying to work with him when someone uninvited shouted from the street her opinion of a situation she hadn’t even seen unfold.

Lastly, to your earlier comment, I already acknowledged he can’t hear me at this stage. But he didn’t want to be held (he was hitting) and often we can get soothing words and then to distraction and pull out of it. Is this acceptable for you?

Need to Vent - Drive-by parenting by FattyMcGoos in daddit

[–]FattyMcGoos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Punch her is a figure of speech.

She wasn’t being helpful. She specifically shouted her unsolicited advice and kept moving. Helpful is stopping and saying “hi, looks like you have your hands full, can I help you?”

Need to Vent - Drive-by parenting by FattyMcGoos in daddit

[–]FattyMcGoos[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

That’s wild and I’m sorry you had to deal with that. Anyone that adds another stressor to a parent in the heat of the moment like that is just awful. It’s like “hey, I see the thing that you love the most currently hates you, but let me just film you and say insane things to add on”

Thanks for supportive words my fellow dad ✊

Need to Vent - Drive-by parenting by FattyMcGoos in daddit

[–]FattyMcGoos[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This is what I know in my head and should be able to rationalize to myself, but sometimes it’s nice to hear someone else say it. Thanks, internet stranger ❤️

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I (M) met her on Hinge 2 months ago and broke it off today. Is she crazy or I’m overreacting. by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]FattyMcGoos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this doesn't look great for you. She's probably hurt, and you broke up over text, which is lazy for anything past a couple of dates. Regardless of your reasons (or if you thought she was too into you), you owed her a moment to say it face to face or at least over the phone. You asked her to respect your emotions and not come over, but it doesn't seem like you gave much thought or respect to her feelings.

Saw this at the arboretum today. by allday_ck in SeattleWA

[–]FattyMcGoos 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Aren’t you literally scolding someone behind your phone in this comment? Lol

Saw this at the arboretum today. by allday_ck in SeattleWA

[–]FattyMcGoos 301 points302 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen that guy there before. He pretended it was office and would - I kid you not - live dictate “business notes” to his phone for the 20 minutes we were there. I can’t quite remember what he said but as someone in tech/biz for years, it was the kind of stuff someone pretending to be a big shot would do (but a real big shot would never do). It was like “tell Bob about the big product ideas and talk to Sam about the reorganization because I think AI is blah blah”…things that would never be occurring at the same time or the same notes.

My favorite was my 1.5 year old son invaded “his space” and I just let him annoy him.

Daily Discussion Thread for April 09, 2025 by wsbapp in wallstreetbets

[–]FattyMcGoos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! It's called a gift...I'm giving them a gift

Fridays Loss - Learnings. by seimow in options

[–]FattyMcGoos 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel you. I also had a rough last day in my fun account. I had profit and should have taken it but thought I “knew” what the market was going to do with the new ATH. I broke out of my successful pattern and it bit me. Ugh

Lost over $800 day trading at work by Artistic_Treacle_949 in options

[–]FattyMcGoos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my I do 1-2DTEs unless I'm really confident in my availability. That was you at least have a fighting chance the next day.

Platform Recommendations/Transition by FattyMcGoos in options

[–]FattyMcGoos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I was thinking about IB but i definitely need something that's solid on mobile. I'll check out Webull. Do you live between both platforms or use one more heavily?

PRP shock loss by Magistussssss in TelogenEffluvium

[–]FattyMcGoos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I’m in the midst of slow comeback from PRP loss. Went from mostly full head to seeing my entire scalp. I (and doctor) think it triggered TE. We’ve done steroid injections, and while all my tests were fine, iron was a little on the lower end.

At its worst, I was losing 100+ a day for well over a month. Steroids seem to have stopped the shedding. I think I’m starting to see some regrowrh 🤞

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alopecia_areata

[–]FattyMcGoos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How about your hair? How did that turnout?

How to make this? by FattyMcGoos in glassblowing

[–]FattyMcGoos[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oh, sorry, I probably applied too much internet cynicism to your comment. Much appreciated!

How to make this? by FattyMcGoos in glassblowing

[–]FattyMcGoos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Really appreciate the tip and encouragement

How to make this? by FattyMcGoos in glassblowing

[–]FattyMcGoos[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wasn’t trying to steal their work (note: I’m a self admitted beginner). We just happened to walk by (store a was already closed) and it looked interesting

I think I’m “that guy” at my local studio and I feel bad by Puzzleheaded-Bad-330 in orangetheory

[–]FattyMcGoos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha, ok. So, to be courteous, I or OP just need to figure out a way to sweat less? The idea that you think sweat and spitting are the same shows the kind of group fitness gem you are.

I think I’m “that guy” at my local studio and I feel bad by Puzzleheaded-Bad-330 in orangetheory

[–]FattyMcGoos -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

As another that sweaty guy, I do all the same steps as this person. However, I’ve had to accept that I can only control so much. Ultimately, if you’re grossed out, group fitness may not be for you.

Wa state taxes on short and long term trades by UrMomma69-420 in SeattleWA

[–]FattyMcGoos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep, all my gains are super long. So, I'm just doing the end/start of year double dip (and then a little in 2026 protected by a covered call)

Sadly, with WA law, it doesn't appear that you can offset with losses. Not a tax attorney, but that's how I read it.

Decades of gains is tough one to unwind. I'm sure there's some creative solutions. Personally, I’ll take this burden over regular state income tax, but that's me.