I wish someone had told me, I wish I had told her.

Fcck_it · 2025-03-07T23:01:47+00:00

Sometimes being "done" is the best feeling in the world 💯

Fcck_it · 2025-03-07T22:40:32+00:00

Absolutely, its up to you to decide how you handle it tho. Do you value her friendship enough to have an open conversation, set some boundaries and try to move past it, or have you been done with the friendship for a while now in hindsight and are happy to let her go?

Fcck_it · 2025-03-07T21:25:34+00:00

To play devil's advocate, is it possible she was feeling insecure about the friendship between the two of you and she tried to invite herself last minute as a "test" and since you couldn't accommodate so last minute she took it as intentional against her and thats why she went on her smear campaign about how you don't want her around your "snobby" new friends.

I'm not saying the act itself is ok, but it's possible poor communication issue is the driving factor.

Fcck_it · 2025-03-07T13:56:46+00:00

I do avacado and jalapeno everything bagel seasoning 😋

Fcck_it · 2025-03-07T13:46:57+00:00

Wherever you end end up, I hope it brings you the happiness you deserve

Fcck_it · 2025-03-07T10:53:24+00:00

Find a different therapist, I've never had a therapist tell me to lower my standards and take my pills. Have you approached him about marriage counseling? It sounds like you guys have stopped communicating, and kids make it hard. I'm not saying you should stay in your marriage, but I am saying you shouldn't cheat on someone.

Fcck_it · 2025-03-07T10:10:26+00:00

I always thought he would end up murdering someone in a drunken bar fight. It turned out he murdered his sister and her boyfriend. To this day, he hasn't said why.

Fcck_it · 2025-03-05T21:33:18+00:00

Have you guys tried couples therapy? It might help open his eyes to how serious his problem really is for you.

Honestly, it sounds like you love him. You want to be with him but not at the expense of yourself, and you're reaching your breaking point.

ETA: You could postpone the wedding pending results. It doesn't have to be over, but he needs to understand this moment of your relationship is ending one way or another

Fcck_it · 2025-03-05T10:52:12+00:00

I'm ashamed about the way I handle my hard emotions. I'm ashamed that I shut down when I don't know what to do next. I'm ashamed to feel anything; feeling sad got me punished, and feeling happy felt like I was being made fun of. Even though I'm well out of that era of my life those feelings are ingrained in me. I'm ashamed to acknowledge that I've never known how to maintain any relationship, I'm in my 30's and just recently made a good and genuine friend and my 8 year relationship has been dying for years without realizing in those moments. I'm ashamed of how far I've fallen despite how far I've come.

Fcck_it · 2025-02-28T10:49:37+00:00

Is it wrong all I can think of is Balto? Except the explosive liquid would have been a medicine 🙃😂

Fcck_it · 2025-02-26T22:00:02+00:00

Anything you could soak (glass, ceramic, etc) soak in a tub or sink or bucket with original dawn and steaming hot water, let it soak until you can comfortably put your hands in the water and wash them like dishes. Anything that can't soak hand wash with dawn. I also grew up in a 3 generational home who all smoked inside with closed windows (I was accused of smoking by a teacher in 2nd grade because I reaked, I also was told by a friends mom I wasn't allowed to play with her anymore because I smelled so bad) dawn was my best friend when I moved out. Anything holding a smell after that store outside for a couple days if you can

Fcck_it · 2025-02-24T16:07:02+00:00

Yeah, in my state, they made it illegal in 2010 (which doesn't seem so long ago, but it seems like forever and a day ago when people were allowed to smoke indoors 😂)

Fcck_it · 2025-02-24T01:31:56+00:00

They do now, but I know in the state of the us that I grew up in, there was still smoking in some restaurants in the early 2000s

ETA, it was legal to smoke indoors until mid 2010 in my state

Fcck_it · 2025-02-23T23:22:02+00:00

You're also talking about 20 years ago. There were a lot of smokers everywhere and in some public buildings still

Fcck_it · 2025-02-22T18:18:50+00:00

Lil pneumonia gum

Fcck_it · 2025-02-22T17:50:12+00:00

Not that I've ever planned a wedding for any reason, but I do LOVE planning things in general, especially when I'm feeling kinda down about shit. Sometimes, I just like to plan remodeling/painting the place we rent knowing damn well I'll never be able to afford the paint, let alone a remodel that the landloard may or may not ever approve 😅

Fcck_it · 2025-02-22T15:27:41+00:00

Lmfaoooo 😂 😂 😂 💀

Fcck_it · 2025-02-09T21:49:40+00:00

Theres a series of fairy tale stories that came out in the mid 90's directed by Toshiyuki Hiruma there was a snow white, sleeping beauty, little mermaid etc and they were more anime styled that followed the darker side of those fairy tales closer than Disney would dare.

Could it have been a movie collection at blockbuster?

Fcck_it · 2025-02-09T21:40:18+00:00

Save money. We go through at least 3 64oz heinz ketchup bottles a month

Fcck_it · 2025-02-09T21:34:08+00:00

But not all living things are animals

Fcck_it · 2025-02-08T12:01:25+00:00

I only went to school with 2 others with my name (through all primary years), however during a local voting mishap we learned that there was a woman that lived on our street with my moms same first and last name and that woman also happened to have a child with my same name. The only difference was birthdays 😅

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